{"id":26956,"date":"2026-07-21T04:55:25","date_gmt":"2026-07-21T04:55:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=26956"},"modified":"2026-07-21T04:55:25","modified_gmt":"2026-07-21T04:55:25","slug":"sotul-meu-a-divortat-de-mine-dupa-ce-a-fost-diagnosticat-cu-cancer-in-stadiul-iv","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=26956","title":{"rendered":"So\u021bul meu a divor\u021bat de mine dup\u0103 ce a fost diagnosticat cu cancer \u00een stadiul IV"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"PDq2pG_selectionAnchorContainer\" data-start=\"1693\" data-end=\"1757\">\u00cen m\u00e2inile Clarei se afla un dosar gros \u0219i o scrisoare sigilat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1759\" data-end=\"1790\">Pe plic era scrisul lui Robert.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1792\" data-end=\"1847\"><strong data-start=\"1792\" data-end=\"1847\">\u201ePentru Ana. A se deschide numai dup\u0103 moartea mea.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1849\" data-end=\"1893\">Mi-au dat lacrimile \u00eenainte s\u0103 rup sigiliul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1895\" data-end=\"1916\">Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 citesc.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1918\" data-end=\"1923\">\u201eAna,<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1925\" data-end=\"1978\">Dac\u0103 cite\u0219ti aceste r\u00e2nduri, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu mai sunt.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1980\" data-end=\"1998\">\u0218tiu c\u0103 m\u0103 ur\u0103\u0219ti.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2000\" data-end=\"2021\">\u0218i ai toate motivele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2023\" data-end=\"2060\">Dar te rog s\u0103 cite\u0219ti p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103t.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2062\" data-end=\"2080\">Am inspirat ad\u00e2nc.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2082\" data-end=\"2286\">\u201e\u00cen ziua \u00een care am aflat diagnosticul, medicul mi-a spus c\u0103 tratamentul va fi lung \u0219i dificil. Exista posibilitatea s\u0103 am nevoie de \u00eengrijire permanent\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 toate economiile noastre puteau fi epuizate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2288\" data-end=\"2404\">Nu am suportat g\u00e2ndul c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi vei petrece ultimii mei ani privindu-m\u0103 cum m\u0103 sting \u0219i c\u0103 vei r\u0103m\u00e2ne apoi f\u0103r\u0103 nimic.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2406\" data-end=\"2427\">M-am oprit din citit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2429\" data-end=\"2460\">\u2014 Nu&#8230; nu poate fi adev\u0103rat&#8230;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2462\" data-end=\"2482\">Clara a dat din cap.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2484\" data-end=\"2526\">\u2014 Nu m-a iubit a\u0219a cum te-a iubit pe tine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2528\" data-end=\"2556\">Am ridicat privirea spre ea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2558\" data-end=\"2598\">\u2014 Atunci&#8230; de ce s-a c\u0103s\u0103torit cu tine?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2600\" data-end=\"2624\">Ea \u0219i-a \u0219ters lacrimile.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2626\" data-end=\"2924\">\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 eram asistent social voluntar \u00eentr-o funda\u021bie care ajuta bolnavi oncologici. Ne-am cunoscut dup\u0103 diagnostic. C\u00e2nd mi-a explicat ce inten\u021bioneaz\u0103, am \u00eencercat s\u0103-l conving s\u0103-\u021bi spun\u0103 adev\u0103rul. A refuzat. Spunea c\u0103, dac\u0103 ai afla, nu l-ai p\u0103r\u0103si niciodat\u0103 \u0219i ai sacrifica totul pentru el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2926\" data-end=\"2949\">Am continuat s\u0103 citesc.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2951\" data-end=\"3055\">\u201eDivor\u021bul a avut un singur scop: s\u0103 te protejez financiar \u0219i s\u0103 te oblig s\u0103 mergi mai departe f\u0103r\u0103 mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3057\" data-end=\"3211\">Am transferat toate bunurile pe numele t\u0103u \u00eenainte de divor\u021b, acolo unde legea \u0219i actele ne-au permis, iar restul este explicat \u00een documentele din dosar.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3213\" data-end=\"3232\">Am deschis dosarul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3234\" data-end=\"3307\">\u00cen\u0103untru se aflau acte notariale, extrase bancare \u0219i poli\u021be de asigurare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3309\" data-end=\"3356\">Totul fusese organizat cu ajutorul unui avocat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3358\" data-end=\"3377\">Casa r\u0103m\u00e2nea a mea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3379\" data-end=\"3403\">Economiile erau intacte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3405\" data-end=\"3469\">Mai exista \u0219i o poli\u021b\u0103 de asigurare al c\u0103rei beneficiar eram eu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3471\" data-end=\"3568\">Ultima pagin\u0103 a scrisorii era p\u0103tat\u0103 de cerneal\u0103, ca \u0219i cum ar fi fost scris\u0103 cu m\u00e2na tremur\u00e2nd\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3570\" data-end=\"3606\">\u201eTe-am r\u0103nit \u00een cel mai cumplit mod.