{"id":23371,"date":"2026-04-26T06:32:02","date_gmt":"2026-04-26T06:32:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=23371"},"modified":"2026-04-26T06:32:02","modified_gmt":"2026-04-26T06:32:02","slug":"sunt-o-fata-de-16-ani-iar-cand-aveam-10-cancerul-mi-a-luat-o-pe-mama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=23371","title":{"rendered":"Sunt o fat\u0103 de 16 ani, iar c\u00e2nd aveam 10, cancerul mi-a luat-o pe mama"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"1682\" data-end=\"1713\">Nu a spus nimic c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1715\" data-end=\"1737\">Doar s-a uitat la ele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1739\" data-end=\"1760\">La Elena. La Catrina.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1762\" data-end=\"1874\">\u00cen buc\u0103t\u0103rie se f\u0103cuse o lini\u0219te de puteai auzi frigiderul cum b\u00e2z\u00e2ie. Nimeni nu mi\u0219ca. Nimeni nu respira parc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1876\" data-end=\"1939\">Tata \u0219i-a luat m\u00e2na de pe um\u0103rul meu \u0219i a f\u0103cut un pas \u00een fa\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1941\" data-end=\"1991\">\u201eCe-ai spus?\u201d vocea lui era joas\u0103, dar t\u0103ia aerul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1993\" data-end=\"2089\">Elena a clipit des, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103-\u0219i p\u0103streze z\u00e2mbetul. \u201eDoar glumeam\u2026 nu trebuie s\u0103 dramatiz\u0103m\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2091\" data-end=\"2145\">\u201eNu,\u201d a spus el, mai ferm. \u201eRepet\u0103. Exact ce ai spus.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2147\" data-end=\"2254\">Catrina a intervenit repede, cu acela\u0219i aer fals: \u201eHai, c\u0103 fata exagereaz\u0103. Noi doar \u00eencerc\u0103m s-o \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2256\" data-end=\"2281\">\u201eTaci,\u201d a zis tata scurt.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2283\" data-end=\"2314\">Nu-l mai v\u0103zusem niciodat\u0103 a\u0219a.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2316\" data-end=\"2365\">S-a \u00eentors spre Elena. \u201eAi spus c\u0103 e\u0219ti mama ei?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2367\" data-end=\"2460\">Elena a ridicat din umeri, u\u0219or iritat\u0103 acum. \u201eP\u0103i\u2026 sunt so\u021bia ta. Am grij\u0103 de ea. E normal\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2462\" data-end=\"2494\">\u201eNu,\u201d a t\u0103iat el. \u201eNu e normal.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2496\" data-end=\"2568\">Apoi s-a \u00eentors spre mine. Privirea i s-a schimbat complet. S-a \u00eenmuiat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2570\" data-end=\"2601\">\u201eD\u0103-mi voie s\u0103 v\u0103d medalionul.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2603\" data-end=\"2738\">L-am scos \u00eencet de la g\u00e2t \u0219i i l-am pus \u00een palm\u0103. \u00cel \u021bineam str\u00e2ns de ani de zile. Era singurul lucru care \u00eemi mai r\u0103m\u0103sese de la mama.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2740\" data-end=\"2757\">Tata l-a deschis.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2759\" data-end=\"2819\">\u00cen\u0103untru era poza mic\u0103, deja pu\u021bin \u0219tears\u0103, cu mama z\u00e2mbind.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2821\" data-end=\"2838\">A inspirat ad\u00e2nc.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2840\" data-end=\"2871\">\u0218i atunci\u2026 l-am v\u0103zut. Lacrimi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2873\" data-end=\"2899\">Tata nu pl\u00e2ngea niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2901\" data-end=\"2958\">A \u00eenchis medalionul cu grij\u0103 \u0219i mi l-a pus \u00eenapoi la g\u00e2t.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2960\" data-end=\"3044\">\u201eNimeni,\u201d a spus el \u00eencet, dar ap\u0103sat, \u201enu o s\u0103-\u021bi mai spun\u0103 vreodat\u0103 s\u0103-l dai jos.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3046\" data-end=\"3074\">S-a \u00eentors din nou spre ele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3076\" data-end=\"3140\">\u201e\u0218i nimeni nu o s\u0103 mai vorbeasc\u0103 a\u0219a despre mama ei. Niciodat\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3142\" data-end=\"3242\">Elena a \u00eenceput s\u0103 ridice tonul. \u201eSerios? Pentru un fleac faci scandal? Eu \u00eencerc s\u0103 \u021bin casa asta\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3244\" data-end=\"3344\">\u201eCasa asta?\u201d a izbucnit tata. \u201eCasa asta nu e despre control. \u0218i sigur nu e despre umilit un copil!\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3346\" data-end=\"3417\">Catrina s-a ridicat de la mas\u0103, ofensat\u0103. \u201eNu ne vorbe\u0219ti tu nou\u0103 a\u0219a\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3419\" data-end=\"3486\">\u201eBa da,\u201d a spus el. \u201e\u0218i o s\u0103 fie ultima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd trebuie s-o fac.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3488\" data-end=\"3532\">A f\u0103cut un pas spre u\u0219\u0103 \u0219i a deschis-o larg.