{"id":24319,"date":"2026-05-12T17:32:47","date_gmt":"2026-05-12T17:32:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=24319"},"modified":"2026-05-12T17:32:47","modified_gmt":"2026-05-12T17:32:47","slug":"sotul-meu-a-plecat-dupa-douazeci-si-opt-de-ani-de-casnicie-pentru-ca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=24319","title":{"rendered":"So\u021bul meu a plecat dup\u0103 dou\u0103zeci \u0219i opt de ani de c\u0103snicie pentru c\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Mihai spunea mereu: \u201eGr\u0103dina e pentru legume, nu pentru fi\u021be.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>S\u0103 plantez ierburi \u00een loc de ro\u0219ii a fost mica mea r\u0103zbunare t\u0103cut\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi am plantat \u0219i ro\u0219ii \u2014 dar nu din alea obi\u0219nuite. Am cump\u0103rat semin\u021be vechi, din soiurile pe care le cre\u0219tea bunica mea. Ro\u0219ii mari, c\u0103rnoase, dulci.<\/p>\n<p>Femeia de la magazinul de gr\u0103din\u0103rit s-a uitat la mine surprins\u0103 \u0219i a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ia uite\u2026 cineva chiar \u0219tie ce face.<\/p>\n<p>Cele cinci cuvinte au f\u0103cut mai mult pentru mine dec\u00e2t \u0219ase luni de pastile de somn.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00e2n\u0103 vara, gr\u0103dina explodase de via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Ro\u0219iile cre\u0219teau at\u00e2t de repede \u00eenc\u00e2t nu mai f\u0103ceam fa\u021b\u0103. Femeia din parcela vecin\u0103, tanti Florica, trecut\u0103 de \u0219aptezeci de ani \u0219i cu p\u0103m\u00e2nt mereu sub unghii, s-a aplecat peste gard \u0219i mi-a spus:<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Fata mamii\u2026 tu chiar ai har pentru asta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5721\" data-end=\"5748\">N-am \u0219tiut ce s\u0103-i r\u0103spund.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5750\" data-end=\"5915\">Am r\u00e2s scurt \u0219i am dat din m\u00e2n\u0103, de parc\u0103 f\u0103cea o glum\u0103. Dar \u00een seara aia am stat \u00een foi\u0219or p\u00e2n\u0103 s-a \u00eentunecat \u0219i m-am uitat la gr\u0103dina mea altfel pentru prima dat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5917\" data-end=\"5923\">A mea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5925\" data-end=\"5940\">Nu a lui Mihai.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5942\" data-end=\"5956\">Nu a familiei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5958\" data-end=\"5974\">Nu a trecutului.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5976\" data-end=\"5982\">A mea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5984\" data-end=\"6168\">\u00cen august, aveam mai multe ro\u0219ii dec\u00e2t puteam duce acas\u0103. Umpleam saco\u0219e \u00eentregi \u0219i tot r\u0103m\u00e2neau pe vrejuri. Tanti Florica mi-a zis s\u0103 \u00eencerc pia\u021ba de produc\u0103tori de s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103 diminea\u021ba.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6170\" data-end=\"6283\">\u2014 M\u0103car sco\u021bi \u0219i tu un ban, maic\u0103. \u0218i oamenii caut\u0103 marf\u0103 adev\u0103rat\u0103, nu prostiile alea f\u0103r\u0103 gust din supermarket.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6285\" data-end=\"6326\">M-am dus f\u0103r\u0103 prea mare tragere de inim\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6328\" data-end=\"6550\">Am pus pe o mas\u0103 pliant\u0103 c\u00e2teva borcane de zacusc\u0103, dulcea\u021b\u0103 de c\u0103p\u0219uni \u0219i ni\u0219te ro\u0219ii mari, cr\u0103pate de coapte ce erau. Mi-era ru\u0219ine aproape. Pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine erau oameni cu etichete frumoase, bannere, \u0219or\u021buri personalizate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6552\" data-end=\"6649\">Eu aveam o fa\u021b\u0103 de mas\u0103 veche \u0219i pixul cu care scrisesem pe carton \u201eRo\u0219ii de gr\u0103din\u0103 \u2014 8 lei\/kg\u201d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6651\" data-end=\"6692\">La \u0219apte diminea\u021ba a venit prima client\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6694\" data-end=\"6727\">O femeie \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103, cu batic alb.