{"id":24160,"date":"2026-05-10T05:49:26","date_gmt":"2026-05-10T05:49:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=24160"},"modified":"2026-05-10T05:49:26","modified_gmt":"2026-05-10T05:49:26","slug":"fiica-mea-s-a-maritat-cu-un-coreean-cand-avea-21-de-ani-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=24160","title":{"rendered":"Fiica mea s-a m\u0103ritat cu un coreean c\u00e2nd avea 21 de ani"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Am deschis-o pe prima. Era un dormitor cu un singur pat, \u00eentins perfect, f\u0103r\u0103 nici cel mai mic semn c\u0103 doi oameni dormiser\u0103 acolo. Dulapul era plin cu haine de femeie; nu exista niciun obiect b\u0103rb\u0103tesc.<\/p>\n<p>Am sim\u021bit cum mi se str\u00e2nge pieptul.<\/p>\n<p>A doua camer\u0103 p\u0103rea un birou \u2014 prea ordonat, aproape nefolosit. Nu existau fotografii, nici obiecte personale care s\u0103 apar\u021bin\u0103 lui Min-jun. Parc\u0103 omul acela nici nu existase vreodat\u0103 acolo.<\/p>\n<p>Am deschis ultima u\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i aproape c\u0103 mi-au cedat picioarele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5302\" data-end=\"5341\">\u00cen mijlocul camerei era un pat medical.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5343\" data-end=\"5361\">L\u00e2ng\u0103 el, aparate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5363\" data-end=\"5372\">Perfuzie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5374\" data-end=\"5386\">Medicamente.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5388\" data-end=\"5412\">Iar pe pat\u2026 era Izabela.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5414\" data-end=\"5460\">At\u00e2t de slab\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2t aproape n-am recunoscut-o.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5462\" data-end=\"5590\">Fa\u021ba ei frumoas\u0103 era palid\u0103, iar p\u0103rul \u00eei c\u0103zuse aproape complet. C\u00e2nd m-a v\u0103zut \u00een u\u0219\u0103, ochii i s-au umplut instant de lacrimi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5592\" data-end=\"5601\">\u2014 \u201eMam\u0103\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5603\" data-end=\"5625\">At\u00e2t a putut s\u0103 spun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5627\" data-end=\"5665\">Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 mi se rupe ceva \u00een piept.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5667\" data-end=\"5691\">M-am apropiat tremur\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5693\" data-end=\"5739\">\u2014 \u201eDoamne, Izabela\u2026 ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat cu tine?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5741\" data-end=\"5770\">Ea a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103 \u00eencet.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5772\" data-end=\"5817\">Atunci am observat fotografia de pe noptier\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5819\" data-end=\"5827\">Min-jun.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5829\" data-end=\"5858\">Cu o panglic\u0103 neagr\u0103 pe col\u021b.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5860\" data-end=\"5879\">Am \u00een\u021beles imediat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5881\" data-end=\"5954\">M\u00e2inile au \u00eenceput s\u0103-mi tremure at\u00e2t de tare \u00eenc\u00e2t a trebuit s\u0103 m\u0103 a\u0219ez.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5956\" data-end=\"5983\">Izabela \u0219i-a acoperit fa\u021ba.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5985\" data-end=\"6018\">\u2014 \u201eA murit acum \u0219apte ani, mam\u0103\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6020\" data-end=\"6038\">Am r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 aer.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6040\" data-end=\"6050\">\u0218apte ani.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6052\" data-end=\"6127\">\u0218apte ani \u00een care eu crezusem c\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219te fericit\u0103 al\u0103turi de un so\u021b bogat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6129\" data-end=\"6171\">\u0218apte ani \u00een care fata mea fusese singur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6173\" data-end=\"6181\">Bolnav\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6183\" data-end=\"6199\">Departe de cas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6201\" data-end=\"6236\">\u2014 \u201eDe ce nu mi-ai spus?\u201d am \u0219optit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6238\" data-end=\"6279\">Ea \u0219i-a mu\u0219cat buzele \u0219i a privit \u00een jos.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6281\" data-end=\"6343\">\u2014 \u201ePentru c\u0103 dup\u0103 ce a murit el\u2026 am aflat \u0219i eu c\u0103 am cancer.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6345\" data-end=\"6366\">Am izbucnit \u00een pl\u00e2ns.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6368\" data-end=\"6397\">Nu mai puteam controla nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6399\" data-end=\"6415\">To\u021bi anii aceia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6417\" data-end=\"6438\">Toate mesele singur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6440\" data-end=\"6501\">Toate nop\u021bile \u00een care o blestemasem \u00een g\u00e2nd c\u0103 nu vine acas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6503\" data-end=\"6535\">Iar ea lupta s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6537\" data-end=\"6545\">Singur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6547\" data-end=\"6567\">\u00centr-o \u021bar\u0103 str\u0103in\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6569\" data-end=\"6593\">Izabela mi-a prins m\u00e2na.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6595\" data-end=\"6614\">Era rece ca ghea\u021ba.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6616\" data-end=\"6644\">\u2014 \u201eNu voiam s\u0103 m\u0103 vezi a\u0219a.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6646\" data-end=\"6678\">Am pl\u00e2ns am\u00e2ndou\u0103 minute \u00een \u0219ir.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6680\" data-end=\"6703\">Apoi mi-a povestit tot.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6705\" data-end=\"6844\">Dup\u0103 moartea lui Min-jun, r\u0103m\u0103sese cu firma lui \u0219i cu foarte mul\u021bi bani. Dar boala venise repede. Opera\u021bii. Chimioterapie. Spitale. Durere.