{"id":23083,"date":"2026-04-19T06:02:01","date_gmt":"2026-04-19T06:02:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=23083"},"modified":"2026-04-19T06:02:01","modified_gmt":"2026-04-19T06:02:01","slug":"acum-25-de-ani-m-am-casatorit-cu-un-barbat-care-avea-3-copii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=23083","title":{"rendered":"Acum 25 de ani m-am c\u0103s\u0103torit cu un b\u0103rbat care avea 3 copii"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"flex max-w-full flex-col gap-4 grow\">\n<div class=\"min-h-8 text-message relative flex w-full flex-col items-end gap-2 text-start break-words whitespace-normal outline-none keyboard-focused:focus-ring [.text-message+&amp;]:mt-1\" dir=\"auto\" tabindex=\"0\" data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"3f2fa43c-7bb0-4508-83e4-b127e4c8695e\" data-message-model-slug=\"gpt-5-3-instant\" data-turn-start-message=\"true\">\n<div class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-1 empty:hidden\">\n<div class=\"markdown prose dark:prose-invert w-full wrap-break-word dark markdown-new-styling\">\n<p data-start=\"418\" data-end=\"470\">\u2026nu sunt deloc at\u00e2t de neputincioas\u0103 pe c\u00e2t cred ei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"472\" data-end=\"680\">C\u00e2nd am aflat, mi s-a f\u0103cut r\u0103u. Nu de la boal\u0103, ci de la durere. St\u0103team pe scaun, \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103ria mic\u0103 din casa \u00een care i-am crescut, \u0219i priveam \u00een gol. Vecina, tanti Maria, venise la mine cu o fa\u021b\u0103 \u00eencurcat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"682\" data-end=\"783\">\u2014 Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 e bine s\u0103-\u021bi spun\u2026 dar am auzit la cimitir\u2026 ai t\u0103i vorbeau cu preotul, a zis ea \u00eencet.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"785\" data-end=\"924\">La \u00eenceput n-am crezut. Cum s\u0103 faci a\u0219a ceva? Dar \u00een zilele urm\u0103toare, am v\u0103zut \u0219i eu. H\u00e2rtii pe mas\u0103, discu\u021bii \u00een \u0219oapt\u0103, priviri evitate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"926\" data-end=\"944\">Atunci am \u00een\u021beles.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"946\" data-end=\"978\">Nu mai eram mama. Eram o povar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"980\" data-end=\"1266\">Am pl\u00e2ns o noapte \u00eentreag\u0103. Pentru anii \u00een care i-am crescut, pentru nop\u021bile \u00een care am stat l\u00e2ng\u0103 ei c\u00e2nd aveau febr\u0103, pentru zilele \u00een care mergeam la munc\u0103 obosit\u0103 \u0219i totu\u0219i z\u00e2mbeam c\u00e2nd ajungeam acas\u0103. Pentru faptul c\u0103 nu erau ai mei de s\u00e2nge\u2026 dar i-am iubit mai mult dec\u00e2t pe mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1268\" data-end=\"1299\">Diminea\u021ba, m-am ridicat altfel.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1301\" data-end=\"1368\">M-am uitat \u00een oglind\u0103. Eram sl\u0103bit\u0103, da. Obosit\u0103. Dar \u00eenc\u0103 eram eu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1370\" data-end=\"1388\">\u0218i mai aveam ceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1390\" data-end=\"1400\">Un secret.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1402\" data-end=\"1634\">\u00cen urm\u0103 cu doi ani, c\u00e2nd medicii mi-au spus c\u0103 am o boal\u0103 grav\u0103, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 pun lucrurile \u00een ordine. Nu le-am spus nimic copiilor. Nu pentru c\u0103 voiam s\u0103-i pedepsesc, ci pentru c\u0103 voiam s\u0103 v\u0103d\u2026 cine r\u0103m\u00e2ne l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1636\" data-end=\"1663\">Atunci am f\u0103cut \u0219i altceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1665\" data-end=\"1810\">Am v\u00e2ndut un teren pe care \u00eel aveam la marginea ora\u0219ului. Cu banii \u2014 aproape 150.000 de lei \u2014 am f\u0103cut un cont separat. \u0218i am f\u0103cut un testament.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1812\" data-end=\"1825\">Nu pentru ei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1827\" data-end=\"2030\">\u00cen zilele urm\u0103toare, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 port normal. C\u00e2nd veneau, z\u00e2mbeam. Le d\u0103deam de m\u00e2ncare, ca \u00eentotdeauna. Ei vorbeau \u00eentre ei, evit\u00e2nd subiectul. Uneori m\u0103 priveau ca \u0219i cum\u2026 deja nu mai eram acolo.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2032\" data-end=\"2074\">\u00centr-o duminic\u0103, i-am chemat pe to\u021bi trei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2076\" data-end=\"2093\">Au venit, mira\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2095\" data-end=\"2135\">\u2014 Ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat? a \u00eentrebat cel mare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2137\" data-end=\"2161\">Am pus pe mas\u0103 un dosar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2163\" data-end=\"2176\">\u2014 A\u0219eza\u021bi-v\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2178\" data-end=\"2214\">Se uitau unul la altul, nelini\u0219ti\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2216\" data-end=\"2258\">\u2014 Am aflat de locul de veci, am spus calm.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2260\" data-end=\"2277\">A c\u0103zut lini\u0219tea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2279\" data-end=\"2318\">\u2014 Nu e\u2026 nu e cum crezi, a b\u00e2iguit fata.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2320\" data-end=\"2336\">Am ridicat m\u00e2na.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2338\" data-end=\"2382\">\u2014 Nu v\u0103 mai obosi\u021bi. Am \u00een\u021beles foarte bine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2384\" data-end=\"2417\">Nu am ridicat tonul. Nu am \u021bipat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2419\" data-end=\"2445\">Asta i-a speriat mai tare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2447\" data-end=\"2587\">\u2014 Vreau doar s\u0103 \u0219ti\u021bi ceva, am continuat. Nu v\u0103 datorez nimic. Tot ce am f\u0103cut pentru voi\u2026 am f\u0103cut pentru c\u0103 am vrut. Pentru c\u0103 v-am iubit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2589\" data-end=\"2614\">Ochii lor erau \u00een p\u0103m\u00e2nt.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2616\" data-end=\"2659\">\u2014 Dar iubirea nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 accep\u021bi orice.