{"id":26633,"date":"2026-07-09T06:00:25","date_gmt":"2026-07-09T06:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=26633"},"modified":"2026-07-09T06:00:25","modified_gmt":"2026-07-09T06:00:25","slug":"eu-si-sotul-meu-ne-am-ras-in-cap-chiar-in-mijlocul-nuntii-noastre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=26633","title":{"rendered":"Eu \u0219i so\u021bul meu ne-am ras \u00een cap chiar \u00een mijlocul nun\u021bii noastre"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"PDq2pG_selectionAnchorContainer\" data-start=\"1879\" data-end=\"1924\">Am privit spre invita\u021bi \u0219i am inspirat ad\u00e2nc.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1926\" data-end=\"1961\">L\u00e2ng\u0103 mine, Matei mi-a str\u00e2ns m\u00e2na.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1963\" data-end=\"2057\">\u2014 Probabil v\u0103 \u00eentreba\u021bi de ce am f\u0103cut asta chiar ast\u0103zi, am \u00eenceput eu. \u0218i ave\u021bi tot dreptul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2059\" data-end=\"2076\">Am f\u0103cut o pauz\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2078\" data-end=\"2154\">\u2014 Acum opt luni, sora mea mai mic\u0103, Irina, a fost diagnosticat\u0103 cu leucemie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2156\" data-end=\"2184\">\u00cen sal\u0103 s-a auzit un murmur.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2186\" data-end=\"2199\">Pu\u021bini \u0219tiau.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2201\" data-end=\"2345\">Irina fusese internat\u0103 \u00een repetate r\u00e2nduri \u0219i insistase ca boala ei s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 un lucru cunoscut doar de familie \u0219i de c\u00e2\u021biva prieteni apropia\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2347\" data-end=\"2527\">\u2014 Acum dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, tratamentul a \u00eenceput s\u0103-i provoace c\u0103derea p\u0103rului. \u00cen ziua \u00een care s-a privit pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00een oglind\u0103, ne-a spus c\u0103 nu mai are curaj s\u0103 ias\u0103 din cas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2529\" data-end=\"2571\">Am v\u0103zut-o pe mama mea \u0219terg\u00e2ndu-\u0219i ochii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2573\" data-end=\"2673\">\u2014 Matei a fost primul care a spus c\u0103 nimeni nu ar trebui s\u0103 treac\u0103 singur printr-un asemenea moment.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2675\" data-end=\"2687\">L-am privit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2689\" data-end=\"2707\">El a z\u00e2mbit timid.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2709\" data-end=\"2832\">\u2014 Mi-a spus: \u201eDac\u0103 Irina simte c\u0103 \u0219i-a pierdut o parte din identitate, atunci hai s\u0103-i ar\u0103t\u0103m c\u0103 frumuse\u021bea nu st\u0103 \u00een p\u0103r.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2834\" data-end=\"2887\">\u00cen primul r\u00e2nd al s\u0103lii, Irina \u00ee\u0219i cobor\u00e2se privirea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2889\" data-end=\"2956\">Purta o peruc\u0103 blond\u0103 pe care o alesese cu greu dup\u0103 multe ezit\u0103ri.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2958\" data-end=\"3144\">\u2014 Ast\u0103zi nu ne-am ras \u00een cap pentru c\u0103 ni s-a p\u0103rut un gest spectaculos. Am f\u0103cut-o pentru ca Irina s\u0103 nu mai simt\u0103 c\u0103 este singura persoan\u0103 din familie care se uit\u0103 cu team\u0103 \u00een oglind\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3146\" data-end=\"3213\">\u00cen acel moment, Irina \u0219i-a dus m\u00e2na la fa\u021b\u0103 \u0219i a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3215\" data-end=\"3250\">Mama s-a ridicat \u0219i a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at-o.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3252\" data-end=\"3303\">\u00cen sal\u0103 nu se mai auzea dec\u00e2t suspinul invita\u021bilor.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3305\" data-end=\"3318\">Am continuat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3320\" data-end=\"3396\">\u2014 Dar acesta nu este singurul motiv pentru care am vrut s\u0103 facem acest gest.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3398\" data-end=\"3456\">Pe ecranul din spatele nostru au ap\u0103rut c\u00e2teva fotografii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3458\" data-end=\"3470\">Irina copil.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3472\" data-end=\"3487\">Irina \u00een liceu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3489\" data-end=\"3517\">Irina r\u00e2z\u00e2nd pe malul m\u0103rii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3519\" data-end=\"3568\">Apoi o fotografie f\u0103cut\u0103 \u00een salonul de oncologie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3570\" data-end=\"3762\">\u2014 \u00cen locul cadourilor de nunt\u0103, i-am rugat pe invita\u021bi s\u0103 doneze orice sum\u0103 doresc c\u0103tre Asocia\u021bia Na\u021bional\u0103 a Copiilor cu Afec\u021biuni Oncologice \u0219i c\u0103tre sec\u021bia unde Irina \u00ee\u0219i face tratamentul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3764\" data-end=\"3821\">Un reprezentant al funda\u021biei s-a ridicat dintre invita\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3823\" data-end=\"3922\">\u2014 Datorit\u0103 generozit\u0103\u021bii dumneavoastr\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een aceast\u0103 diminea\u021b\u0103 s-au str\u00e2ns peste 420.000 de lei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3924\" data-end=\"3951\">Sala a izbucnit \u00een aplauze.