{"id":19621,"date":"2026-02-18T06:29:14","date_gmt":"2026-02-18T06:29:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=19621"},"modified":"2026-02-18T06:29:14","modified_gmt":"2026-02-18T06:29:14","slug":"mama-a-facut-dementa-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=19621","title":{"rendered":"Mama a f\u0103cut demen\u021b\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"449\" data-end=\"464\">\u2026notarul mamei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"466\" data-end=\"499\">Vocea lui era calm\u0103, dar ap\u0103sat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"501\" data-end=\"702\">\u201eBun\u0103 ziua, doamn\u0103. \u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 v\u0103 deranjez. Exist\u0103 un document pe care mama dumneavoastr\u0103 a insistat s\u0103 \u00eel p\u0103strez separat. Mi-a cerut s\u0103 v\u0103 contactez la trei zile dup\u0103 deschiderea testamentului.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"704\" data-end=\"742\">Am sim\u021bit cum mi se \u00eenmoaie genunchii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"744\" data-end=\"787\">\u201eCe document?\u201d am \u00eentrebat, aproape \u0219optit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"789\" data-end=\"871\">\u201eUn act de dona\u021bie \u0219i o scrisoare scris\u0103 de m\u00e2n\u0103. Sunt doar pentru dumneavoastr\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"873\" data-end=\"1067\">Am \u00eenchis telefonul \u0219i am r\u0103mas pe canapea, cu privirea pierdut\u0103. Casa era prea lini\u0219tit\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 ea. F\u0103r\u0103 pa\u0219ii ei nesiguri. F\u0103r\u0103 \u00eentreb\u0103rile repetate. F\u0103r\u0103 \u201eTu cine e\u0219ti?\u201d spus de zece ori pe zi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1069\" data-end=\"1195\">Am avut momente \u00een care m-a durut mai tare dec\u00e2t orice boal\u0103. C\u00e2nd m\u0103 privea ca pe o str\u0103in\u0103. C\u00e2nd m\u0103 \u00eentreba unde e fiica ei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1197\" data-end=\"1227\">\u201eSunt aici, mam\u0103\u201d, \u00eei spuneam.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1229\" data-end=\"1290\">Dar pentru ea, eu eram doar o femeie care o ajuta s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1292\" data-end=\"1460\">Am renun\u021bat la serviciu c\u00e2nd a \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u0103t\u0103ceasc\u0103 noaptea prin cas\u0103. Am cheltuit tot ce aveam pe medicamente, scutece, consulta\u021bii. Fra\u021bii mei trimiteau mesaje rare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1462\" data-end=\"1500\">\u201eMai rezist\u0103?\u201d<br data-start=\"1476\" data-end=\"1479\" \/>\u201eDoctorul ce zice?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1502\" data-end=\"1535\">Niciodat\u0103: \u201eVenim s\u0103 st\u0103m cu ea.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1537\" data-end=\"1641\">La notar, biroul mirosea a mobil\u0103 veche \u0219i a h\u00e2rtie. Omul m-a privit lung \u00eenainte s\u0103-mi \u00eentind\u0103 un plic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1643\" data-end=\"1760\">\u201eMama dumneavoastr\u0103 a venit singur\u0103, acum un an \u0219i jum\u0103tate. \u00centr-o zi bun\u0103, din ce mi-a spus. A fost foarte lucid\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1762\" data-end=\"1785\">Mi-au tremurat m\u00e2inile.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1787\" data-end=\"1809\">Am deschis scrisoarea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1811\" data-end=\"1968\">\u201eFata mea,\u201d \u00eencepea, cu scrisul ei u\u0219or \u00eenclinat, \u201e\u0219tiu c\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi s-ar putea s\u0103 nu te mai recunosc. Dar vreau s\u0103 \u0219tii c\u0103 te-am recunoscut mereu cu inima.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1970\" data-end=\"1999\">Lacrimile au c\u0103zut pe h\u00e2rtie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2001\" data-end=\"2196\">\u201eFra\u021bii t\u0103i au via\u021ba lor. Tu e\u0219ti cea care st\u0103. Cea care rabd\u0103. Cea care nu pleac\u0103. Dac\u0103 cite\u0219ti asta, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 \u021bi-ai pus via\u021ba pe pauz\u0103 pentru mine. \u0218i \u0219tiu c\u0103 o vei face f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ceri nimic.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2198\" data-end=\"2228\">Am str\u00e2ns scrisoarea la piept.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2230\" data-end=\"2266\">Notarul a \u00eempins spre mine un dosar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2268\" data-end=\"2447\">\u201eApartamentul din centrul ora\u0219ului, pe care \u00eel \u00eenchiria. Nu a fost inclus \u00een masa succesoral\u0103. Este trecut pe numele dumneavoastr\u0103 prin dona\u021bie. De asemenea, un cont de economii.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2449\" data-end=\"2463\">Am clipit des.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2465\" data-end=\"2509\">\u201eNu \u00een\u021beleg\u2026 Testamentul s-a \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit egal.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2511\" data-end=\"2618\">\u201eDa. Casa p\u0103rinteasc\u0103 \u0219i terenul. A\u0219a a vrut ea. S\u0103 fie pace. Dar acestea\u2026 sunt doar pentru dumneavoastr\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2620\" data-end=\"2683\">M-am \u00eentors acas\u0103 cu actele \u00een geant\u0103 \u0219i cu scrisoarea \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2685\" data-end=\"2722\">Fra\u021bii mei m-au sunat \u00een seara aceea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2724\" data-end=\"2764\">\u201eAi fost la notar?