{"id":24170,"date":"2026-05-10T06:01:24","date_gmt":"2026-05-10T06:01:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=24170"},"modified":"2026-05-10T06:01:24","modified_gmt":"2026-05-10T06:01:24","slug":"la-7-ani-am-plans-si-am-insistat-ca-ma-voi-marita-cu-vecinul-meu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=24170","title":{"rendered":"La 7 ani, am pl\u00e2ns \u0219i am insistat c\u0103 m\u0103 voi m\u0103rita cu vecinul meu"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Toat\u0103 sala a izbucnit \u00een r\u00e2sete scurte \u0219i st\u00e2njenite.<\/p>\n

Eu \u00eens\u0103 nu puteam s\u0103 respir.<\/p>\n

\u00cel priveam fix, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103-mi dau seama dac\u0103 era posibil.<\/p>\n

Ochii.<\/p>\n

Z\u00e2mbetul.<\/p>\n

Felul \u00een care \u00ee\u0219i \u021binea m\u00e2inile \u00een buzunare.<\/p>\n

Era Andrei.<\/p>\n

Doar c\u0103 nu mai era b\u0103iatul simplu din cartier.<\/p>\n

Era directorul unei companii uria\u0219e.<\/p>\n

Iar eu st\u0103team \u00een fa\u021ba lui cu un dosar \u00een bra\u021be \u0219i cu inima b\u0103t\u00e2nd ca nebuna.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Domni\u0219oara Irina Popa, nu? a \u00eentrebat el calm.<\/p>\n

Mi-am dres vocea.<\/p>\n

\u2014 D-da\u2026<\/p>\n

Comisia p\u0103rea confuz\u0103.<\/p>\n

Unul dintre manageri a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n

\u2014 V\u0103 cunoa\u0219te\u021bi?<\/p>\n

Andrei s-a uitat direct la mine.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Ea a fost prima persoan\u0103 care mi-a spus c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 m\u0103 ia de b\u0103rbat.<\/p>\n

Am sim\u021bit cum \u00eemi ard obrajii.<\/p>\n

Doamne\u2026<\/p>\n

A \u021binut minte.<\/p>\n

Dup\u0103 interviu, c\u00e2nd to\u021bi au ie\u0219it din sal\u0103, el m-a rugat s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n c\u00e2teva minute.<\/p>\n

Am r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103 pe scaun.<\/p>\n

Nu \u0219tiam dac\u0103 s\u0103 fug sau s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng.<\/p>\n

Andrei s-a apropiat \u00eencet \u0219i s-a sprijinit de mas\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Ai crescut.<\/p>\n

Am r\u00e2s scurt, emo\u021bionat\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u2014 \u0218i tu.<\/p>\n

Pentru c\u00e2teva secunde s-a l\u0103sat lini\u0219tea.<\/p>\n

Apoi m-a \u00eentrebat:<\/p>\n

\u2014 Mai pl\u00e2ngi c\u00e2nd nu ob\u021bii ce vrei?<\/p>\n

Am izbucnit \u00een r\u00e2s f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 vreau.<\/p>\n

Exact a\u0219a m\u0103 tachina c\u00e2nd eram mic\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u0218i dintr-odat\u0103\u2026 to\u021bi anii au disp\u0103rut.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Tu ai disp\u0103rut, am spus \u00eencet. F\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 spui nimic.<\/p>\n

Privirea lui s-a schimbat imediat.<\/p>\n

Mai serioas\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Bunica era foarte bolnav\u0103 atunci. Dup\u0103 ce a murit, am fost nevoit s\u0103 plec din Bucure\u0219ti. Munceam zi \u0219i noapte. N-am vrut s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentorc p\u00e2n\u0103 nu reu\u0219eam ceva \u00een via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Dar puteai m\u0103car s\u0103-mi spui.<\/p>\n

A z\u00e2mbit trist.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Erai un copil, Irina.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Nu chiar.<\/p>\n

El a r\u0103mas t\u0103cut c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n

Apoi s-a apropiat \u0219i mai mult.<\/p>\n

\u2014 \u0218tii ce e ciudat?<\/p>\n

\u2014 Ce?<\/p>\n

\u2014 C\u0103 \u00een to\u021bi anii \u0103\u0219tia\u2026 n-am uitat niciodat\u0103 feti\u021ba care \u021bipa \u00een mijlocul cur\u021bii c\u0103 o s\u0103 m\u0103 ia de so\u021b.<\/p>\n

Inima aproape c\u0103 mi-a cedat.<\/p>\n

Am \u00eencercat s\u0103 schimb subiectul.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Deci\u2026 m-ai chemat aici doar ca s\u0103 r\u00e2zi de mine?<\/p>\n

\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n

A luat CV-ul meu de pe mas\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u2014 L-am citit \u00eenainte s\u0103 intri.<\/p>\n

