{"id":23974,"date":"2026-05-08T05:24:44","date_gmt":"2026-05-08T05:24:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=23974"},"modified":"2026-05-08T05:24:44","modified_gmt":"2026-05-08T05:24:44","slug":"fiica-mea-s-a-maritat-cu-un-coreean-cand-avea-21-de-ani-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=23974","title":{"rendered":"Fiica mea s-a m\u0103ritat cu un coreean c\u00e2nd avea 21 de ani."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Am deschis-o pe prima. Era un dormitor cu un singur pat, \u00eentins perfect, f\u0103r\u0103 nici cel mai mic semn c\u0103 doi oameni dormiser\u0103 acolo. Dulapul era plin cu haine de femeie; nu exista nicio hain\u0103 b\u0103rb\u0103teasc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Am sim\u021bit cum mi se str\u00e2nge pieptul.<\/p>\n<p>A doua camer\u0103 p\u0103rea un birou \u2014 prea ordonat, aproape nefolosit. Nu existau fotografii, nici obiecte personale care s\u0103-i apar\u021bin\u0103 lui Ji-hoon. Parc\u0103 nici nu existase vreodat\u0103 acolo.<\/p>\n<p>Am deschis ultima u\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i era s\u0103-mi fug\u0103 p\u0103m\u00e2ntul de sub picioare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5263\" data-end=\"5294\">\u00cen camer\u0103 era un pat de spital.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5296\" data-end=\"5328\">L\u00e2ng\u0103 el, un suport cu perfuzii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5330\" data-end=\"5460\">Iar pe noptier\u0103 se aflau zeci de cutii de medicamente \u0219i un teanc de analize medicale scrise \u00eentr-o limb\u0103 pe care nu o \u00een\u021belegeam.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5462\" data-end=\"5500\">M-am apropiat \u00eencet, cu genunchii moi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5502\" data-end=\"5630\">Pe perete era o fotografie cu Elena. Slab\u0103. Foarte slab\u0103. Z\u00e2mbea, dar ochii ei erau tri\u0219ti. \u00cen fotografie purta un batic pe cap.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5632\" data-end=\"5674\">Atunci am sim\u021bit c\u0103 mi se taie respira\u021bia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5676\" data-end=\"5691\">\u2014 \u201eDoamne\u2026 nu\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5693\" data-end=\"5771\">M\u00e2inile au \u00eenceput s\u0103-mi tremure at\u00e2t de tare \u00eenc\u00e2t am sc\u0103pat geanta pe podea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5773\" data-end=\"5810\">\u00cen clipa aceea am auzit cheia \u00een u\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5812\" data-end=\"5825\">Pa\u0219i gr\u0103bi\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5827\" data-end=\"5836\">Vocea ei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5838\" data-end=\"5847\">\u2014 \u201eMam\u0103?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5849\" data-end=\"6025\">Am ie\u0219it pe hol aproape alerg\u00e2nd. Elena st\u0103tea \u00een prag, \u00eenghe\u021bat\u0103, cu dou\u0103 pungi \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103. Era \u0219i mai slab\u0103 dec\u00e2t \u00een poz\u0103. Fa\u021ba \u00eei era palid\u0103, iar sub ochi avea cearc\u0103ne ad\u00e2nci.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6027\" data-end=\"6076\">C\u00e2teva secunde niciuna dintre noi n-a spus nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6078\" data-end=\"6112\">Apoi pungile i-au c\u0103zut din m\u00e2ini.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6114\" data-end=\"6137\">\u0218i a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6139\" data-end=\"6222\">Nu pl\u00e2ns normal. Pl\u00e2nsul acela care vine din ani \u00eentregi de durere \u021binut\u0103 \u00een piept.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6224\" data-end=\"6263\">Am fugit la ea \u0219i am str\u00e2ns-o \u00een bra\u021be.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6265\" data-end=\"6314\">Era at\u00e2t de u\u0219oar\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2t sim\u021beam c\u0103 \u021bin un copil.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6316\" data-end=\"6375\">\u2014 \u201eDe ce, mam\u0103?\u2026 De ce ai venit?\u201d a \u0219optit printre lacrimi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6377\" data-end=\"6425\">\u2014 \u201ePentru c\u0103 nu mai puteam tr\u0103i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te v\u0103d.