{"id":23089,"date":"2026-04-19T06:05:08","date_gmt":"2026-04-19T06:05:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=23089"},"modified":"2026-04-19T06:05:08","modified_gmt":"2026-04-19T06:05:08","slug":"sunt-insarcinata-in-25-de-saptamani-cu-primul-nostru-copil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=23089","title":{"rendered":"Sunt \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103 \u00een 25 de s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni cu primul nostru copil"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"810\" data-end=\"835\">\u2026c\u0103 o s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103 repede.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"837\" data-end=\"961\">Inima \u00eemi b\u0103tea tare. Apa curgea \u00een toate direc\u021biile, lovea dulapurile, se aduna pe jos \u0219i \u00eencepea deja s\u0103 se duc\u0103 spre hol.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"963\" data-end=\"1030\">\u2014 Hai\u2026 r\u0103spunde\u2026 te rog\u2026 am \u0219optit, cu telefonul tremur\u00e2nd \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1032\" data-end=\"1160\">A r\u0103spuns dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva secunde. \u00cen spatele lui se auzeau fanfare, lume, veselie. Era clar \u2014 era deja acolo, \u00een mijlocul mul\u021bimii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1162\" data-end=\"1235\">\u2014 Ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat? a \u00eentrebat el, dar vocea lui era acoperit\u0103 de zgomot.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1237\" data-end=\"1268\">Am \u00eentors camera spre chiuvet\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1270\" data-end=\"1333\">\u2014 S-a spart robinetul! Nu pot s\u0103-l opresc! Curge ap\u0103 peste tot!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1335\" data-end=\"1366\">A clipit de c\u00e2teva ori, confuz.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1368\" data-end=\"1395\">\u2014 Ai \u00eencercat s\u0103-l \u00eenchizi?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1397\" data-end=\"1418\">M-am enervat instant.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1420\" data-end=\"1454\">\u2014 Normal c\u0103 am \u00eencercat! Nu merge!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1456\" data-end=\"1564\">Pentru o secund\u0103, am v\u0103zut cum se uit\u0103 \u00een spate, ca \u0219i cum nu voia s\u0103 piard\u0103 nimic din ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpla acolo.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1566\" data-end=\"1652\">\u2014 Ok\u2026 ok\u2026 vezi dac\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti robinetul principal\u2026 pe undeva pe sub chiuvet\u0103 sau pe hol\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1654\" data-end=\"1679\">Mi s-a pus un nod \u00een g\u00e2t.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1681\" data-end=\"1731\">\u2014 Nu \u0219tiu unde e\u2026 n-am mai umblat acolo niciodat\u0103\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1733\" data-end=\"1741\">A oftat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1743\" data-end=\"1813\">\u2014 Bine, caut\u0103\u2026 trebuie s\u0103 fie acolo. Eu\u2026 nu prea am ce s\u0103 fac de aici.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1815\" data-end=\"1820\">At\u00e2t.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1822\" data-end=\"1845\">\u201eNu prea am ce s\u0103 fac.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1847\" data-end=\"1880\">Am \u00eenchis f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 mai spun nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1882\" data-end=\"2042\">M-am pus \u00een genunchi pe jos, cu apa p\u00e2n\u0103 la glezne, \u0219i am \u00eenceput s\u0103 caut ca disperata. Am deschis toate u\u0219ile de la dulapuri, am tras de \u021bevi, am r\u0103scolit tot.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2044\" data-end=\"2090\">\u00cen cap \u00eemi b\u0103tea doar un g\u00e2nd: \u201eSunt singur\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2092\" data-end=\"2230\">Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva minute care au p\u0103rut ore, am g\u0103sit un robinet mic, ruginit, \u00een spatele ma\u0219inii de sp\u0103lat vase. Am tras de el cu toat\u0103 puterea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2232\" data-end=\"2257\">La \u00eenceput nu s-a mi\u0219cat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2259\" data-end=\"2294\">Apoi, cu un sc\u00e2r\u021b\u00e2it, s-a \u00eenv\u00e2rtit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2296\" data-end=\"2316\">Apa s-a oprit brusc.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2318\" data-end=\"2397\">Am r\u0103mas acolo, pe jos, ud\u0103, tremur\u00e2nd, cu m\u00e2inile murdare \u0219i ochii \u00een lacrimi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2399\" data-end=\"2430\">Nu mai era doar despre robinet.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2432\" data-end=\"2522\">Era despre faptul c\u0103, \u00een momentul \u0103la, c\u00e2nd aveam cea mai mare nevoie de el\u2026 nu era acolo.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2524\" data-end=\"2553\">Seara, a venit acas\u0103 z\u00e2mbind.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2555\" data-end=\"2609\">\u2014 Ai rezolvat? a \u00eentrebat, de parc\u0103 fusese ceva minor.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2611\" data-end=\"2633\">M-am uitat la el lung.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2635\" data-end=\"2653\">\u2014 Da. Am rezolvat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2655\" data-end=\"2727\">A v\u0103zut podeaua ud\u0103, prosoapele aruncate, lucrurile scoase din dulapuri.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2729\" data-end=\"2807\">\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u\u2026 dar \u0219tii cum e\u2026 nu puteam s\u0103 plec de acolo, toat\u0103 familia era\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2809\" data-end=\"2820\">L-am oprit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2822\" data-end=\"2857\">\u2014 \u0218tiu. \u201e\u00censemna mult pentru tine.