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\u2014 Trebuie s\u0103 te \u00eentreb direct, a spus ea, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ridice tonul. Tu ce planuri ai cu fiul meu?<\/p>\n

Am clipit de c\u00e2teva ori.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Cum adic\u0103? am \u00eentrebat.<\/p>\n

\u2014 P\u0103i foarte simplu. C\u00e2nd v\u0103 g\u00e2ndi\u021bi la nunt\u0103? \u0218i mai ales\u2026 copiii. C\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tii de pe acum: Andrei nu e genul care s\u0103 fie alergat de femei. Are nevoie de lini\u0219te, nu de scandaluri \u0219i preten\u021bii.<\/p>\n

M-am uitat instinctiv la el. A ridicat ochii o secund\u0103, apoi i-a cobor\u00e2t din nou.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Mam\u0103\u2026 poate nu e momentul, a murmurat el.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Ba e exact momentul, l-a t\u0103iat ea. Mai bine acum dec\u00e2t mai t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n

\u00cen capul meu era un zgomot continuu. Nu mai auzeam aproape nimic clar. Sim\u021beam doar cum mi se urc\u0103 s\u00e2ngele \u00een obraji.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Doamn\u0103, am spus \u00eencet, cred c\u0103 astfel de lucruri se discut\u0103 \u00eentre mine \u0219i Andrei.<\/p>\n

\u2014 A\u0219a crezi tu, a r\u0103spuns ea calm. Dar familia nu e doar \u00eentre doi oameni. Noi suntem foarte uni\u021bi.<\/p>\n

Atunci am \u00een\u021beles tot.<\/p>\n

Am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 nu eram o partener\u0103, ci o candidat\u0103. Evaluat\u0103. Analizat\u0103. C\u00e2nt\u0103rit\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u2014 \u0218i \u00eenc\u0103 ceva, a continuat ea. Dac\u0103 ve\u021bi avea copii, eu voi veni des. Copiii trebuie crescu\u021bi cum trebuie, nu dup\u0103 idei moderne.<\/p>\n

Andrei tot t\u0103cea.<\/p>\n

Mi-am pus \u0219erve\u021belul pe mas\u0103, cu m\u00e2inile tremur\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n

\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u, am spus. Dar eu nu pot.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Ce nu po\u021bi? s-a mirat ea.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Nu pot tr\u0103i \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie \u00een care mama decide totul. \u0218i nici \u00eentr-una \u00een care b\u0103rbatul tace.<\/p>\n

M-am ridicat. Inima \u00eemi b\u0103tea at\u00e2t de tare \u00eenc\u00e2t credeam c\u0103 o s\u0103-mi sar\u0103 din piept.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Irina, stai, a zis Andrei. Hai s\u0103 vorbim.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Am vorbit destul, am r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n

Mi-am luat geanta, paltonul \u0219i am ie\u0219it. Pe sc\u0103ri, mi-au dat lacrimile. Nu de ru\u0219ine. De u\u0219urare.<\/p>\n

Am mers f\u0103r\u0103 direc\u021bie c\u00e2teva str\u0103zi, p\u00e2n\u0103 am sim\u021bit c\u0103 pot respira. Mi-am comandat un taxi \u0219i m-am dus la prietena mea.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Ai sc\u0103pat la timp, mi-a spus ea dup\u0103 ce i-am povestit totul.<\/p>\n

\u0218i avea dreptate.<\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 nu mama lui era problema cea mai mare. Ci faptul c\u0103 el nu a fost \u00een stare s\u0103 spun\u0103 un cuv\u00e2nt. Nici m\u0103car unul.<\/p>\n

A doua zi m-am dus, mi-am luat lucrurile \u0219i am plecat definitiv. F\u0103r\u0103 scandal. F\u0103r\u0103 explica\u021bii lungi.<\/p>\n

Uneori, via\u021ba \u00ee\u021bi arat\u0103 foarte repede ce te a\u0219teapt\u0103. Trebuie doar s\u0103 ai curajul s\u0103 pleci c\u00e2nd vezi adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n

Eu am plecat. \u0218i nu am regretat nicio clip\u0103.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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\u2014 Trebuie s\u0103 te \u00eentreb direct, a spus ea, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ridice tonul. Tu ce planuri ai cu fiul meu? Am clipit de c\u00e2teva ori. \u2014 Cum adic\u0103? am \u00eentrebat. \u2014 P\u0103i foarte simplu. C\u00e2nd v\u0103 g\u00e2ndi\u021bi la nunt\u0103? \u0218i mai ales\u2026 copiii. C\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tii de pe acum: Andrei nu e genul care s\u0103 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":18674,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18673","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18673","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18673"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18673\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18675,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18673\/revisions\/18675"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/18674"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18673"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18673"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18673"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}