{"id":23998,"date":"2026-05-08T05:58:30","date_gmt":"2026-05-08T05:58:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=23998"},"modified":"2026-05-08T05:58:30","modified_gmt":"2026-05-08T05:58:30","slug":"am-27-de-ani-si-m-am-insurat-cu-o-vaduva-araba-de-70-de-ani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=23998","title":{"rendered":"\u201eAm 27 de ani \u0219i m-am \u00eensurat cu o v\u0103duv\u0103 arab\u0103 de 70 de ani"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"2117\" data-end=\"2207\">Durerea a \u00eenceput chiar \u00eenainte s\u0103 intre \u00een camera uria\u0219\u0103 preg\u0103tit\u0103 pentru noaptea nun\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2209\" data-end=\"2222\">Nu \u00een suflet.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2224\" data-end=\"2235\">\u00cen maxilar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2237\" data-end=\"2283\">Andrei scr\u00e2\u0219nea din din\u021bi de aproape dou\u0103 ore.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2285\" data-end=\"2423\">Toat\u0103 ziua z\u00e2mbise for\u021bat \u00een fa\u021ba rudelor Lail\u0103i, suportase priviri t\u0103ioase \u0219i comentarii \u00een arab\u0103 pe care nu le \u00een\u021belegea, dar le sim\u021bea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2425\" data-end=\"2502\">Iar acum \u00eel durea at\u00e2t de tare m\u0103seaua \u00eenc\u00e2t \u00eei b\u0103tea durerea p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een t\u00e2mpl\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2504\" data-end=\"2617\">St\u0103tea pe marginea patului enorm, \u00eentr-o c\u0103ma\u0219\u0103 alb\u0103 scump\u0103 care nu p\u0103rea a lui, \u0219i \u021binea palma ap\u0103sat\u0103 pe obraz.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2619\" data-end=\"2641\">U\u0219a s-a deschis \u00eencet.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2643\" data-end=\"2680\">Laila a intrat \u00eempins\u0103 de infirmier\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2682\" data-end=\"2737\">C\u00e2nd l-a v\u0103zut \u00een starea aceea, a ridicat o spr\u00e2ncean\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2739\" data-end=\"2794\">\u2014 A\u0219a arat\u0103 un b\u0103rbat care s-a \u00eensurat pentru milioane?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2796\" data-end=\"2852\">Andrei a \u00eencercat s\u0103 z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103, dar l-a s\u0103getat durerea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2854\" data-end=\"2882\">\u2014 Cred c\u0103 mor de la o m\u0103sea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2884\" data-end=\"2942\">Pentru prima dat\u0103 de c\u00e2nd o cuno\u0219tea, femeia a r\u00e2s sincer.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2944\" data-end=\"2975\">Un r\u00e2s scurt, obosit, dar real.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2977\" data-end=\"3047\">A f\u0103cut semn infirmierei s\u0103 plece, apoi s-a apropiat cu scaunul de el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3049\" data-end=\"3065\">\u2014 Deschide gura.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3067\" data-end=\"3072\">\u2014 Ce?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3074\" data-end=\"3085\">\u2014 Deschide.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3087\" data-end=\"3105\">Andrei a ascultat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3107\" data-end=\"3148\">Laila a privit c\u00e2teva secunde \u0219i a oftat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3150\" data-end=\"3185\">\u2014 Infec\u021bie ur\u00e2t\u0103. De asta te doare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3187\" data-end=\"3265\">A ap\u0103sat pe un buton \u0219i, dup\u0103 zece minute, \u00een camer\u0103 a intrat un medic privat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3267\" data-end=\"3380\">La dou\u0103 noaptea, Andrei era \u00eentins \u00eentr-un cabinet medical din vila ei, cu anestezie \u00een gingie \u0219i o m\u0103sea scoas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3382\" data-end=\"3431\">Dup\u0103 interven\u021bie abia mai putea s\u0103 stea pe scaun.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3433\" data-end=\"3453\">De aici pornise tot.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3455\" data-end=\"3546\">A doua zi diminea\u021b\u0103 s-a trezit pe canapea, cu obrazul umflat \u0219i cu o tav\u0103 de sup\u0103 l\u00e2ng\u0103 el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3548\" data-end=\"3597\">Laila st\u0103tea l\u00e2ng\u0103 fereastr\u0103 \u0219i citea ni\u0219te acte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3599\" data-end=\"3710\">\u2014 Supa e f\u0103cut\u0103 de buc\u0103tarul meu. Dar e proast\u0103, a spus ea f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ridice ochii. Voi, rom\u00e2nii, g\u0103ti\u021bi mai bine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3712\" data-end=\"3759\">Andrei a r\u00e2s pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 multe luni.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3761\" data-end=\"3813\">\u00cen zilele urm\u0103toare a \u00eenceput s\u0103 o priveasc\u0103 altfel.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3815\" data-end=\"3848\">Nu mai vedea doar b\u0103tr\u00e2na bogat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3850\" data-end=\"3873\">Vedea o femeie singur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3875\" data-end=\"3922\">O femeie care \u00ee\u0219i \u00eengropase so\u021bul \u0219i doi copii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3924\" data-end=\"3992\">O femeie care tr\u0103ia printre oameni care \u00eei z\u00e2mbeau doar din interes.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3994\" data-end=\"4050\">\u0218i, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i dea seama, a \u00eenceput s\u0103-i fie mil\u0103 de ea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4052\" data-end=\"4092\">\u00centr-o sear\u0103, Laila l-a \u00eentrebat direct:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4094\" data-end=\"4133\">\u2014 Dac\u0103 n-a\u0219 avea bani, ai mai fi r\u0103mas?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4135\" data-end=\"4166\">\u00centrebarea l-a lovit \u00een stomac.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4168\" data-end=\"4184\">A vrut s\u0103 mint\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4186\" data-end=\"4200\">Dar n-a putut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4202\" data-end=\"4207\">\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4209\" data-end=\"4232\">Ea a dat \u00eencet din cap.