{"id":26981,"date":"2026-07-21T08:07:52","date_gmt":"2026-07-21T08:07:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=26981"},"modified":"2026-07-21T08:07:52","modified_gmt":"2026-07-21T08:07:52","slug":"am-un-fiu-de-19-ani-si-de-aproape-un-an-ii-cer-bani-in-fiecare-luna-pentru-ca-locuieste-in-casa-mea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=26981","title":{"rendered":"Am un fiu de 19 ani \u0219i, de aproape un an, \u00eei cer bani \u00een fiecare lun\u0103 pentru c\u0103 locuie\u0219te \u00een casa mea."},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"PDq2pG_selectionAnchorContainer\" data-start=\"3323\" data-end=\"3343\">Nici m\u0103car fiul meu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3345\" data-end=\"3416\">\u00cen tot acest an nu am cheltuit niciun leu din banii pe care mi i-a dat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3418\" data-end=\"3427\">Niciunul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3429\" data-end=\"3460\">To\u021bi sunt \u00eentr-un cont separat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3462\" data-end=\"3493\">Lun\u0103 de lun\u0103 i-am pus deoparte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3495\" data-end=\"3510\">Nu pentru mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3512\" data-end=\"3522\">Pentru el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3524\" data-end=\"3551\">Mi-am f\u0103cut un singur plan.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3553\" data-end=\"3629\">\u00cen ziua \u00een care va decide s\u0103 plece din casa mea, \u00eei voi \u00eenapoia fiecare leu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3631\" data-end=\"3668\">Vreau s\u0103 aib\u0103 un avans pentru chirie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3670\" data-end=\"3709\">S\u0103-\u0219i poat\u0103 cump\u0103ra mobilierul de baz\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3711\" data-end=\"3765\">S\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 via\u021ba f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fie nevoit s\u0103 \u00eemprumute bani.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3767\" data-end=\"3798\">Dar nu vreau s\u0103 \u0219tie asta acum.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3800\" data-end=\"3855\">Pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 i-a\u0219 spune, lec\u021bia \u0219i-ar pierde rostul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3857\" data-end=\"3922\">Nu l-am pus s\u0103 contribuie fiindc\u0103 aveam nevoie disperat\u0103 de bani.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3924\" data-end=\"3977\">L-am pus pentru c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 c\u0103 via\u021ba cost\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3979\" data-end=\"4021\">C\u0103 fiecare factur\u0103 este pl\u0103tit\u0103 de cineva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4023\" data-end=\"4064\">C\u0103 m\u00e2ncarea nu apare singur\u0103 \u00een frigider.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4066\" data-end=\"4114\">\u0218i c\u0103 independen\u021ba \u00eenseamn\u0103 \u0219i responsabilitate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4116\" data-end=\"4204\">Recunosc \u00eens\u0103 c\u0103, \u00een ultimele zile, m-am \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 nu am dus lucrurile prea departe.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4206\" data-end=\"4251\">Poate nu faptul c\u0103 \u00eei cer bani este problema.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4253\" data-end=\"4312\">Poate felul \u00een care \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eencerc s\u0103-i controlez fiecare pas.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4314\" data-end=\"4462\">Dac\u0103 \u00eei cer s\u0103 se comporte ca un adult \u0219i s\u0103 contribuie la cheltuielile casei, poate c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 \u00eencep s\u0103-l tratez \u0219i eu, treptat, ca pe un adult.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4464\" data-end=\"4519\">Poate c\u0103 regulile trebuie adaptate odat\u0103 cu v\u00e2rsta lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4521\" data-end=\"4594\">Nu renun\u021b la ideea c\u0103 fiecare om trebuie s\u0103 contribuie atunci c\u00e2nd poate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4596\" data-end=\"4649\">Dar am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 respectul merge \u00een ambele direc\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4651\" data-end=\"4706\">\u00centr-o zi \u00eei voi \u00eenapoia to\u021bi banii pe care i-a pl\u0103tit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4708\" data-end=\"4814\">Sper doar ca, atunci c\u00e2nd va afla adev\u0103rul, s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 c\u0103 niciodat\u0103 nu am vrut s\u0103 c\u00e2\u0219tig de pe urma lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4816\" data-end=\"4930\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Am vrut doar s\u0103-l preg\u0103tesc pentru via\u021ba pe care, mai devreme sau mai t\u00e2rziu, va trebui s\u0103 o duc\u0103 pe cont propriu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nici m\u0103car fiul meu. \u00cen tot acest an nu am cheltuit niciun leu din banii pe care mi i-a dat. Niciunul. To\u021bi sunt \u00eentr-un cont separat. Lun\u0103 de lun\u0103 i-am pus deoparte. Nu pentru mine. Pentru el. Mi-am f\u0103cut un singur plan. \u00cen ziua \u00een care va decide s\u0103 plece din casa mea, \u00eei voi [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":26577,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26981","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26981","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=26981"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26981\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26982,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26981\/revisions\/26982"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/26577"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=26981"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=26981"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=26981"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}