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6729\" data-end=\"6799\">A luat o ro\u0219ie \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103, a mirosit-o \u0219i i s-au umplut ochii de lacrimi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6801\" data-end=\"6838\">\u2014 A\u0219a miroseau ro\u0219iile la mama acas\u0103\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6840\" data-end=\"6867\">A cump\u0103rat cinci kilograme.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6869\" data-end=\"6919\">P\u00e2n\u0103 la nou\u0103 diminea\u021ba nu mai aveam nimic pe mas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6921\" data-end=\"7029\">Oamenii \u00eentrebau dac\u0103 vin \u0219i s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na viitoare. Dac\u0103 mai am dulcea\u021b\u0103. Dac\u0103 fac \u0219i bulion. Dac\u0103 iau comenzi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7031\" data-end=\"7114\">Am ajuns acas\u0103 cu buzunarul plin de bani m\u0103run\u021bi \u0219i cu o senza\u021bie ciudat\u0103 \u00een piept.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7116\" data-end=\"7168\">Nu mai sim\u021bisem de ani \u00eentregi c\u0103 sunt bun\u0103 la ceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7170\" data-end=\"7204\">\u00cen septembrie, pia\u021ba deja m\u0103 \u0219tia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7206\" data-end=\"7232\">\u201eDoamna cu ro\u0219iile dulci.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7234\" data-end=\"7275\">\u201eFemeia cu dulcea\u021ba aia nebun\u0103 de prune.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7277\" data-end=\"7338\">Unii veneau direct la mine \u00eenainte s\u0103 se uite la alte tarabe.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7340\" data-end=\"7389\">\u00centr-o s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103, pe la pr\u00e2nz, l-am v\u0103zut pe Mihai.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7391\" data-end=\"7440\">Era la c\u00e2\u021biva metri distan\u021b\u0103, cu Bianca l\u00e2ng\u0103 el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7442\" data-end=\"7473\">S-a oprit brusc c\u00e2nd m-a v\u0103zut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7475\" data-end=\"7527\">Pentru o secund\u0103, niciunul dintre noi n-a zis nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7529\" data-end=\"7661\">Bianca era \u00eembr\u0103cat\u0103 elegant, cu ochelari mari \u0219i pantofi care clar nu v\u0103zuser\u0103 niciodat\u0103 noroi. Mihai p\u0103rea mai b\u0103tr\u00e2n. Mai obosit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7663\" data-end=\"7699\">S-a uitat la masa mea aproape goal\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7701\" data-end=\"7717\">\u2014 Ai v\u00e2ndut tot?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7719\" data-end=\"7740\">Am ridicat din umeri.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7742\" data-end=\"7758\">\u2014 Se pare c\u0103 da.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7760\" data-end=\"7820\">Bianca a luat un borcan de zacusc\u0103 \u0219i s-a uitat la etichet\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7822\" data-end=\"7838\">\u201eC\u0103mara Elenei.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7840\" data-end=\"7903\">Mi-am f\u0103cut singur\u0103 etichetele, noaptea, la masa din buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7905\" data-end=\"7953\">Mihai a r\u0103mas cu privirea pe ele c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7955\" data-end=\"7997\">\u2014 Nici nu \u0219tiam c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi place s\u0103 faci asta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7999\" data-end=\"8023\">M-am uitat direct la el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8025\" data-end=\"8044\">\u2014 Nici eu nu \u0219tiam.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8046\" data-end=\"8120\">A vrut s\u0103 mai spun\u0103 ceva, dar \u00een spatele lui s-a auzit vocea unei cliente:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8122\" data-end=\"8167\">\u2014 Doamna Elena, mai ave\u021bi dulcea\u021b\u0103 de vi\u0219ine?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8169\" data-end=\"8181\">\u0218i \u00eenc\u0103 una:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8183\" data-end=\"8233\">\u2014 S\u0103-mi p\u0103stra\u021bi \u0219i mie pentru s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na viitoare!