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6427\" data-end=\"6464\">A \u00eenceput s\u0103 tremure \u00een bra\u021bele mele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6466\" data-end=\"6522\">Atunci am v\u0103zut un b\u0103rbat ie\u0219ind din buc\u0103t\u0103rie. Ji-hoon.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6524\" data-end=\"6651\">Avea p\u0103rul \u00eenc\u0103run\u021bit \u0219i privirea obosit\u0103. Dar \u00een ochii lui era o bl\u00e2nde\u021be pe care n-o observasem niciodat\u0103 \u00een apelurile video.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6653\" data-end=\"6693\">S-a apropiat \u0219i s-a \u00eenclinat respectuos.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6695\" data-end=\"6768\">\u2014 \u201e\u00cemi pare r\u0103u\u2026\u201d a spus \u00eentr-o rom\u00e2n\u0103 stricat\u0103. \u201eAm vrut s\u0103 o protejez.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6770\" data-end=\"6807\">\u00cen seara aceea am aflat tot adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6809\" data-end=\"6870\">Cu \u0219apte ani \u00een urm\u0103, Elena fusese diagnosticat\u0103 cu leucemie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6872\" data-end=\"6917\">La \u00eenceput, medicii \u00eei d\u0103duser\u0103 pu\u021bine \u0219anse.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6919\" data-end=\"7047\">Tratamentul fusese lung \u0219i cumplit. Chimioterapie. Opera\u021bii. Zeci de intern\u0103ri. Zile \u00eentregi \u00een care nu se putea ridica din pat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7049\" data-end=\"7102\">\u0218i atunci am \u00een\u021beles de ce nu venise niciodat\u0103 acas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7104\" data-end=\"7130\">Nu voia s\u0103 o v\u0103d distrus\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7132\" data-end=\"7198\">Nu voia s\u0103-mi las ultimele puteri pl\u00e2ng\u00e2nd l\u00e2ng\u0103 un pat de spital.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7200\" data-end=\"7255\">Banii pe care \u00eei trimitea nu veneau din averea so\u021bului.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7257\" data-end=\"7404\">Elena muncise ani \u00eentregi online, chiar \u0219i bolnav\u0103, traduc\u00e2nd \u0219i pred\u00e2nd limbi str\u0103ine. Ji-hoon lucra aproape nonstop ca s\u0103 pl\u0103teasc\u0103 tratamentele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7406\" data-end=\"7441\">Dar ea continua s\u0103-mi trimit\u0103 bani.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7443\" data-end=\"7539\">\u2014 \u201eVoiam m\u0103car s\u0103 ai o via\u021b\u0103 bun\u0103\u2026\u201d mi-a spus cu voce stins\u0103. \u201eDac\u0103 eu nu puteam fi l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7541\" data-end=\"7560\">Atunci am izbucnit:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7562\" data-end=\"7619\">\u2014 \u201eEu n-am avut nevoie de bani! Eu aveam nevoie de tine!\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7621\" data-end=\"7651\">Elena a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103 iar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7653\" data-end=\"7666\">\u0218i eu la fel.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7668\" data-end=\"7762\">\u00cen noaptea aceea am dormit l\u00e2ng\u0103 ea, \u021bin\u00e2nd-o de m\u00e2n\u0103, ca atunci c\u00e2nd era mic\u0103 \u0219i f\u0103cea febr\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7764\" data-end=\"7839\">Pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 doisprezece ani, am sim\u021bit c\u0103 mi-am reg\u0103sit copilul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7841\" data-end=\"7876\">\u00cen zilele urm\u0103toare am r\u0103mas cu ei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7878\" data-end=\"8057\">Am g\u0103tit ciorb\u0103 de pui \u0219i sarmale \u00eentr-o buc\u0103t\u0103rie care p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci p\u0103rea moart\u0103. Mirosul de m\u00e2ncare a umplut casa. Pentru prima dat\u0103, locul acela a \u00eenceput s\u0103 semene cu un c\u0103min.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8059\" data-end=\"8199\">Ji-hoon m\u0103 ajuta la orice. Mergea la pia\u021b\u0103, \u00eemi aducea ceai, \u00eencerca s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 rom\u00e2ne\u0219te \u0219i z\u00e2mbea de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd m\u0103 auzea spun\u00e2nd:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8201\" data-end=\"8223\">\u2014 \u201eMai m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 pu\u021bin.