{"id":19828,"date":"2026-02-21T04:51:43","date_gmt":"2026-02-21T04:51:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=19828"},"modified":"2026-02-21T04:51:43","modified_gmt":"2026-02-21T04:51:43","slug":"dupa-10-ani-de-casnicie-sotul-meu-a-vrut-sa-impartim-totul-dar-a-uitat-ceva-important","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=19828","title":{"rendered":"Dup\u0103 10 ani de c\u0103snicie, so\u021bul meu a vrut s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bim totul\u2026 dar a uitat ceva important."},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"4123\" data-end=\"4179\">Am \u00eenchis mapa \u0219i am r\u0103mas c\u00e2teva secunde cu m\u00e2na pe ea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4181\" data-end=\"4215\">H\u00e2rtia aceea nu era doar o clauz\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4217\" data-end=\"4344\">Era dovada c\u0103, \u00een urm\u0103 cu zece ani, c\u00e2nd el visa la birouri \u00een Bucure\u0219ti \u0219i contracte mari, eu fusesem mai atent\u0103 dec\u00e2t credea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4346\" data-end=\"4382\">Firma fusese deschis\u0103 pe numele lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4384\" data-end=\"4495\">Dar capitalul ini\u021bial venise din apartamentul meu mo\u0219tenit de la p\u0103rin\u021bi, v\u00e2ndut ca s\u0103-l ajut \u201es\u0103-\u0219i ia av\u00e2nt\u201d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4497\" data-end=\"4562\">La notar, atunci c\u00e2nd am semnat actele, am cerut o clauz\u0103 simpl\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4564\" data-end=\"4658\">\u00cen caz de divor\u021b, jum\u0103tate din firm\u0103 \u00eemi revenea mie, indiferent de cine figura administrator.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4660\" data-end=\"4699\">El semnase f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 prea atent.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4701\" data-end=\"4716\">Avea \u00eencredere.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4718\" data-end=\"4754\">Sau poate era prea ocupat s\u0103 viseze.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4756\" data-end=\"4793\">Diminea\u021ba, la cafea, era sigur pe el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4795\" data-end=\"4884\">\u2014 M-am g\u00e2ndit \u2014 a spus \u2014 ar fi bine s\u0103 stabilim clar cheltuielile. \u00ce\u021bi pot face un tabel.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4886\" data-end=\"4901\">Am z\u00e2mbit calm.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4903\" data-end=\"4951\">\u2014 Nu e nevoie. Mergem la notar. \u0218i la un avocat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4953\" data-end=\"4994\">Linguri\u021ba i-a r\u0103mas suspendat\u0103 \u00een cea\u0219c\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4996\" data-end=\"5011\">\u2014 De ce avocat?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5013\" data-end=\"5050\">\u2014 Dac\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bim totul, o facem legal.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5052\" data-end=\"5158\">\u00cen aceea\u0219i s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 am ajuns \u00eentr-un birou sobru din centrul ora\u0219ului. El a venit relaxat. Eu, preg\u0103tit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5160\" data-end=\"5254\">C\u00e2nd avocatul a deschis mapa albastr\u0103 \u0219i a \u00eenceput s\u0103 citeasc\u0103, culoarea i s-a schimbat \u00eencet.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5256\" data-end=\"5353\">\u2014 Conform acestei clauze \u2014 a spus avocatul \u2014 doamna de\u021bine 50% din societate, \u00een caz de separare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5355\" data-end=\"5386\">\u2014 Nu e posibil \u2014 a murmurat el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5388\" data-end=\"5415\">\u2014 Ba este. A\u021bi semnat aici.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5417\" data-end=\"5441\">A \u00eencercat s\u0103 par\u0103 calm.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5443\" data-end=\"5471\">\u2014 Firma valoreaz\u0103 mult acum.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5473\" data-end=\"5496\">Avocatul a \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5498\" data-end=\"5506\">\u2014 Exact.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5508\" data-end=\"5588\">A fost pentru prima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd l-am v\u0103zut f\u0103c\u00e2nd calcule \u00een minte f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-i ias\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5590\" data-end=\"5622\">Nu era vorba doar de apartament.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5624\" data-end=\"5698\">Era vorba de conturi, de investi\u021bii, de profituri reinvestite ani la r\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5700\" data-end=\"5716\">\u0218i mai era ceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5718\" data-end=\"5772\">Casa \u00een care locuiam era trecut\u0103 pe numele am\u00e2ndurora.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5774\" data-end=\"5839\">Iar creditul fusese achitat \u00een mare parte din dividendele firmei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5841\" data-end=\"5866\">Adic\u0103\u2026 \u0219i din partea mea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5868\" data-end=\"5893\">C\u00e2teva zile a fost t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5895\" data-end=\"5936\">Nu mai vorbea despre cincizeci-cincizeci.