\u2014 \u0218i?<\/p>\n

\u2014 \u0218i ai fost cea mai bun\u0103 candidat\u0103.<\/p>\n

Am clipit surprins\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Vorbe\u0219ti serios?<\/p>\n

\u2014 Foarte serios.<\/p>\n

Apoi a z\u00e2mbit iar.<\/p>\n

\u2014 De\u0219i partea cu \u201eso\u021bia directorului\u201d \u00eenc\u0103 e disponibil\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Andrei!<\/p>\n

A r\u00e2s pentru prima dat\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n

\u0218i \u00een r\u00e2sul lui am recunoscut b\u0103iatul care \u00eemi cump\u0103ra \u00eenghe\u021bat\u0103 dup\u0103 ce pl\u00e2ngeam.<\/p>\n

\u00cen ziua aceea am primit jobul.<\/p>\n

Dar asta n-a fost partea care mi-a schimbat via\u021ba.<\/p>\n

\u00cen urm\u0103toarele luni am \u00eenceput s\u0103 lucr\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103 aproape zilnic. El m\u0103 trata exact ca pe ceilal\u021bi angaja\u021bi.<\/p>\n

Poate chiar mai dur.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Raportul \u0103sta poate fi mai bun.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Ai poten\u021bial mai mare de at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Nu te mul\u021bumi cu pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n

Uneori m\u0103 enerva.<\/p>\n

Alteori m\u0103 f\u0103cea s\u0103 vreau s\u0103 muncesc \u0219i mai mult.<\/p>\n

Dar \u00eencet-\u00eencet, \u00eentre \u0219edin\u021be, proiecte \u0219i cafele b\u0103ute t\u00e2rziu la birou, am \u00eenceput s\u0103-l cunosc cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n

Nu era doar b\u0103iatul perfect pe care \u00eel idealizasem.<\/p>\n

Avea oboseal\u0103 \u00een ochi.<\/p>\n

Avea nop\u021bi \u00een care r\u0103m\u00e2nea singur \u00een birou p\u00e2n\u0103 diminea\u021ba.<\/p>\n

Avea frici pe care nu le ar\u0103ta nim\u0103nui.<\/p>\n

\u0218i pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba mea, nu-l mai iubeam ca un copil care viseaz\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u00cel iubeam ca femeie.<\/p>\n

\u00centr-o sear\u0103, dup\u0103 o prezentare important\u0103, toat\u0103 echipa a ie\u0219it la restaurant. C\u00e2nd am r\u0103mas singuri \u00een parcare, Andrei m-a oprit \u00eenainte s\u0103 urc \u00een taxi.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Irina.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Da?<\/p>\n

S-a uitat lung la mine.<\/p>\n

Exact ca \u00een ziua interviului.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Mai e valabil\u0103 promisiunea aia?<\/p>\n

Am sim\u021bit c\u0103-mi fuge p\u0103m\u00e2ntul de sub picioare.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Care promisiune?<\/p>\n

A z\u00e2mbit \u00eencet.<\/p>\n

\u2014 C\u0103 te m\u0103ri\u021bi cu mine.<\/p>\n

L-am privit c\u00e2teva secunde f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 pot vorbi.<\/p>\n

Apoi am r\u00e2s printre lacrimi.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Mi-a luat doar cincisprezece ani s\u0103 ajung aici.<\/p>\n

El s-a apropiat \u0219i mi-a \u0219ters o lacrim\u0103 cu degetul.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Mie mi-a luat cincisprezece ani s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 n-am uitat niciodat\u0103 fata care m\u0103 f\u0103cea s\u0103 m\u0103 simt acas\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u0218i atunci m-a s\u0103rutat.<\/p>\n

Nu ca \u00een pove\u0219tile perfecte.<\/p>\n

Nu ca \u00een filme.<\/p>\n

Ci ca doi oameni care se c\u0103utaser\u0103 ani \u00eentregi f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tie dac\u0103 se vor mai g\u0103si vreodat\u0103.<\/p>\n

Iar \u00een clipa aceea am \u00een\u021beles ceva simplu.<\/p>\n

Unele promisiuni f\u0103cute \u00een copil\u0103rie nu dispar niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n

Doar cresc odat\u0103 cu tine.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Toat\u0103 sala a izbucnit \u00een r\u00e2sete scurte \u0219i st\u00e2njenite. Eu \u00eens\u0103 nu puteam s\u0103 respir. \u00cel priveam fix, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103-mi dau seama dac\u0103 era posibil. Ochii. Z\u00e2mbetul. Felul \u00een care \u00ee\u0219i \u021binea m\u00e2inile \u00een buzunare. Era Andrei. Doar c\u0103 nu mai era b\u0103iatul simplu din cartier. Era directorul unei companii uria\u0219e. Iar eu st\u0103team \u00een […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":22817,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24170","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24170","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=24170"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24170\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24171,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24170\/revisions\/24171"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/22817"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=24170"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=24170"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=24170"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}