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2859\" data-end=\"2867\">A t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2869\" data-end=\"2969\">\u2014 Dar \u0219tii ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 mult pentru mine? am continuat, cu vocea joas\u0103. S\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 pot conta pe tine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2971\" data-end=\"2990\">A cobor\u00e2t privirea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2992\" data-end=\"3033\">\u2014 Nu era o urgen\u021b\u0103 de via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i de moarte\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3035\" data-end=\"3066\">M-a durut mai tare dec\u00e2t orice.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3068\" data-end=\"3089\">\u2014 Pentru mine a fost.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3091\" data-end=\"3099\">Lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3101\" data-end=\"3239\">\u2014 Nu e vorba doar de ap\u0103, am spus. E vorba c\u0103 sunt \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103. C\u0103 nu m\u0103 simt bine. C\u0103 sunt singur\u0103 aici \u0219i tu alegi s\u0103 fii \u00een alt\u0103 parte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3241\" data-end=\"3275\">A trecut un timp p\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3277\" data-end=\"3298\">\u2014 Nu m-am g\u00e2ndit a\u0219a\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3300\" data-end=\"3324\">\u2014 Exact asta e problema.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3326\" data-end=\"3385\">Noaptea aceea a fost rece, chiar dac\u0103 eram \u00een aceea\u0219i cas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3387\" data-end=\"3454\">Zilele urm\u0103toare, nu am mai spus mare lucru. Dar ceva se schimbase.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3456\" data-end=\"3555\">El a \u00eenceput s\u0103 fie mai atent. S\u0103 \u00eentrebe mai des dac\u0103 am nevoie de ceva. S\u0103 vin\u0103 mai repede acas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3557\" data-end=\"3604\">Dar eu\u2026 eu aveam nevoie de mai mult dec\u00e2t at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3606\" data-end=\"3646\">Aveam nevoie s\u0103 simt c\u0103 suntem o echip\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3648\" data-end=\"3710\">\u00centr-o sear\u0103, m-a g\u0103sit st\u00e2nd pe canapea, cu m\u00e2inile pe burt\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3712\" data-end=\"3738\">\u2014 Putem vorbi? a \u00eentrebat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3740\" data-end=\"3755\">Am dat din cap.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3757\" data-end=\"3779\">S-a a\u0219ezat l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3781\" data-end=\"3954\">\u2014 Mi-am dat seama c\u0103 am gre\u0219it. Nu doar atunci\u2026 ci \u0219i \u00eenainte. Am pus mereu familia mea pe primul loc, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-mi dau seama c\u0103 tu \u0219i copilul nostru sunte\u021bi familia mea acum.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3956\" data-end=\"3990\">Am sim\u021bit cum mi se str\u00e2nge inima.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3992\" data-end=\"4038\">\u2014 Nu vreau s\u0103 te mai sim\u021bi singur\u0103. Niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4040\" data-end=\"4064\">Am t\u0103cut c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4066\" data-end=\"4112\">\u2014 Nu vreau promisiuni, i-am spus. Vreau fapte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4114\" data-end=\"4128\">A dat din cap.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4130\" data-end=\"4144\">\u2014 Le vei avea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4146\" data-end=\"4175\">Nu s-a schimbat peste noapte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4177\" data-end=\"4225\">Dar, \u00eencet, a \u00eenceput s\u0103 fie acolo. Cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4227\" data-end=\"4329\">C\u00e2nd am mai avut o migren\u0103, nu a mai plecat nic\u0103ieri. A stat l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine, \u00een lini\u0219te, cu lumina stins\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4331\" data-end=\"4387\">C\u00e2nd am avut programare la medic, a venit f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-l rog.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4389\" data-end=\"4499\">\u0218i, \u00eentr-o zi, c\u00e2nd s-a stricat iar ceva \u00een cas\u0103, nici nu am apucat s\u0103 reac\u021bionez \u2014 era deja acolo, rezolv\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4501\" data-end=\"4519\">Atunci am \u00een\u021beles.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4521\" data-end=\"4565\">Nu era vorba despre o parad\u0103 sau un robinet.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4567\" data-end=\"4586\">Era despre alegeri.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4588\" data-end=\"4634\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Iar, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, \u00eencepuse s\u0103 ne aleag\u0103 pe noi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2026c\u0103 o s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103 repede. Inima \u00eemi b\u0103tea tare. Apa curgea \u00een toate direc\u021biile, lovea dulapurile, se aduna pe jos \u0219i \u00eencepea deja s\u0103 se duc\u0103 spre hol. \u2014 Hai\u2026 r\u0103spunde\u2026 te rog\u2026 am \u0219optit, cu telefonul tremur\u00e2nd \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103. A r\u0103spuns dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva secunde. \u00cen spatele lui se auzeau fanfare, lume, veselie. Era clar [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":22818,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23089","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23089","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=23089"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23089\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23090,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23089\/revisions\/23090"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/22818"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=23089"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=23089"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=23089"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}