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3534\" data-end=\"3543\">\u201eIe\u0219i\u021bi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3545\" data-end=\"3573\">Toat\u0103 lumea a r\u0103mas blocat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3575\" data-end=\"3612\">\u201ePoftim?\u201d a zis Elena, ro\u0219ie la fa\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3614\" data-end=\"3681\">\u201eAi auzit bine,\u201d a spus tata. \u201eTu \u0219i mama ta. Ie\u0219i\u021bi din casa mea.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3683\" data-end=\"3750\">\u201eE\u0219ti ridicol!\u201d a \u021bipat ea. \u201ePentru fata asta? Pentru ni\u0219te vorbe?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3752\" data-end=\"3769\">Tata nu a clipit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3771\" data-end=\"3863\">\u201eNu pentru vorbe. Pentru ce ai f\u0103cut din ele. Pentru cum ai tratat-o c\u00e2nd eu nu eram acas\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3865\" data-end=\"3899\">Am sim\u021bit cum \u00eemi tremur\u0103 m\u00e2inile.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3901\" data-end=\"3909\">El \u0219tia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3911\" data-end=\"3987\">\u201e\u021ai-am dat \u00eencredere,\u201d a continuat el. \u201e\u0218i tu ai folosit-o ca s\u0103 o r\u0103ne\u0219ti.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3989\" data-end=\"4055\">Elena s-a uitat \u00een jur, c\u0103ut\u00e2nd sus\u021binere. Nimeni nu spunea nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4057\" data-end=\"4093\">\u201eHai, mam\u0103,\u201d a zis ea printre din\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4095\" data-end=\"4141\">Catrina a bomb\u0103nit ceva, dar \u0219i-a luat geanta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4143\" data-end=\"4188\">Au trecut pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 priveasc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4190\" data-end=\"4205\">U\u0219a s-a \u00eenchis.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4207\" data-end=\"4240\">\u0218i lini\u0219tea s-a a\u0219ternut din nou.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4242\" data-end=\"4306\">Tata a r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat c\u00e2teva secunde, apoi s-a \u00eentors spre mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4308\" data-end=\"4338\">\u201e\u00cemi pare r\u0103u,\u201d a spus simplu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4340\" data-end=\"4345\">At\u00e2t.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4347\" data-end=\"4417\">\u0218i pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 mult timp\u2026 am sim\u021bit c\u0103 nu mai sunt singur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4419\" data-end=\"4489\">\u00cen seara aia, invita\u021bii au plecat mai devreme. Tortul a r\u0103mas neatins.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4491\" data-end=\"4535\">Dar tata a stat cu mine la mas\u0103, \u00een lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4537\" data-end=\"4599\">La un moment dat, a spus: \u201eMama ta ar fi fost m\u00e2ndr\u0103 de tine.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4601\" data-end=\"4627\">Am z\u00e2mbit printre lacrimi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4629\" data-end=\"4653\">Nu era o sear\u0103 perfect\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4655\" data-end=\"4686\">Dar era \u00eenceputul a ceva curat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4688\" data-end=\"4731\">A doua zi, tata a \u00eenceput actele de divor\u021b.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4733\" data-end=\"4765\">Nu a fost u\u0219or. Nu a fost rapid.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4767\" data-end=\"4785\">Dar a fost corect.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4787\" data-end=\"4837\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Iar eu\u2026 nu mi-am mai dat jos niciodat\u0103 medalionul.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nu a spus nimic c\u00e2teva secunde. Doar s-a uitat la ele. La Elena. La Catrina. \u00cen buc\u0103t\u0103rie se f\u0103cuse o lini\u0219te de puteai auzi frigiderul cum b\u00e2z\u00e2ie. Nimeni nu mi\u0219ca. Nimeni nu respira parc\u0103. Tata \u0219i-a luat m\u00e2na de pe um\u0103rul meu \u0219i a f\u0103cut un pas \u00een fa\u021b\u0103. \u201eCe-ai spus?\u201d vocea lui era joas\u0103, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":22818,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23371","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23371","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=23371"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23371\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23372,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23371\/revisions\/23372"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/22818"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=23371"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=23371"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=23371"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}