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4234\" data-end=\"4278\">\u2014 M\u0103car tu ai avut curajul s\u0103 spui adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4280\" data-end=\"4326\">Apoi \u0219i-a \u00eentors privirea spre ora\u0219ul luminat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4328\" data-end=\"4367\">\u2014 To\u021bi ceilal\u021bi m\u0103 mint de ani \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4369\" data-end=\"4421\">\u00cen lunile care au urmat, ceva s-a schimbat \u00eentre ei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4423\" data-end=\"4445\">Nu iubire ca \u00een filme.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4447\" data-end=\"4455\">Altceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4457\" data-end=\"4465\">Respect.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4467\" data-end=\"4475\">Lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4477\" data-end=\"4487\">\u00cencredere.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4489\" data-end=\"4680\">Andrei o \u00eempingea uneori prin gr\u0103dinile vilei seara, iar ea \u00eei povestea despre tinere\u021bea ei, despre cum fusese m\u0103ritat\u0103 la \u0219aisprezece ani \u0219i cum \u00eenv\u0103\u021base s\u0103 supravie\u021buiasc\u0103 \u00eentr-o lume dur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4682\" data-end=\"4769\">Iar el \u00eei vorbea despre satul lui din Rom\u00e2nia, despre iernile grele \u0219i despre mama lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4771\" data-end=\"4810\">\u00centr-o zi, sora lui l-a sunat pl\u00e2ng\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4812\" data-end=\"4861\">\u2014 Mama poate merge din nou\u2026 Terapia a func\u021bionat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4863\" data-end=\"4921\">Andrei a \u00eenchis ochii \u0219i a sim\u021bit c\u0103 i se taie picioarele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4923\" data-end=\"4984\">Toat\u0103 via\u021ba fugise dup\u0103 bani crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 asta salveaz\u0103 oameni.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4986\" data-end=\"5064\">Dar pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00een\u021belegea c\u0103 uneori oamenii sunt salva\u021bi \u0219i de bun\u0103tate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5066\" data-end=\"5116\">Dup\u0103 aproape un an, Laila l-a chemat \u00een biroul ei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5118\" data-end=\"5144\">Pe mas\u0103 era un dosar gros.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5146\" data-end=\"5275\">\u2014 Nepo\u021bii mei \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 declare incapabil\u0103 psihic ca s\u0103 pun\u0103 m\u00e2na pe avere, a spus calm. Dar eu am terminat cu jocurile lor.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5277\" data-end=\"5302\">A \u00eempins dosarul spre el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5304\" data-end=\"5375\">\u2014 Vila din Rom\u00e2nia pentru p\u0103rin\u021bii t\u0103i. Pl\u0103tit\u0103 integral. \u0218i \u00eenc\u0103 ceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5377\" data-end=\"5405\">Andrei a deschis \u00eencet mapa.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5407\" data-end=\"5455\">Era actul unei firme de transport pe numele lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5457\" data-end=\"5479\">A ridicat ochii \u0219ocat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5481\" data-end=\"5499\">\u2014 De ce faci asta?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5501\" data-end=\"5523\">Laila l-a privit lung.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5525\" data-end=\"5581\">\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 tu ai venit aici pentru bani \u0219i ai r\u0103mas om.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5583\" data-end=\"5634\">Trei luni mai t\u00e2rziu, Andrei s-a \u00eentors \u00een Rom\u00e2nia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5636\" data-end=\"5660\">Nu ca un b\u0103iat disperat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5662\" data-end=\"5714\">Ci ca un om care \u00ee\u0219i putea \u021bine familia pe picioare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5716\" data-end=\"5838\">\u00cen ziua \u00een care a deschis firma, mama lui a pl\u00e2ns \u00een curte, iar tat\u0103l lui l-a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 mul\u021bi ani.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5840\" data-end=\"5932\">Iar seara, \u00eenainte s\u0103 adoarm\u0103, Andrei s-a uitat la fotografia cu Dubaiul salvat\u0103 \u00een telefon.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5934\" data-end=\"6010\">\u0218i a \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 uneori via\u021ba te duce foarte departe nu ca s\u0103 te \u00eembog\u0103\u021be\u0219ti\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6012\" data-end=\"6053\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Ci ca s\u0103 te \u00eenve\u021be cine e\u0219ti cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Durerea a \u00eenceput chiar \u00eenainte s\u0103 intre \u00een camera uria\u0219\u0103 preg\u0103tit\u0103 pentru noaptea nun\u021bii. Nu \u00een suflet. \u00cen maxilar. Andrei scr\u00e2\u0219nea din din\u021bi de aproape dou\u0103 ore. Toat\u0103 ziua z\u00e2mbise for\u021bat \u00een fa\u021ba rudelor Lail\u0103i, suportase priviri t\u0103ioase \u0219i comentarii \u00een arab\u0103 pe care nu le \u00een\u021belegea, dar le sim\u021bea. Iar acum \u00eel durea at\u00e2t [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":22818,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23998","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23998","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=23998"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23998\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23999,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23998\/revisions\/23999"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/22818"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=23998"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=23998"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=23998"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}