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3953\" data-end=\"3999\">Irina pl\u00e2ngea f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i poat\u0103 opri lacrimile.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4001\" data-end=\"4031\">Matei a luat \u0219i el microfonul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4033\" data-end=\"4178\">\u2014 C\u00e2nd am cunoscut-o pe Irina, avea cincisprezece ani \u0219i mi-a spus c\u0103 niciodat\u0103 nu va avea un cumnat care s\u0103 accepte s\u0103 se fac\u0103 de r\u00e2s pentru ea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4180\" data-end=\"4201\">Toat\u0103 lumea a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4203\" data-end=\"4317\">\u2014 Ei bine, dac\u0103 asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 tund \u00een cap \u00een ziua nun\u021bii mele, atunci cred c\u0103 am f\u0103cut cea mai bun\u0103 alegere.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4319\" data-end=\"4356\">R\u00e2setele s-au amestecat cu aplauzele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4358\" data-end=\"4426\">Atunci s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat ceva la care niciunul dintre noi nu se a\u0219tepta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4428\" data-end=\"4464\">Na\u0219ul nostru s-a ridicat de la mas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4466\" data-end=\"4496\">\u2014 Unde sunt aparatele de tuns?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4498\" data-end=\"4522\">Lumea a izbucnit \u00een r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4524\" data-end=\"4558\">Apoi unul dintre verii mei a spus:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4560\" data-end=\"4596\">\u2014 Dac\u0103 tot facem asta, m\u0103 bag \u0219i eu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4598\" data-end=\"4732\">\u00cen mai pu\u021bin de dou\u0103zeci de minute, \u00eenc\u0103 \u0219apte b\u0103rba\u021bi \u0219i dou\u0103 femei \u00ee\u0219i tundeau p\u0103rul \u00eentr-un col\u021b al s\u0103lii, \u00een semn de solidaritate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4734\" data-end=\"4757\">Irina \u00eei privea uimit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4759\" data-end=\"4812\">Pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 multe luni, r\u00e2dea cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4814\" data-end=\"4878\">Mai t\u00e2rziu, c\u00e2nd petrecerea se apropia de final, a venit la noi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4880\" data-end=\"4903\">\u0218i-a scos \u00eencet peruca.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4905\" data-end=\"4948\">Capul ei era aproape complet lipsit de p\u0103r.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4950\" data-end=\"4982\">Nu mai \u00eencerca s\u0103 ascund\u0103 nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4984\" data-end=\"5083\">\u2014 Mi-a fost at\u00e2t de fric\u0103 de ziua asta, ne-a spus. Credeam c\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea o s\u0103 m\u0103 priveasc\u0103 altfel.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5085\" data-end=\"5106\">Matei a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at-o.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5108\" data-end=\"5130\">\u2014 Te-au privit altfel.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5132\" data-end=\"5138\">\u2014 Cum?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5140\" data-end=\"5167\">\u2014 Cu \u0219i mai mult\u0103 dragoste.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5169\" data-end=\"5200\">Irina a z\u00e2mbit printre lacrimi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5202\" data-end=\"5315\">\u00cen seara aceea, nunta noastr\u0103 n-a fost \u021binut\u0103 minte pentru rochia mea, pentru decor sau pentru meniul sofisticat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5317\" data-end=\"5514\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">A r\u0103mas \u00een memoria tuturor ca ziua \u00een care dou\u0103 sute de oameni au \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 cele mai frumoase gesturi nu sunt cele perfecte, ci cele care \u00eei fac pe cei pe care \u00eei iubim s\u0103 nu se mai simt\u0103 singuri.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am privit spre invita\u021bi \u0219i am inspirat ad\u00e2nc. L\u00e2ng\u0103 mine, Matei mi-a str\u00e2ns m\u00e2na. \u2014 Probabil v\u0103 \u00eentreba\u021bi de ce am f\u0103cut asta chiar ast\u0103zi, am \u00eenceput eu. \u0218i ave\u021bi tot dreptul. Am f\u0103cut o pauz\u0103. \u2014 Acum opt luni, sora mea mai mic\u0103, Irina, a fost diagnosticat\u0103 cu leucemie. \u00cen sal\u0103 s-a auzit un [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":26577,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26633","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26633","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=26633"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26633\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26634,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26633\/revisions\/26634"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/26577"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=26633"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=26633"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=26633"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}