\u201d a \u00eentrebat cel mare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2766\" data-end=\"2771\">\u201eDa.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2773\" data-end=\"2778\">\u201e\u0218i?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2780\" data-end=\"2822\">\u201eA fost corect. Cum a scris \u00een testament.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2824\" data-end=\"2954\">Nu am spus nimic despre apartament. Nu din r\u0103utate. Ci pentru c\u0103, pentru prima dat\u0103, sim\u021beam c\u0103 ceva \u00eemi apar\u021bine f\u0103r\u0103 explica\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2956\" data-end=\"3060\">Am mers a doua zi s\u0103 v\u0103d apartamentul. Era mic, dar luminos. Mobilat simplu. Chiria\u0219ii tocmai plecaser\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3062\" data-end=\"3110\">Pe pervaz, \u00eentr-un ghiveci uscat, era o mu\u0219cat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3112\" data-end=\"3133\">Mama iubea mu\u0219catele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3135\" data-end=\"3192\">Am deschis geamul. Aerul de prim\u0103var\u0103 a intrat \u00een camer\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3194\" data-end=\"3271\">Mi-am amintit de ultima ei zi lucid\u0103. M-a prins de m\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i m-a privit direct.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3273\" data-end=\"3302\">\u201eTu e\u0219ti a mea,\u201d a spus clar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3304\" data-end=\"3345\">Atunci n-am \u00een\u021beles de ce a formulat a\u0219a.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3347\" data-end=\"3363\">Acum \u00een\u021belegeam.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3365\" data-end=\"3410\">Nu era vorba de bani. De apartament. De cont.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3412\" data-end=\"3438\">Era vorba de recunoa\u0219tere.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3440\" data-end=\"3590\">Fra\u021bii mei au aflat abia peste c\u00e2teva luni, c\u00e2nd am decis s\u0103 m\u0103 mut \u00een apartament \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eenchiriez casa mea ca s\u0103 m\u0103 pun pe picioare. Au fost sup\u0103ra\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3592\" data-end=\"3607\">\u201eNe-ai ascuns.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3609\" data-end=\"3670\">\u201eNu era \u00een testament,\u201d le-am spus calm. \u201eA fost alegerea ei.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3672\" data-end=\"3681\">Au t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3683\" data-end=\"3699\">Pentru c\u0103 \u0219tiau.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3701\" data-end=\"3867\">\u0218tiau cine a fost acolo c\u00e2nd mama nu mai \u0219tia cum o cheam\u0103.<br data-start=\"3760\" data-end=\"3763\" \/>\u0218tiau cine i-a schimbat hainele.<br data-start=\"3795\" data-end=\"3798\" \/>Cine a sp\u0103lat-o.<br data-start=\"3814\" data-end=\"3817\" \/>Cine a \u021binut-o \u00een bra\u021be c\u00e2nd pl\u00e2ngea f\u0103r\u0103 motiv.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3869\" data-end=\"3913\">Via\u021ba mea nu s-a terminat c\u00e2nd ea s-a stins.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3915\" data-end=\"3968\">Da, am pierdut serviciul. Da, am r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 economii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3970\" data-end=\"4006\">Dar nu mi-am aruncat via\u021ba la gunoi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4008\" data-end=\"4056\">Am c\u00e2\u0219tigat ceva ce nu se \u00eemparte egal la notar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4058\" data-end=\"4102\">\u00cen fiecare diminea\u021b\u0103, ud mu\u0219cata de la geam.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4104\" data-end=\"4154\">\u0218i, de fiecare dat\u0103, \u00eemi amintesc un singur lucru:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4156\" data-end=\"4210\">Poate c\u0103, \u00een ultimele luni, mama nu a \u0219tiut cine sunt.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4212\" data-end=\"4283\">Dar, \u00eentr-o zi bun\u0103, c\u00e2nd a fost \u00eenc\u0103 ea, m-a v\u0103zut exact a\u0219a cum sunt.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4285\" data-end=\"4309\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">\u0218i asta a fost de ajuns.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2026notarul mamei. Vocea lui era calm\u0103, dar ap\u0103sat\u0103. \u201eBun\u0103 ziua, doamn\u0103. \u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 v\u0103 deranjez. Exist\u0103 un document pe care mama dumneavoastr\u0103 a insistat s\u0103 \u00eel p\u0103strez separat. Mi-a cerut s\u0103 v\u0103 contactez la trei zile dup\u0103 deschiderea testamentului.\u201d Am sim\u021bit cum mi se \u00eenmoaie genunchii. \u201eCe document?\u201d am \u00eentrebat, aproape \u0219optit. \u201eUn [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":19622,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19621","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19621","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=19621"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19621\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19623,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19621\/revisions\/19623"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/19622"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=19621"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=19621"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=19621"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}