{"id":14632,"date":"2025-12-16T12:38:33","date_gmt":"2025-12-16T12:38:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=14632"},"modified":"2025-12-16T12:38:33","modified_gmt":"2025-12-16T12:38:33","slug":"am-34-de-ani-si-sunt-in-concediu-de-maternitate-acasa-cu-gemenii-mei-nou-nascuti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=14632","title":{"rendered":"Am 34 de ani \u0219i sunt \u00een concediu de maternitate, acas\u0103 cu gemenii mei nou-n\u0103scu\u021bi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"2085\" data-end=\"2207\">\u00cen buc\u0103t\u0103rie s-a f\u0103cut lini\u0219te. Se auzea doar tic\u0103itul ceasului de pe perete \u0219i respira\u021bia gemenilor din camera al\u0103turat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2209\" data-end=\"2301\">\u201eVreau s\u0103-i mul\u021bumesc\u201d, am continuat eu calm, \u201epentru delega\u021bia aceea\u2026 at\u00e2t de solicitant\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2303\" data-end=\"2328\">Andrei a \u00eenghi\u021bit \u00een sec.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2330\" data-end=\"2392\">\u201eO delega\u021bie care i-a adus nu doar oboseal\u0103, ci \u0219i\u2026 varicel\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2394\" data-end=\"2453\">Mama a ridicat spr\u00e2ncenele. Tat\u0103l vitreg s-a foit pe scaun.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2455\" data-end=\"2564\">\u201eE boal\u0103 de copii\u201d, am ad\u0103ugat eu, z\u00e2mbind. \u201eDe obicei o iei de la cineva foarte apropiat. Foarte\u2026 apropiat.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2566\" data-end=\"2636\">Privirea Irinei s-a dus spre mas\u0103. A \u00eenceput s\u0103 se joace cu furculi\u021ba.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2638\" data-end=\"2758\">\u201eCoinciden\u021b\u0103 sau nu\u201d, am spus, \u201eexact \u00een acela\u0219i weekend, Irina s-a \u00eentors dintr-o \u2018ie\u0219ire cu fetele\u2019 cu aceea\u0219i boal\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2760\" data-end=\"2794\">Mama a \u00eentors capul brusc spre ea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2796\" data-end=\"2823\">\u201eIrina\u2026?\u201d a \u00eentrebat \u00eencet.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2825\" data-end=\"2920\">Am pus paharul jos \u0219i am scos telefonul din buzunar. L-am a\u0219ezat pe mas\u0103 \u0219i am deschis galeria.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2922\" data-end=\"2993\">\u201e\u0218ti\u021bi\u201d, am spus, \u201enu sunt genul care s\u0103 \u021bipe. Dar \u00eemi place adev\u0103rul.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2995\" data-end=\"3106\">Am \u00eentors telefonul spre ei. Prima poz\u0103. A doua. Halatul. \u0218ampania. Apoi poza cu m\u00e2na ei pe pieptul lui Andrei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3108\" data-end=\"3132\">Mama a dus m\u00e2na la gur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3134\" data-end=\"3153\">\u201eDoamne\u2026\u201d a \u0219optit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3155\" data-end=\"3198\">Irina s-a ridicat brusc. \u201eNu e ce crede\u021bi\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3200\" data-end=\"3405\">\u201eBa exact asta e\u201d, am spus eu, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ridic tonul. \u201eUn hotel, o delega\u021bie inventat\u0103, o boal\u0103 luat\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103 \u0219i un so\u021b care vine acas\u0103 s\u0103 fie \u00eengrijit de mine, \u00een timp ce eu al\u0103ptam doi copii la trei ore.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3407\" data-end=\"3465\">Andrei s-a ridicat \u0219i el. \u201eTe rog\u2026 putem vorbi \u00een privat.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3467\" data-end=\"3487\">Am cl\u0103tinat din cap.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3489\" data-end=\"3516\">\u201eNu. Privat a fost destul.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3518\" data-end=\"3536\">Am respirat ad\u00e2nc.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3538\" data-end=\"3641\">\u201eAndrei, m\u00e2ine diminea\u021b\u0103 mergi la mama ta. Avocatul meu te va contacta. Am pus deja actele \u00een mi\u0219care.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3643\" data-end=\"3662\">Fa\u021ba lui s-a albit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3664\" data-end=\"3722\">\u201eIar tu, Irina\u201d, m-am \u00eentors spre ea, \u201eai pierdut o sor\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3724\" data-end=\"3850\">Mama a izbucnit \u00een pl\u00e2ns. Tat\u0103l vitreg s-a ridicat \u0219i i-a cerut Irinei s\u0103 plece. A ie\u0219it cu capul plecat, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 spun\u0103 nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3852\" data-end=\"3907\">Andrei a mai stat c\u00e2teva secunde, apoi \u0219i-a luat haina.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3909\" data-end=\"3930\">U\u0219a s-a \u00eenchis \u00eencet.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3932\" data-end=\"4021\">Am r\u0103mas singur\u0103 \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie. Am sim\u021bit cum \u00eemi tremur\u0103 genunchii, dar nu m-am pr\u0103bu\u0219it.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4023\" data-end=\"4112\">M-am dus la p\u0103tu\u021burile gemenilor. Dormeau lini\u0219ti\u021bi, cu pumnii str\u00e2n\u0219i, respira\u021bia egal\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4114\" data-end=\"4138\">I-am privit \u0219i am \u0219tiut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4140\" data-end=\"4167\">Nu pierdusem nimic valoros.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4169\" data-end=\"4190\">Pierdusem o minciun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4192\" data-end=\"4330\">\u00cen lunile care au urmat, n-a fost u\u0219or. Au fost nop\u021bi f\u0103r\u0103 somn, drumuri la avoca\u021bi, facturi, fric\u0103. Dar a fost \u0219i lini\u0219te. A fost adev\u0103r.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4332\" data-end=\"4391\">Ast\u0103zi, c\u00e2nd cineva m\u0103 \u00eentreab\u0103 cum am avut curaj, z\u00e2mbesc.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4393\" data-end=\"4409\">Nu a fost curaj.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4411\" data-end=\"4471\">A fost dragostea pentru copiii mei \u0219i respectul pentru mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4473\" data-end=\"4498\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">\u0218i asta a fost suficient.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cen buc\u0103t\u0103rie s-a f\u0103cut lini\u0219te. Se auzea doar tic\u0103itul ceasului de pe perete \u0219i respira\u021bia gemenilor din camera al\u0103turat\u0103. \u201eVreau s\u0103-i mul\u021bumesc\u201d, am continuat eu calm, \u201epentru delega\u021bia aceea\u2026 at\u00e2t de solicitant\u0103.\u201d Andrei a \u00eenghi\u021bit \u00een sec. \u201eO delega\u021bie care i-a adus nu doar oboseal\u0103, ci \u0219i\u2026 varicel\u0103.\u201d Mama a ridicat spr\u00e2ncenele. Tat\u0103l vitreg s-a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14633,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14632","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14632","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14632"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14632\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14634,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14632\/revisions\/14634"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/14633"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14632"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14632"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14632"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}