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3608\" data-end=\"3672\">Pentru asta nu-mi cer iertare, fiindc\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 poate nu o merit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3674\" data-end=\"3747\">\u00ce\u021bi cer doar s\u0103 nu-\u021bi petreci restul vie\u021bii crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 ai fost \u00eenlocuit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3749\" data-end=\"3782\">Nimeni nu te-a \u00eenlocuit vreodat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3784\" data-end=\"3819\">Ai fost marea iubire a vie\u021bii mele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3821\" data-end=\"3877\">Am ales gre\u0219it felul \u00een care am \u00eencercat s\u0103 te protejez.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3879\" data-end=\"3958\">Dac\u0103 a\u0219 mai avea o singur\u0103 zi, \u021bi-a\u0219 spune adev\u0103rul \u0219i te-a\u0219 l\u0103sa s\u0103 alegi tu.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3960\" data-end=\"3979\">Nu mai puteam citi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3981\" data-end=\"4002\">Am izbucnit \u00een pl\u00e2ns.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4004\" data-end=\"4022\">Clara s-a ridicat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4024\" data-end=\"4040\">\u2014 Mai este ceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4042\" data-end=\"4075\">Mi-a \u00eentins verigheta lui Robert.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4077\" data-end=\"4117\">\u2014 Mi-a spus c\u0103 locul ei este l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4119\" data-end=\"4194\">Au trecut luni p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd am reu\u0219it s\u0103 privesc acea scrisoare f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4196\" data-end=\"4253\">Nu am ajuns niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 cred c\u0103 Robert procedase corect.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4255\" data-end=\"4348\">Hot\u0103r\u00e2se singur \u00een locul meu \u0219i \u00eemi r\u0103pise \u0219ansa de a-i fi al\u0103turi \u00een ultimele luni de via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4350\" data-end=\"4403\">Dar am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 nu m\u0103 p\u0103r\u0103sise din lips\u0103 de iubire.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4405\" data-end=\"4463\">M\u0103 r\u0103nise \u00eencerc\u00e2nd, \u00een felul lui gre\u0219it, s\u0103 m\u0103 protejeze.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4465\" data-end=\"4585\">Am pus scrisoarea \u0219i verigheta \u00eentr-o cutie al\u0103turi de fotografiile noastre din cei treizeci \u0219i nou\u0103 de ani de c\u0103snicie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4587\" data-end=\"4683\">Iar de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd o deschid, \u00eemi amintesc c\u0103 iubirea adev\u0103rat\u0103 are nevoie de sinceritate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4685\" data-end=\"4855\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Oric\u00e2t de bune ar fi inten\u021biile, niciun sacrificiu f\u0103cut \u00een t\u0103cere nu poate \u00eenlocui dreptul celui pe care \u00eel iube\u0219ti de a cunoa\u0219te adev\u0103rul \u0219i de a alege al\u0103turi de tine.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cen m\u00e2inile Clarei se afla un dosar gros \u0219i o scrisoare sigilat\u0103. Pe plic era scrisul lui Robert. \u201ePentru Ana. A se deschide numai dup\u0103 moartea mea.\u201d Mi-au dat lacrimile \u00eenainte s\u0103 rup sigiliul. Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 citesc. \u201eAna, Dac\u0103 cite\u0219ti aceste r\u00e2nduri, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu mai sunt. \u0218tiu c\u0103 m\u0103 ur\u0103\u0219ti. \u0218i ai toate [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":26578,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26956","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26956","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=26956"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26956\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26957,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26956\/revisions\/26957"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/26578"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=26956"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=26956"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=26956"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}