{"id":14907,"date":"2025-12-21T10:58:35","date_gmt":"2025-12-21T10:58:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=14907"},"modified":"2025-12-21T10:58:35","modified_gmt":"2025-12-21T10:58:35","slug":"am-65-de-ani-am-divortat-acum-5-ani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=14907","title":{"rendered":"Am 65 de ani. Am divor\u021bat acum 5 ani."},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"2715\" data-end=\"2757\">Cifrele de pe h\u00e2rtie nu aveau niciun sens.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2759\" data-end=\"2848\">M-am uitat din nou. \u0218i din nou.<br data-start=\"2790\" data-end=\"2793\" \/>Mi-am frecat ochii, crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 vederea \u00eemi joac\u0103 feste.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2850\" data-end=\"2874\">Nu erau trei mii de lei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2876\" data-end=\"2906\">Erau peste <strong data-start=\"2887\" data-end=\"2905\">420.000 de lei<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2908\" data-end=\"2993\">Am sim\u021bit cum mi se taie picioarele.<br data-start=\"2944\" data-end=\"2947\" \/>M-am prins de marginea ghi\u0219eului ca s\u0103 nu cad.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2995\" data-end=\"3028\">\u2014 E\u2026 e o gre\u0219eal\u0103? am b\u00e2iguit eu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3030\" data-end=\"3132\">T\u00e2n\u0103ra a cl\u0103tinat din cap.<br data-start=\"3056\" data-end=\"3059\" \/>\u2014 Nu, doamn\u0103. Soldul este real. Banii sunt aici de cinci ani. Cu dob\u00e2nd\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3134\" data-end=\"3227\">Am sim\u021bit un val de c\u0103ldur\u0103 \u00een piept, apoi lacrimile au \u00eenceput s\u0103 curg\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 le pot opri.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3229\" data-end=\"3326\">Ion.<br data-start=\"3233\" data-end=\"3236\" \/>Omul care m-a tratat ca pe un nimic.<br data-start=\"3272\" data-end=\"3275\" \/>Omul care mi-a spus c\u0103 valorez c\u00e2t trei mii de lei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3328\" data-end=\"3361\">Cum ajunseser\u0103 at\u00e2\u021bia bani acolo?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3363\" data-end=\"3468\">Am ie\u0219it din banc\u0103 \u00een stare de \u0219oc. M-am a\u0219ezat pe o banc\u0103 din fa\u021b\u0103 \u0219i am r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103 minute \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3470\" data-end=\"3555\">Abia mai t\u00e2rziu, c\u00e2nd am reu\u0219it s\u0103-mi adun g\u00e2ndurile, am sunat-o pe fiica mea, Maria.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3557\" data-end=\"3606\">\u2014 Mam\u0103\u2026 e\u0219ti bine? vocea ei s-a schimbat imediat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3608\" data-end=\"3650\">I-am spus totul.<br data-start=\"3624\" data-end=\"3627\" \/>A venit \u00eentr-un suflet.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3652\" data-end=\"3732\">A doua zi am mers din nou la banc\u0103, \u00eempreun\u0103.<br data-start=\"3697\" data-end=\"3700\" \/>Un consilier ne-a explicat calm.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3734\" data-end=\"3803\">\u00cen ziua divor\u021bului, Ion nu pusese 3.000 de lei.<br data-start=\"3781\" data-end=\"3784\" \/>Pusese <strong data-start=\"3791\" data-end=\"3802\">300.000<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3805\" data-end=\"3879\">\u0218i, dintr-un motiv pe care nu l-a explicat nim\u0103nui, \u00eemi spusese alt\u0103 sum\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3881\" data-end=\"4006\">Poate din orgoliu.<br data-start=\"3899\" data-end=\"3902\" \/>Poate ca s\u0103 par\u0103 \u201em\u0103rinimos\u201d doar \u00een aparen\u021b\u0103.<br data-start=\"3948\" data-end=\"3951\" \/>Poate pentru c\u0103 nu a avut curajul s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4008\" data-end=\"4052\">Sau poate a crezut c\u0103 nu voi afla niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4054\" data-end=\"4090\">Am semnat actele cu m\u00e2na tremur\u00e2nd\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4092\" data-end=\"4144\">\u00cen zilele urm\u0103toare, via\u021ba mea s-a schimbat radical.