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8225\" data-end=\"8280\">Atunci am \u00een\u021beles ceva care m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103-mi fie ru\u0219ine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8282\" data-end=\"8320\">Omul acela chiar o iubise pe fata mea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8322\" data-end=\"8362\">Nu o \u021binuse departe de mine din r\u0103utate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8364\" data-end=\"8409\">O \u021binuse departe pentru c\u0103 ea \u00eei ceruse asta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8411\" data-end=\"8521\">Dup\u0103 dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, Elena m-a dus \u00eentr-un parc din Seul. Ningea u\u0219or. Mergea \u00eencet, sprijinit\u0103 de bra\u021bul meu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8523\" data-end=\"8560\">La un moment dat s-a oprit \u0219i a spus:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8562\" data-end=\"8603\">\u2014 \u201eMam\u0103\u2026 medicii spun c\u0103 sunt bine acum.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8605\" data-end=\"8638\">Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 mi se opre\u0219te inima.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8640\" data-end=\"8647\">\u2014 \u201eCe?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8649\" data-end=\"8674\">A z\u00e2mbit printre lacrimi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8676\" data-end=\"8724\">\u2014 \u201eCancerul a intrat \u00een remisie acum \u0219ase luni.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8726\" data-end=\"8747\">N-am mai putut vorbi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8749\" data-end=\"8810\">Am \u00eengenuncheat \u00een z\u0103pad\u0103 \u0219i am \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng ca un copil.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8812\" data-end=\"8876\">Oamenii treceau pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi \u0219i se uitau mira\u021bi, dar nu-mi p\u0103sa.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8878\" data-end=\"8893\">Fata mea tr\u0103ia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8895\" data-end=\"8906\">At\u00e2t conta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8908\" data-end=\"8987\">\u00cen prim\u0103vara urm\u0103toare, Elena \u0219i Ji-hoon au venit pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00een Rom\u00e2nia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8989\" data-end=\"9153\">Tot satul a ie\u0219it la poart\u0103 c\u00e2nd au cobor\u00e2t din ma\u0219in\u0103. Vecinii care ani \u00eentregi \u0219optiser\u0103 pe la col\u021buri acum o \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219au \u0219i \u00eei aduceau cozonaci, flori \u0219i zacusc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9155\" data-end=\"9246\">Iar \u00een seara de Pa\u0219te, pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 doisprezece ani, masa mea n-a mai fost goal\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9248\" data-end=\"9272\">Elena st\u0103tea l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9274\" data-end=\"9353\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">\u0218i, pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 foarte mult timp, casa mea s-a sim\u021bit din nou acas\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am deschis-o pe prima. Era un dormitor cu un singur pat, \u00eentins perfect, f\u0103r\u0103 nici cel mai mic semn c\u0103 doi oameni dormiser\u0103 acolo. Dulapul era plin cu haine de femeie; nu exista nicio hain\u0103 b\u0103rb\u0103teasc\u0103. Am sim\u021bit cum mi se str\u00e2nge pieptul. A doua camer\u0103 p\u0103rea un birou \u2014 prea ordonat, aproape nefolosit. Nu [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":22818,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23974","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23974","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=23974"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23974\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23975,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23974\/revisions\/23975"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/22818"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=23974"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=23974"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=23974"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}