{"id":24080,"date":"2026-05-08T15:24:43","date_gmt":"2026-05-08T15:24:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=24080"},"modified":"2026-05-08T15:24:43","modified_gmt":"2026-05-08T15:24:43","slug":"sotul-meu-si-a-facut-vasectomie-iar-doua-luni-mai-tarziu-am-ramas-insarcinata-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=24080","title":{"rendered":"So\u021bul meu \u0219i-a f\u0103cut vasectomie, iar dou\u0103 luni mai t\u00e2rziu am r\u0103mas \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Doctori\u021ba a mi\u0219cat aparatul o dat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>A \u00eencetat s\u0103 mai z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Mama m-a str\u00e2ns de m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 E ceva \u00een neregul\u0103? \u2014 am \u00eentrebat, sim\u021bind c\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n f\u0103r\u0103 aer.<\/p>\n<p>Doctori\u021ba nu mi-a r\u0103spuns imediat.<\/p>\n<p>A apropiat ecranul.<\/p>\n<p>S-a \u00eencruntat.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i apoi a spus foarte \u00eencet:<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ana\u2026 trebuie s\u0103 te ui\u021bi aici, pentru c\u0103 nu e doar un singur copil.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5294\" data-end=\"5333\">Am sim\u021bit cum mi se \u00eenmoaie tot corpul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5335\" data-end=\"5359\">\u2014 Cum adic\u0103\u2026? am \u0219optit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5361\" data-end=\"5426\">Doctori\u021ba a z\u00e2mbit slab \u0219i a \u00eentors monitorul mai bine spre mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5428\" data-end=\"5442\">\u2014 Sunt gemeni.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5444\" data-end=\"5504\">Mama a dus m\u00e2na la gur\u0103 \u0219i a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103 \u00eenaintea mea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5506\" data-end=\"5528\">Eu am r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5530\" data-end=\"5589\">Parc\u0103 mintea mea nu putea \u021bine pasul cu tot ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpla.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5591\" data-end=\"5617\">Un so\u021b care m\u0103 abandonase.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5619\" data-end=\"5632\">O cas\u0103 goal\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5634\" data-end=\"5642\">Ru\u0219inea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5644\" data-end=\"5650\">Frica.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5652\" data-end=\"5671\">\u0218i acum\u2026 doi copii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5673\" data-end=\"5714\">Dou\u0103 inimioare mici care b\u0103teau pe ecran.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5716\" data-end=\"5721\">Dou\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5723\" data-end=\"5772\">Doctori\u021ba vorbea, dar eu auzeam totul de departe.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5774\" data-end=\"5849\">\u2014 Sarcina pare bun\u0103\u2026 inimile bat normal\u2026 va trebui s\u0103 v\u0103 odihni\u021bi mai mult\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5851\" data-end=\"5879\">Eu m\u0103 uitam doar la monitor.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5881\" data-end=\"5934\">\u0218i pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 multe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5936\" data-end=\"5950\">Un z\u00e2mbet mic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5952\" data-end=\"5965\">Dar adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5967\" data-end=\"6006\">\u00cen drum spre cas\u0103, mama \u00eemi \u021binea m\u00e2na.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6008\" data-end=\"6029\">\u2014 O s\u0103 fie greu, Ana.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6031\" data-end=\"6038\">\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6040\" data-end=\"6064\">\u2014 Dar o s\u0103 trecem peste.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6066\" data-end=\"6121\">M-am uitat pe geam la blocurile gri \u0219i oamenii gr\u0103bi\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6123\" data-end=\"6143\">\u0218i am realizat ceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6145\" data-end=\"6165\">Nu mai eram singur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6167\" data-end=\"6177\">Niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6179\" data-end=\"6223\">Vestea despre gemeni a ajuns repede la rude.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6225\" data-end=\"6249\">Unii m\u0103 priveau cu mil\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6251\" data-end=\"6266\">Al\u021bii cu b\u00e2rf\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6268\" data-end=\"6302\">\u201eSigur nici nu \u0219tie cine e tat\u0103l.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6304\" data-end=\"6332\">\u201ePoate de-aia a fugit omul.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6334\" data-end=\"6391\">Rom\u00e2nia e plin\u0103 de oameni care judec\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tie nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6393\" data-end=\"6435\">Dar dup\u0103 un timp am \u00eencetat s\u0103 mai explic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6437\" data-end=\"6465\">Cine voia s\u0103 cread\u0103, credea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6467\" data-end=\"6509\">Cine nu\u2026 oricum n-ar fi f\u0103cut-o niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6511\" data-end=\"6576\">\u00centr-o sear\u0103, pe la \u0219apte luni de sarcin\u0103, cineva a b\u0103tut la u\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6578\" data-end=\"6618\">Mama s-a uitat pe vizor \u0219i a \u00eencremenit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6620\" data-end=\"6631\">\u2014 E Andrei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6633\" data-end=\"6653\">Inima mi-a tres\u0103rit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6655\" data-end=\"6668\">Nu de iubire.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6670\" data-end=\"6679\">De furie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6681\" data-end=\"6696\">A intrat \u00eencet.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6698\" data-end=\"6706\">Sl\u0103bise.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6708\" data-end=\"6743\">Avea cearc\u0103ne \u0219i o privire obosit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6745\" data-end=\"6778\">Nu mai p\u0103rea at\u00e2t de sigur pe el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6780\" data-end=\"6808\">\u2014 Ce vrei? am \u00eentrebat rece.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6810\" data-end=\"6859\">S-a uitat la burta mea mare \u0219i a \u00eenghi\u021bit \u00een sec.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6861\" data-end=\"6887\">\u2014 Am aflat c\u0103 sunt gemeni\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6889\" data-end=\"6898\">Am t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6900\" data-end=\"6910\">\u2014 Ana\u2026 eu\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6912\" data-end=\"6935\">Dar nu g\u0103sea cuvintele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6937\" data-end=\"6962\">Mama s-a ridicat imediat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6964\" data-end=\"6989\">\u2014 Acum \u00ee\u021bi cau\u021bi familia?