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4146\" data-end=\"4235\">Am fost internat\u0103. Am primit tratament. Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nc din nou, s\u0103 dorm f\u0103r\u0103 fric\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4237\" data-end=\"4356\">Prima mea grij\u0103 nu a fost s\u0103-mi cump\u0103r lucruri.<br data-start=\"4284\" data-end=\"4287\" \/>Ci s\u0103-mi \u00eenchiriez o garsonier\u0103 curat\u0103, luminoas\u0103, aproape de spital.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4358\" data-end=\"4421\">Am cump\u0103rat o mas\u0103 adev\u0103rat\u0103.<br data-start=\"4387\" data-end=\"4390\" \/>Un pat bun.<br data-start=\"4401\" data-end=\"4404\" \/>O plapum\u0103 groas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4423\" data-end=\"4472\">Lucruri simple, dar care pentru mine erau un lux.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4474\" data-end=\"4502\">C\u00e2nd Ion a aflat, m-a sunat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4504\" data-end=\"4523\">Dup\u0103 ani de t\u0103cere.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4525\" data-end=\"4574\">\u2014 Ai fost la banc\u0103, nu-i a\u0219a? a spus, f\u0103r\u0103 salut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4576\" data-end=\"4609\">\u2014 Da, am fost, i-am r\u0103spuns calm.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4611\" data-end=\"4619\">A t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4621\" data-end=\"4658\">\u2014 Nu trebuia s\u0103 afli a\u0219a\u2026 a murmurat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4660\" data-end=\"4731\">\u2014 Nu trebuia s\u0103 m\u0103 la\u0219i s\u0103 fl\u0103m\u00e2nzesc, i-am spus. Nici asta nu trebuia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4733\" data-end=\"4782\">Nu i-am cerut nimic.<br data-start=\"4753\" data-end=\"4756\" \/>Nu i-am repro\u0219at mai mult.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4784\" data-end=\"4794\">Am \u00eenchis.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4796\" data-end=\"4865\">Pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 mul\u021bi ani, nu mai sim\u021beam ur\u0103.<br data-start=\"4849\" data-end=\"4852\" \/>Doar lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4867\" data-end=\"5016\">Ast\u0103zi, la 65 de ani, tr\u0103iesc modest, dar f\u0103r\u0103 fric\u0103.<br data-start=\"4920\" data-end=\"4923\" \/>\u00cemi ajut copiii c\u00e2nd pot.<br data-start=\"4948\" data-end=\"4951\" \/>Donez din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd la cantina social\u0103 unde, odat\u0103, m\u00e2ncam eu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5018\" data-end=\"5084\">Via\u021ba nu mi-a dat dreptate imediat.<br data-start=\"5053\" data-end=\"5056\" \/>Dar mi-a dat-o p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5086\" data-end=\"5109\">\u0218i am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat un lucru:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5111\" data-end=\"5206\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Uneori, ceea ce pare o umilin\u021b\u0103\u2026<br data-start=\"5143\" data-end=\"5146\" \/>este doar adev\u0103rul care a\u0219teapt\u0103 momentul s\u0103 ias\u0103 la lumin\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cifrele de pe h\u00e2rtie nu aveau niciun sens. M-am uitat din nou. \u0218i din nou.Mi-am frecat ochii, crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 vederea \u00eemi joac\u0103 feste. Nu erau trei mii de lei. Erau peste 420.000 de lei. Am sim\u021bit cum mi se taie picioarele.M-am prins de marginea ghi\u0219eului ca s\u0103 nu cad. \u2014 E\u2026 e o gre\u0219eal\u0103? am [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14908,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14907","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14907","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14907"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14907\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14909,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14907\/revisions\/14909"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/14908"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14907"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14907"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14907"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}