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5938\" data-end=\"5970\">\u00centr-o sear\u0103 a \u00eencercat alt ton.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5972\" data-end=\"6012\">\u2014 Putem rezolva \u00eentre noi. F\u0103r\u0103 scandal.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6014\" data-end=\"6036\">L-am privit lini\u0219tit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6038\" data-end=\"6054\">\u2014 Tu ai \u00eenceput.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6056\" data-end=\"6064\">A t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6066\" data-end=\"6123\">Pentru prima dat\u0103, nu mai eram femeia \u201ecare nu lucreaz\u0103\u201d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6125\" data-end=\"6138\">Eram asociat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6140\" data-end=\"6151\">Proprietar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6153\" data-end=\"6163\">Semn\u0103tur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6165\" data-end=\"6218\">La urm\u0103toarea \u00eent\u00e2lnire, propunerea lui era diferit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6220\" data-end=\"6297\">\u00cemi oferea apartamentul \u0219i o sum\u0103 consistent\u0103 \u00een lei pentru partea din firm\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6299\" data-end=\"6362\">Mult peste ce ar fi considerat \u201ecorect\u201d cu o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6364\" data-end=\"6376\">Am acceptat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6378\" data-end=\"6395\">Nu din r\u0103zbunare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6397\" data-end=\"6418\">Ci pentru c\u0103 meritam.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6420\" data-end=\"6484\">C\u00e2nd am ie\u0219it din biroul notarului, aerul mi s-a p\u0103rut mai u\u0219or.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6486\" data-end=\"6498\">Nu pl\u00e2ngeam.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6500\" data-end=\"6512\">Nu tremuram.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6514\" data-end=\"6533\">M\u0103 sim\u021beam dreapt\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6535\" data-end=\"6664\">\u00cen lunile urm\u0103toare mi-am reluat profesia. A fost greu la \u00eenceput. Pia\u021ba muncii nu te a\u0219teapt\u0103 cu bra\u021bele deschise dup\u0103 zece ani.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6666\" data-end=\"6694\">Dar experien\u021ba nu disp\u0103ruse.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6696\" data-end=\"6712\">Nici disciplina.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6714\" data-end=\"6727\">Nici curajul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6729\" data-end=\"6817\">Mi-am \u00eenchiriat un apartament mic, luminos. L-am decorat simplu. F\u0103r\u0103 amintiri care dor.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6819\" data-end=\"6871\">\u00centr-o zi, am trecut prin fa\u021ba fostului nostru bloc.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6873\" data-end=\"6891\">L-am v\u0103zut ie\u0219ind.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6893\" data-end=\"6907\">Nu era singur.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6909\" data-end=\"6928\">M-am oprit o clip\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6930\" data-end=\"6958\">Apoi mi-am continuat drumul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6960\" data-end=\"6988\">Pentru c\u0103 adev\u0103rul e simplu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6990\" data-end=\"7081\">C\u00e2nd cineva \u00ee\u021bi spune c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 \u00eempart\u0103 totul, asigur\u0103-te c\u0103 \u0219tie exact ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 \u201etot\u201d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7083\" data-end=\"7152\">Iar uneori, cea mai bun\u0103 investi\u021bie pe care o faci nu e \u00eentr-o firm\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7154\" data-end=\"7164\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">E \u00een tine.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am \u00eenchis mapa \u0219i am r\u0103mas c\u00e2teva secunde cu m\u00e2na pe ea. H\u00e2rtia aceea nu era doar o clauz\u0103. Era dovada c\u0103, \u00een urm\u0103 cu zece ani, c\u00e2nd el visa la birouri \u00een Bucure\u0219ti \u0219i contracte mari, eu fusesem mai atent\u0103 dec\u00e2t credea. Firma fusese deschis\u0103 pe numele lui. Dar capitalul ini\u021bial venise din apartamentul [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":19829,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19828","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19828","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=19828"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19828\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19830,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19828\/revisions\/19830"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/19829"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=19828"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=19828"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=19828"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}