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8235\" data-end=\"8301\">Mihai s-a dat pu\u021bin la o parte, iar eu m-am \u00eentors la oamenii mei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8303\" data-end=\"8385\">Pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 aproape treizeci de ani, nu mai eram femeia r\u0103mas\u0103 singur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8387\" data-end=\"8416\">Nu mai eram nevasta p\u0103r\u0103sit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8418\" data-end=\"8429\">Eram Elena.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8431\" data-end=\"8506\">\u00cen octombrie, cei de la pia\u021b\u0103 m-au \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 vreau o tarab\u0103 permanent\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8508\" data-end=\"8604\">\u00cen noiembrie, Andreea a venit acas\u0103 \u0219i a r\u0103mas \u0219ocat\u0103 c\u00e2nd a v\u0103zut c\u00e2te borcane aveam \u00een c\u0103mar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8606\" data-end=\"8644\">\u2014 Mam\u0103\u2026 tu chiar ai f\u0103cut toate astea?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8646\" data-end=\"8653\">Am r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8655\" data-end=\"8671\">\u2014 Se pare c\u0103 da.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8673\" data-end=\"8746\">\u00cen decembrie, Vlad m-a ajutat s\u0103 fac o pagin\u0103 pe internet pentru comenzi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8748\" data-end=\"8838\">Iar Rare\u0219, care abia r\u0103spundea la telefon, a \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 sune seara doar ca s\u0103-mi spun\u0103:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8840\" data-end=\"8897\">\u2014 Mam\u0103, colegii mei au terminat iar zacusca. Mai trimi\u021bi?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8899\" data-end=\"8952\">\u00cen Ajunul Cr\u0103ciunului, apartamentul meu mic era plin.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8954\" data-end=\"9102\">Mirosea a cozonac, a sarmale \u0219i a lemn ars de la lum\u00e2n\u0103rile parfumate. Copiii r\u00e2deau \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie. Tanti Florica venise \u0219i ea cu o tav\u0103 de pl\u0103cinte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9104\" data-end=\"9166\">La un moment dat, Andreea m-a prins de m\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i mi-a zis \u00eencet:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9168\" data-end=\"9199\">\u2014 \u0218tii ceva? Parc\u0103 e\u0219ti alt om.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9201\" data-end=\"9219\">M-am uitat \u00een jur.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9221\" data-end=\"9235\">La masa plin\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9237\" data-end=\"9270\">La borcanele aliniate pe rafturi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9272\" data-end=\"9317\">La m\u00e2inile mele cr\u0103pate de munc\u0103, dar sigure.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9319\" data-end=\"9396\">\u0218i atunci am \u00een\u021beles ceva ce nicio carte \u0219i niciun om nu-mi spusese vreodat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9398\" data-end=\"9520\">Uneori, via\u021ba \u00ee\u021bi ia exact ce credeai c\u0103 te \u021bine \u00een picioare doar ca s\u0103 te oblige s\u0103 descoperi c\u0103 puteai merge \u0219i singur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9522\" data-end=\"9537\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Mai bine chiar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mihai spunea mereu: \u201eGr\u0103dina e pentru legume, nu pentru fi\u021be.\u201d S\u0103 plantez ierburi \u00een loc de ro\u0219ii a fost mica mea r\u0103zbunare t\u0103cut\u0103. Apoi am plantat \u0219i ro\u0219ii \u2014 dar nu din alea obi\u0219nuite. Am cump\u0103rat semin\u021be vechi, din soiurile pe care le cre\u0219tea bunica mea. Ro\u0219ii mari, c\u0103rnoase, dulci. Femeia de la magazinul de [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":22818,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24319","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24319","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=24319"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24319\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24320,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24319\/revisions\/24320"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/22818"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=24319"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=24319"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=24319"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}