L-am privit c\u00e2teva secunde f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 spun nimic.<\/p>\n
Marius, \u00een schimb, era complet absorbit de analiza lui.<\/p>\n
\u2014 \u0218i \u00eenc\u0103 ceva, a continuat. Morcovul e pu\u021bin cam gros, iar cartofii sunt fier\u021bi prea tare. Sfecla… m\u0103 rog, merge. Dar culoarea putea fi mai intens\u0103.<\/p>\n
Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 z\u00e2mbesc.<\/p>\n
Nu pentru c\u0103 m\u0103 distram.<\/p>\n
Ci pentru c\u0103, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, \u00een\u021belegeam de ce un b\u0103rbat at\u00e2t de \u201eperfect\u201d ajunsese singur la patruzeci de ani.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Mai iei sm\u00e2nt\u00e2n\u0103? l-am \u00eentrebat calm.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Sigur. Dar pune doar pu\u021bin. Mama spune c\u0103 prea mult\u0103 sm\u00e2nt\u00e2n\u0103 stric\u0103 gustul.<\/p>\n
Acolo am sim\u021bit c\u0103 mi s-a terminat orice urm\u0103 de r\u0103bdare.<\/p>\n
M-am ridicat, am luat bolul cu sm\u00e2nt\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i l-am dus \u00eenapoi \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n
C\u00e2nd m-am \u00eentors, el \u00eenc\u0103 vorbea.<\/p>\n
\u2014 \u0218tii, dac\u0103 tot suntem la \u00eenceputul unei rela\u021bii, cred c\u0103 e bine s\u0103 ne spunem sincer ce putem \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi unul la altul. Eu sunt foarte direct.<\/p>\n
Am \u00eencuviin\u021bat din cap.<\/p>\n
\u2014 \u0218i eu.<\/p>\n
S-a luminat la fa\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Perfect. \u00cemi place femeile care accept\u0103 critica constructiv\u0103.<\/p>\n
M-am a\u0219ezat din nou la mas\u0103.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Atunci \u00ee\u021bi spun \u0219i eu ceva.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Te ascult.<\/p>\n
\u2014 \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, c\u00e2nd mergi pentru prima dat\u0103 la mas\u0103 \u00een casa unei femei, este frumos s\u0103 nu vii cu m\u00e2na goal\u0103. Nu trebuie s\u0103 fie un cadou scump. O floare, o ciocolat\u0103 sau chiar o sticl\u0103 de vin sunt suficiente. Gestul conteaz\u0103.<\/p>\n
A clipit surprins.<\/p>\n
\u2014 N-am \u0219tiut c\u0103 e obligatoriu.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Nu este obligatoriu. Este o chestiune de bun-sim\u021b.<\/p>\n
A r\u0103mas t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n
Am continuat.<\/p>\n
\u2014 \u00cen al doilea r\u00e2nd, c\u00e2nd cineva g\u0103te\u0219te c\u00e2teva ore pentru tine, primul lucru pe care \u00eel faci nu este s\u0103 compari m\u00e2ncarea cu cea f\u0103cut\u0103 de mama ta.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Eu doar spuneam…<\/p>\n
\u2014 Nu. Tu evaluai. De parc\u0103 venise\u0219i la inspec\u021bie.<\/p>\n
A l\u0103sat lingura jos.<\/p>\n
\u2014 E\u0219ti cam sensibil\u0103.<\/p>\n
Am r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n
Pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00een seara aceea, sincer.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Nu, Marius. Sunt doar suficient de matur\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu confund lipsa de respect cu sinceritatea.<\/p>\n
S-a \u00eencruntat.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Exagerezi.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Posibil.<\/p>\n
M-am ridicat, am luat farfuria din fa\u021ba lui \u0219i am dus-o la chiuvet\u0103.<\/p>\n
El m\u0103 privea nedumerit.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Ce faci?<\/p>\n
\u2014 \u00cenchei cina.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Dar nici n-am terminat.<\/p>\n
\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n
\u0218i i-am z\u00e2mbit politicos.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Nici \u00eent\u00e2lnirea noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n
S-a ridicat brusc.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Serios? Pentru ni\u0219te observa\u021bii despre ciorb\u0103?<\/p>\n
\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n
L-am privit \u00een ochi.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 \u00een mai pu\u021bin de o or\u0103 ai reu\u0219it s\u0103 intri \u00een casa mea f\u0103r\u0103 niciun gest de apreciere, s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti despre mama ta de parc\u0103 ar fi etalonul absolut \u0219i s\u0103 critici ceva f\u0103cut din suflet, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 roste\u0219ti m\u0103car un \u201emul\u021bumesc\u201d.<\/p>\n
A r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 replic\u0103.<\/p>\n
\u0218i-a luat geaca \u00een lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n
\u00cenainte s\u0103 ias\u0103, a spus:<\/p>\n
\u2014 Cred c\u0103 ai standarde prea ridicate.<\/p>\n
Am deschis u\u0219a.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n
Am z\u00e2mbit lini\u0219tit\u0103.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Cred doar c\u0103, la v\u00e2rsta noastr\u0103, am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 nu mai pierd timpul cu oameni care nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 respecte efortul altora.<\/p>\n
Dup\u0103 ce a plecat, am \u00eenc\u0103lzit din nou ciorba.<\/p>\n
Mi-am turnat un pahar de vin, am pus un film \u0219i am m\u00e2ncat \u00een lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n
\u0218i, culmea, mi s-a p\u0103rut cea mai reu\u0219it\u0103 cin\u0103 din ultimul timp.<\/p>\n
Uneori, cea mai bun\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lnire este aceea \u00een care afli suficient de repede c\u0103 omul din fa\u021ba ta nu este potrivit.<\/p>\n
Te scute\u0219te de luni sau chiar ani de dezam\u0103giri.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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