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6846\" data-end=\"6899\">\u00cen fiecare an \u00eemi trimitea bani fiindc\u0103 \u00eei era fric\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6901\" data-end=\"6951\">Fric\u0103 s\u0103 nu r\u0103m\u00e2n singur\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103rac\u0103 dac\u0103 ea murea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6953\" data-end=\"7013\">\u2014 \u201eM\u0103car s\u0103 ai o cas\u0103 bun\u0103\u2026 m\u0103car s\u0103 nu-\u021bi lipseasc\u0103 nimic.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7015\" data-end=\"7041\">Cuvintele ei m-au distrus.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7043\" data-end=\"7079\">Pentru c\u0103 eu n-aveam nevoie de bani.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7081\" data-end=\"7109\">Aveam nevoie de copilul meu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7111\" data-end=\"7146\">Am r\u0103mas l\u00e2ng\u0103 ea \u00een noaptea aceea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7148\" data-end=\"7164\">I-am f\u0103cut ceai.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7166\" data-end=\"7188\">I-am m\u00e2ng\u00e2iat fruntea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7190\" data-end=\"7238\">Exact cum \u00eei f\u0103ceam c\u00e2nd era mic\u0103 \u0219i avea febr\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7240\" data-end=\"7314\">Diminea\u021ba, pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 mul\u021bi ani, a adormit \u021bin\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 de m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7316\" data-end=\"7366\">\u00cen zilele urm\u0103toare, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 locuiesc cu ea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7368\" data-end=\"7422\">Casa aceea rece a \u00eenceput \u00eencet s\u0103 semene cu un c\u0103min.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7424\" data-end=\"7440\">Am g\u0103tit ciorb\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7442\" data-end=\"7463\">Am deschis geamurile.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7465\" data-end=\"7509\">Am pus muzic\u0103 rom\u00e2neasc\u0103 \u00eencet \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7511\" data-end=\"7572\">\u0218i pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 doisprezece ani, am auzit-o r\u00e2z\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7574\" data-end=\"7623\">\u00cen Ajunul Cr\u0103ciunului, am f\u0103cut sarmale \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7625\" data-end=\"7706\">Ea st\u0103tea pe scaun \u0219i \u00eemi dicta cum s\u0103 le \u00eemp\u0103turesc, r\u00e2z\u00e2nd c\u0103 le fac prea mari.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7708\" data-end=\"7758\">La un moment dat s-a uitat lung la mine \u0219i a spus:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7760\" data-end=\"7783\">\u2014 \u201eMam\u0103\u2026 \u00eemi pare r\u0103u.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7785\" data-end=\"7828\">Am mers la ea \u0219i am str\u00e2ns-o tare \u00een bra\u021be.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7830\" data-end=\"7865\">\u2014 \u201eNu mai pierdem timp cu regrete.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7867\" data-end=\"7892\">A \u00eenceput s\u0103 ning\u0103 afar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7894\" data-end=\"7916\">Fulgi mari, lini\u0219ti\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7918\" data-end=\"8003\">Iar pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 foarte mul\u021bi ani, n-am mai sim\u021bit c\u0103 sunt singur\u0103 pe lume.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8005\" data-end=\"8077\">Trei luni mai t\u00e2rziu, doctorii ne-au dat o veste pe care n-o mai speram.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8079\" data-end=\"8114\">Tratamentul \u00eencepea s\u0103 func\u021bioneze.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8116\" data-end=\"8136\">Tumora se mic\u0219orase.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8138\" data-end=\"8179\">Izabela a \u00eenceput \u00eencet s\u0103 prind\u0103 putere.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8181\" data-end=\"8189\">Nu mult.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8191\" data-end=\"8290\">Dar suficient c\u00e2t s\u0103 poat\u0103 ie\u0219i afar\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi \u0219i s\u0103 mearg\u0103 cu mine prin parc, \u021bin\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 de bra\u021b.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8292\" data-end=\"8339\">Atunci am \u00een\u021beles ceva ce n-o s\u0103 uit niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8341\" data-end=\"8408\">Uneori, oamenii trimit bani fiindc\u0103 nu \u0219tiu cum s\u0103 trimit\u0103 durerea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8410\" data-end=\"8453\">Iar uneori, cel mai mare cadou nu e averea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8455\" data-end=\"8511\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Ci faptul c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 mai ai timp s\u0103-\u021bi \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219ezi copilul.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am deschis-o pe prima. Era un dormitor cu un singur pat, \u00eentins perfect, f\u0103r\u0103 nici cel mai mic semn c\u0103 doi oameni dormiser\u0103 acolo. Dulapul era plin cu haine de femeie; nu exista niciun obiect b\u0103rb\u0103tesc. Am sim\u021bit cum mi se str\u00e2nge pieptul. A doua camer\u0103 p\u0103rea un birou \u2014 prea ordonat, aproape nefolosit. Nu [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":22819,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24160","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24160","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=24160"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24160\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24161,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24160\/revisions\/24161"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/22819"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=24160"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=24160"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=24160"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}