{"id":16977,"date":"2026-01-12T07:30:23","date_gmt":"2026-01-12T07:30:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=16977"},"modified":"2026-01-12T07:30:23","modified_gmt":"2026-01-12T07:30:23","slug":"fiul-meu-a-intrat-la-festivitatea-de-absolvire-imbracat-in-rosu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=16977","title":{"rendered":"Fiul meu a intrat la festivitatea de absolvire \u00eembr\u0103cat \u00een ro\u0219u"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"2920\" data-end=\"2985\">A tras aer ad\u00e2nc \u00een piept, de parc\u0103 urma s\u0103 sar\u0103 \u00eentr-o ap\u0103 rece.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2987\" data-end=\"3030\">\u2014 La festivitate\u2026 o s\u0103 port o c\u0103ma\u0219\u0103 ro\u0219ie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3032\" data-end=\"3042\">Am clipit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3044\" data-end=\"3114\">\u2014 \u0218i? am \u00eentrebat, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 z\u00e2mbesc. \u0218tii c\u0103 nu conteaz\u0103 culoarea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3116\" data-end=\"3133\">\u0218i-a mu\u0219cat buza.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3135\" data-end=\"3155\">\u2014 Ba conteaz\u0103. Mult.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3157\" data-end=\"3249\">Atunci am \u0219tiut. Nu ce urma s\u0103-mi spun\u0103, dar c\u0103 era ceva serios, ceva care \u00eel ap\u0103sa de mult.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3251\" data-end=\"3294\">\u2014 Andrei, po\u021bi s\u0103-mi spui orice, i-am spus.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3296\" data-end=\"3334\">S-a a\u0219ezat la mas\u0103, cu umerii aduna\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3336\" data-end=\"3469\">\u2014 Anul \u0103sta, la \u0219coal\u0103\u2026 un coleg de-al meu, Radu, n-a mai venit dup\u0103 vacan\u021ba de iarn\u0103. Lumea a zis c\u0103 s-a mutat. Dar nu era adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3471\" data-end=\"3491\">Vocea i s-a sub\u021biat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3493\" data-end=\"3578\">\u2014 Tat\u0103l lui \u00eel b\u0103tea. R\u0103u. \u00centr-o sear\u0103, Radu a fugit de acas\u0103 doar cu ce avea pe el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3580\" data-end=\"3617\">Am sim\u021bit cum mi se str\u00e2nge stomacul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3619\" data-end=\"3691\">\u2014 A dormit pe unde a apucat. La un moment dat\u2026 a vrut s\u0103 renun\u021be de tot.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3693\" data-end=\"3779\">Andrei a ridicat privirea spre mine, iar \u00een ochii lui era o maturitate care m-a durut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3781\" data-end=\"3863\">\u2014 L-am g\u0103sit la timp. \u0218i n-am spus nim\u0103nui. Mi-a fost fric\u0103 s\u0103 nu-l trimit \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3865\" data-end=\"3894\">\u2014 \u0218i c\u0103ma\u0219a ro\u0219ie? am \u0219optit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3896\" data-end=\"4010\">\u2014 E pentru el. \u0218i pentru al\u021bii ca el. Ro\u0219ul \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 violen\u021ba din familie nu e ceva ce trebuie ascuns sub pre\u0219.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4012\" data-end=\"4046\">Am sim\u021bit cum mi se umezesc ochii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4048\" data-end=\"4133\">\u2014 Directorul nu e de acord. Nici mul\u021bi profesori. Au spus c\u0103 stric\u0103m imaginea \u0219colii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4135\" data-end=\"4144\">\u2014 Dar tu?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4146\" data-end=\"4240\">\u2014 Eu am spus c\u0103, dac\u0103 imaginea e mai important\u0103 dec\u00e2t copiii, atunci imaginea e deja stricat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4242\" data-end=\"4349\">\u00cen ziua absolvirii, sala era plin\u0103. P\u0103rin\u021bi, profesori, flori, aplauze. To\u021bi elevii purtau alb \u0219i albastru.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4351\" data-end=\"4419\">C\u00e2nd Andrei a intrat, \u00een c\u0103ma\u0219a lui ro\u0219ie simpl\u0103, s-a f\u0103cut lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4421\" data-end=\"4481\">\u0218oapte. Priviri. Unii au str\u00e2mbat din nas. Al\u021bii au \u00een\u021beles.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4483\" data-end=\"4510\">A mers drept, cu capul sus.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4512\" data-end=\"4593\">C\u00e2nd i-a venit r\u00e2ndul s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103, directorul a ezitat. Apoi i-a dat microfonul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4595\" data-end=\"4785\">\u2014 Nu sunt aici s\u0103 stric o s\u0103rb\u0103toare, a spus Andrei. Sunt aici s\u0103 spun c\u0103, printre noi, sunt copii care tr\u0103iesc cu frica \u00een cas\u0103. \u0218i c\u0103 t\u0103cerea noastr\u0103 \u00eei r\u0103ne\u0219te mai tare dec\u00e2t orice palm\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4787\" data-end=\"4801\">Sala era mut\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4803\" data-end=\"4931\">\u2014 Curajul nu e gratis. Cost\u0103 prietenii. Cost\u0103 lini\u0219tea. Cost\u0103 aplauzele. Dar uneori, costul e singurul lucru care merit\u0103 pl\u0103tit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4933\" data-end=\"4978\">C\u00e2nd a terminat, nimeni n-a aplaudat imediat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4980\" data-end=\"5055\">Apoi, cineva din spate s-a ridicat. O mam\u0103. Apoi \u00eenc\u0103 una. Apoi toat\u0103 sala.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5057\" data-end=\"5158\">L-am privit cu lacrimi pe obraji, \u00een\u021beleg\u00e2nd, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, c\u0103 nu l-am crescut doar s\u0103 supravie\u021buiasc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5160\" data-end=\"5189\">L-am crescut s\u0103 schimbe ceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5191\" data-end=\"5242\">\u0218i \u00een acea zi, fiul meu n-a absolvit doar un liceu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5244\" data-end=\"5261\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">A absolvit frica.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A tras aer ad\u00e2nc \u00een piept, de parc\u0103 urma s\u0103 sar\u0103 \u00eentr-o ap\u0103 rece. \u2014 La festivitate\u2026 o s\u0103 port o c\u0103ma\u0219\u0103 ro\u0219ie. Am clipit. \u2014 \u0218i? am \u00eentrebat, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 z\u00e2mbesc. \u0218tii c\u0103 nu conteaz\u0103 culoarea. \u0218i-a mu\u0219cat buza. \u2014 Ba conteaz\u0103. Mult. Atunci am \u0219tiut. Nu ce urma s\u0103-mi spun\u0103, dar c\u0103 era [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16978,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16977","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16977","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16977"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16977\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16979,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16977\/revisions\/16979"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/16978"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16977"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16977"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16977"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}