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6991\" data-end=\"7012\">El \u0219i-a plecat capul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7014\" data-end=\"7033\">\u2014 Am f\u0103cut testele\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7035\" data-end=\"7066\">M-am uitat direct \u00een ochii lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7068\" data-end=\"7073\">\u2014 \u0218i?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7075\" data-end=\"7092\">Vocea i s-a rupt.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7094\" data-end=\"7108\">\u2014 Sunt ai mei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7110\" data-end=\"7138\">\u00cen camer\u0103 s-a f\u0103cut lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7140\" data-end=\"7167\">\u0218tiam c\u0103 ziua asta va veni.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7169\" data-end=\"7201\">Dar nu m\u0103 mai \u00eenc\u0103lzea cu nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7203\" data-end=\"7227\">Andrei \u00eencepu s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7229\" data-end=\"7295\">Un pl\u00e2ns ur\u00e2t, de om care \u0219i-a dat seama prea t\u00e2rziu ce a pierdut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7297\" data-end=\"7331\">\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u\u2026 Ana, \u00eemi pare r\u0103u\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7333\" data-end=\"7389\">Mi-am amintit de toate nop\u021bile \u00een care dormisem singur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7391\" data-end=\"7410\">De toate lacrimile.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7412\" data-end=\"7440\">De umilin\u021ba din supermarket.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7442\" data-end=\"7457\">De mesajul lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7459\" data-end=\"7481\">\u201eDescurc\u0103-te singur\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7483\" data-end=\"7519\">\u0218i atunci am \u00een\u021beles ceva important.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7521\" data-end=\"7573\">Uneori iertarea nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 prime\u0219ti omul \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7575\" data-end=\"7626\">\u00censeamn\u0103 doar s\u0103 nu mai la\u0219i durerea s\u0103 te conduc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7628\" data-end=\"7672\">\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u nu repar\u0103 tot \u2014 am spus calm.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7674\" data-end=\"7688\">A dat din cap.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7690\" data-end=\"7695\">\u0218tia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7697\" data-end=\"7737\">\u2014 Vreau doar s\u0103 fac parte din via\u021ba lor\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7739\" data-end=\"7758\">M-am uitat la mama.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7760\" data-end=\"7771\">Apoi la el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7773\" data-end=\"7821\">\u0218i pentru prima dat\u0103 nu am mai v\u0103zut un monstru.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7823\" data-end=\"7843\">Am v\u0103zut un om slab.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7845\" data-end=\"7907\">Un om care fugise de responsabilitate \u0219i pierduse aproape tot.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7909\" data-end=\"7967\">Copiii s-au n\u0103scut \u00eentr-o diminea\u021b\u0103 ploioas\u0103 de noiembrie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7969\" data-end=\"7988\">Un b\u0103iat \u0219i o fat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7990\" data-end=\"8005\">Matei \u0219i Maria.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8007\" data-end=\"8063\">C\u00e2nd asistenta mi i-a pus \u00een bra\u021be, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8065\" data-end=\"8080\">Nu de triste\u021be.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8082\" data-end=\"8098\">De recuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8100\" data-end=\"8125\">Andrei a venit la spital.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8127\" data-end=\"8171\">A stat \u00een u\u0219\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103zneasc\u0103 s\u0103 intre.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8173\" data-end=\"8198\">I-am f\u0103cut semn cu capul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8200\" data-end=\"8268\">S-a apropiat \u00eencet \u0219i c\u00e2nd \u0219i-a v\u0103zut copiii, a izbucnit \u00een lacrimi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8270\" data-end=\"8318\">Matei \u00eei prinsese degetul cu m\u00e2na lui minuscul\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8320\" data-end=\"8369\">\u0218i atunci am \u0219tiut c\u0103 via\u021ba ne schimbase pe to\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8371\" data-end=\"8404\">Nu ne mai \u00eentorceam la ce fusese.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8406\" data-end=\"8435\">Dar poate c\u0103 nici nu trebuia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8437\" data-end=\"8525\">Pentru c\u0103 uneori, cele mai dureroase tr\u0103d\u0103ri deschid drumul c\u0103tre o via\u021b\u0103 mai adev\u0103rat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8527\" data-end=\"8621\">Iar eu, femeia pe care o f\u0103cuser\u0103 mincinoas\u0103 \u0219i infidel\u0103, ajunsesem exact unde trebuia s\u0103 fiu:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8623\" data-end=\"8715\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">\u021ain\u00e2nd \u00een bra\u021be dou\u0103 suflete care mi-au salvat via\u021ba exact c\u00e2nd credeam c\u0103 am pierdut totul.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Doctori\u021ba a mi\u0219cat aparatul o dat\u0103. Apoi \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103. A \u00eencetat s\u0103 mai z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103. Mama m-a str\u00e2ns de m\u00e2n\u0103. \u2014 E ceva \u00een neregul\u0103? \u2014 am \u00eentrebat, sim\u021bind c\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n f\u0103r\u0103 aer. Doctori\u021ba nu mi-a r\u0103spuns imediat. A apropiat ecranul. S-a \u00eencruntat. \u0218i apoi a spus foarte \u00eencet: \u2014 Ana\u2026 trebuie s\u0103 te ui\u021bi [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":22818,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24080","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24080","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=24080"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24080\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24081,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24080\/revisions\/24081"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/22818"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=24080"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=24080"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=24080"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}