{"id":18394,"date":"2026-01-30T07:09:07","date_gmt":"2026-01-30T07:09:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=18394"},"modified":"2026-01-30T07:09:07","modified_gmt":"2026-01-30T07:09:07","slug":"am-ramas-insarcinata-la-19-ani-iar-parintii-mei-mi-au-spus-clar-ori-fac-avort-ori-plec-din-casa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=18394","title":{"rendered":"Am r\u0103mas \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103 la 19 ani, iar p\u0103rin\u021bii mei mi-au spus clar: ori fac avort, ori plec din cas\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"2750\" data-end=\"2961\">Tata s-a a\u0219ezat \u00eencet pe scaunul din hol, de parc\u0103 picioarele nu-l mai \u021bineau. Mama s-a sprijinit de tocul u\u0219ii, cu o m\u00e2n\u0103 la gur\u0103. Andrei st\u0103tea l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine, drept, cu rucsacul pe um\u0103r, atent la fiecare mi\u0219care.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2963\" data-end=\"3010\">\u201eSpune\u201d, a murmurat tata, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 priveasc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3012\" data-end=\"3119\">Am inspirat ad\u00e2nc. Aerul din cas\u0103 mirosea a varz\u0103 c\u0103lit\u0103 \u0219i a cafea veche. Nimic nu se schimbase. Doar noi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3121\" data-end=\"3247\">\u201eTat\u0103l lui Andrei a murit \u00eenainte s\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 sunt \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103\u201d, am \u00eenceput. \u201e\u00centr-un accident de munc\u0103. Era sudor pe \u0219antier.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3249\" data-end=\"3313\">Mama a clipit des. \u201e\u0218i ce leg\u0103tur\u0103 are asta cu\u2026 amenin\u021barea ta?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3315\" data-end=\"3334\">Am \u00eenghi\u021bit \u00een sec.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3336\" data-end=\"3404\">\u201ePentru c\u0103 tat\u0103l lui Andrei era fiul omului pentru care lucra tata.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3406\" data-end=\"3413\">T\u0103cere.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3415\" data-end=\"3559\">\u201eFiul patronului t\u0103u\u201d, am continuat. \u201eAl omului care te-a ajutat s\u0103-\u021bi pl\u0103te\u0219ti creditul. Care ne-a \u00eemprumutat bani c\u00e2nd n-aveam nici de lemne.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3561\" data-end=\"3608\">Tata s-a uitat brusc la mine. Fa\u021ba i s-a albit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3610\" data-end=\"3625\">\u201eNu\u201d, a \u0219optit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3627\" data-end=\"3828\">\u201eBa da. \u0218i c\u00e2nd a murit, familia lui a \u00eencercat s\u0103 mu\u0219amalizeze totul. Firma, accidentul, vina. Dac\u0103 avortam, eram obligat\u0103 s\u0103 semnez ni\u0219te h\u00e2rtii. H\u00e2rtii prin care renun\u021bam la orice drept. La adev\u0103r.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3830\" data-end=\"3856\">Mama a \u00eenceput s\u0103 tremure.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3858\" data-end=\"3981\">\u201eDac\u0103 f\u0103ceam asta\u201d, am spus \u00eencet, \u201efirma lui sc\u0103pa basma curat\u0103. Tata ar fi r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 serviciu oricum. \u0218i poate mai r\u0103u.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3983\" data-end=\"4050\">Andrei s-a uitat la bunicul lui. \u201eBunicule, tata a fost un om bun?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4052\" data-end=\"4139\">Tata a izbucnit \u00een pl\u00e2ns. Un pl\u00e2ns greu, din piept, pe care nu-l mai v\u0103zusem niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4141\" data-end=\"4198\">\u201eA fost\u201d, a spus printre suspine. \u201e\u0218i eu am fost un la\u0219.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4200\" data-end=\"4292\">Mama s-a apropiat de Andrei, cu pa\u0219i mici, de parc\u0103 se temea c\u0103 va disp\u0103rea. I-a atins m\u00e2na.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4294\" data-end=\"4329\">\u201eIart\u0103-ne\u201d, a \u0219optit. \u201ePe am\u00e2ndoi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4331\" data-end=\"4380\">Andrei a z\u00e2mbit timid. \u201eVreau doar s\u0103 v\u0103 cunosc.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4382\" data-end=\"4551\">Am stat acolo ore \u00eentregi. Am vorbit. Am pl\u00e2ns. Am m\u00e2ncat \u00eempreun\u0103, ca pe vremuri. Tata i-a ar\u0103tat lui Andrei atelierul din curte. Mama i-a scos poze vechi, \u00eeng\u0103lbenite.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4553\" data-end=\"4600\">Seara, c\u00e2nd am ie\u0219it pe prisp\u0103, tata m-a oprit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4602\" data-end=\"4699\">\u201eMaria\u2026 am pus bani deoparte. Pentru Andrei. Nu ca s\u0103 repar trecutul. Ci ca s\u0103 nu-l mai stric\u0103m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4701\" data-end=\"4750\">Nu era o sum\u0103 mare. C\u00e2teva mii de lei. Dar conta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4752\" data-end=\"4840\">C\u00e2nd am plecat a doua zi, mama ne-a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at str\u00e2ns. Tata l-a b\u0103tut pe Andrei pe um\u0103r.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4842\" data-end=\"4866\">\u201eS\u0103 mai veni\u021bi\u201d, a spus.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4868\" data-end=\"4918\">\u00cen ma\u0219in\u0103, Andrei s-a uitat pe geam, apoi la mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4920\" data-end=\"4960\">\u201eMam\u0103\u2026 ai f\u0103cut bine c\u0103 nu ai renun\u021bat.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4962\" data-end=\"4993\">Am z\u00e2mbit, cu ochii \u00een lacrimi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4995\" data-end=\"5002\">\u201e\u0218tiu.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5004\" data-end=\"5097\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">\u0218i pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 zece ani, trecutul nu mai durea. Era, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, pus la locul lui.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tata s-a a\u0219ezat \u00eencet pe scaunul din hol, de parc\u0103 picioarele nu-l mai \u021bineau. Mama s-a sprijinit de tocul u\u0219ii, cu o m\u00e2n\u0103 la gur\u0103. Andrei st\u0103tea l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine, drept, cu rucsacul pe um\u0103r, atent la fiecare mi\u0219care. \u201eSpune\u201d, a murmurat tata, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 priveasc\u0103. Am inspirat ad\u00e2nc. Aerul din cas\u0103 mirosea a varz\u0103 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":18395,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18394","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18394","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18394"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18394\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18396,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18394\/revisions\/18396"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/18395"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18394"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18394"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18394"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}