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2661\" data-end=\"2703\">Am deschis dosarul \u0219i am scos testamentul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2705\" data-end=\"2808\">\u2014 Aici scrie clar. Casa \u00een care locuiesc va merge la un centru pentru copii abandona\u021bi. Banii \u2014 la fel.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2810\" data-end=\"2836\">Au ridicat brusc privirea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2838\" data-end=\"2860\">\u2014 Ce?! a spus cel mic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2862\" data-end=\"2905\">\u2014 Nu po\u021bi face asta! a intervenit cel\u0103lalt.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2907\" data-end=\"2923\">Am z\u00e2mbit trist.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2925\" data-end=\"2954\">\u2014 Ba pot. \u0218i am f\u0103cut-o deja.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2956\" data-end=\"3003\">\u2014 Dar noi? a \u00eentrebat fata, cu lacrimi \u00een ochi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3005\" data-end=\"3022\">Am privit-o lung.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3024\" data-end=\"3072\">\u2014 Voi v-a\u021bi ales deja partea. Locul meu de veci.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3074\" data-end=\"3101\">Nimeni nu a mai spus nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3103\" data-end=\"3211\">\u2014 Mai am o veste, am continuat. Doctorii au spus c\u0103 tratamentul \u00eencepe s\u0103 dea rezultate. Nu mor prea cur\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3213\" data-end=\"3259\">\u0218ocul de pe fe\u021bele lor a fost greu de descris.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3261\" data-end=\"3275\">Nu de bucurie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3277\" data-end=\"3296\">Ci de\u2026 \u00eencurc\u0103tur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3298\" data-end=\"3417\">\u2014 Ave\u021bi timp s\u0103 v\u0103 g\u00e2ndi\u021bi ce fel de oameni vre\u021bi s\u0103 fi\u021bi, am spus \u00eencet. Dar f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 mai conta\u021bi pe ce las eu \u00een urm\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3419\" data-end=\"3432\">M-am ridicat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3434\" data-end=\"3454\">\u2014 Acum pute\u021bi pleca.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3456\" data-end=\"3476\">Au ie\u0219it \u00een lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3478\" data-end=\"3516\">Dup\u0103 acea zi, lucrurile s-au schimbat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3518\" data-end=\"3626\">La \u00eenceput, au venit mai des. Cu flori, cu m\u00e2ncare, cu vorbe frumoase. Am v\u0103zut \u00eencercarea. Poate vinov\u0103\u021bia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3628\" data-end=\"3644\">Nu i-am respins.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3646\" data-end=\"3680\">Dar nici nu m-am mai ag\u0103\u021bat de ei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3682\" data-end=\"3828\">Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 merg la centrul de copii. Acolo unde \u0219tiam c\u0103 vor ajunge lucrurile mele. Copiii m\u0103 strigau \u201ebunica\u201d. M\u0103 \u021bineau de m\u00e2n\u0103. M\u0103 ascultau.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3830\" data-end=\"3895\">\u0218i, pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 mult timp, m-am sim\u021bit din nou v\u0103zut\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3897\" data-end=\"3940\">Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva luni, fata mea a venit singur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3942\" data-end=\"3974\">\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u, a spus. Pe bune.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3976\" data-end=\"3988\">Am privit-o.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3990\" data-end=\"3997\">\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3999\" data-end=\"4044\">\u2014 Nu pentru bani\u2026 ci pentru cum ne-am purtat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4046\" data-end=\"4061\">Am dat din cap.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4063\" data-end=\"4079\">\u2014 Asta conteaz\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4081\" data-end=\"4115\">Nu totul s-a reparat peste noapte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4117\" data-end=\"4139\">Dar ceva s-a schimbat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4141\" data-end=\"4171\">Nu pentru c\u0103 le-am l\u0103sat ceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4173\" data-end=\"4253\">Ci pentru c\u0103, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, au \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 puteau pierde totul \u2014 nu banii, nu casa.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4255\" data-end=\"4266\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Ci pe mine.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"z-0 flex min-h-[46px] justify-start\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"mt-3 w-full empty:hidden\">\n<div class=\"text-center\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"inline-flex border border-gray-100 dark:border-gray-700 rounded-xl\">\n<div class=\"bg-token-main-surface-tertiary w-px flex-1 self-stretch\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2026nu sunt deloc at\u00e2t de neputincioas\u0103 pe c\u00e2t cred ei. C\u00e2nd am aflat, mi s-a f\u0103cut r\u0103u. Nu de la boal\u0103, ci de la durere. St\u0103team pe scaun, \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103ria mic\u0103 din casa \u00een care i-am crescut, \u0219i priveam \u00een gol. Vecina, tanti Maria, venise la mine cu o fa\u021b\u0103 \u00eencurcat\u0103. \u2014 Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":22817,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23083","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23083","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=23083"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23083\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23084,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23083\/revisions\/23084"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/22817"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=23083"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=23083"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=23083"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}