{"id":26986,"date":"2026-07-21T08:24:45","date_gmt":"2026-07-21T08:24:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=26986"},"modified":"2026-07-21T08:24:45","modified_gmt":"2026-07-21T08:24:45","slug":"m-am-cuplat-cu-barbatul-de-care-cea-mai-buna-prietena-a-mea-era-indragostita-de-doi-ani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=26986","title":{"rendered":"M-am cuplat cu b\u0103rbatul de care cea mai bun\u0103 prieten\u0103 a mea era \u00eendr\u0103gostit\u0103 de doi ani."},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"PDq2pG_selectionAnchorContainer\" data-start=\"2720\" data-end=\"2808\">.\u0219i, pentru prima dat\u0103, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 nu cumva am judecat-o prea aspru.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2810\" data-end=\"2874\">O fost\u0103 coleg\u0103 m-a sunat \u0219i, \u00een timpul unei discu\u021bii, mi-a spus:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2876\" data-end=\"2954\">\u2014 \u0218tii c\u0103 ea chiar credea c\u0103 b\u0103iatul acela urma s\u0103-i cear\u0103 num\u0103rul de telefon?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2956\" data-end=\"2975\">Am r\u0103mas surprins\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2977\" data-end=\"3165\">Mi-a povestit c\u0103 prietena mea le spusese mai multor colegi c\u0103 b\u0103iatul o privea uneori prin facultate \u0219i c\u0103 era convins\u0103 c\u0103, mai devreme sau mai t\u00e2rziu, va avea curajul s\u0103 se apropie de ea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3167\" data-end=\"3211\">Poate c\u0103 totul fusese doar \u00een imagina\u021bia ei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3213\" data-end=\"3257\">Poate c\u0103 interpretase gre\u0219it c\u00e2teva priviri.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3259\" data-end=\"3313\">Dar pentru ea sentimentele erau c\u00e2t se poate de reale.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3315\" data-end=\"3380\">Am \u00een\u021beles atunci c\u0103 nu pierduse doar un b\u0103iat pe care \u00eel pl\u0103cea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3382\" data-end=\"3430\">Pierderea cea mai mare fusese prietenia noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3432\" data-end=\"3502\">Cu toate acestea, exist\u0103 un lucru pe care nici ast\u0103zi nu \u00eel pot spune.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3504\" data-end=\"3531\">Nu cred c\u0103 i-am furat ceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3533\" data-end=\"3608\">Pentru c\u0103 nimeni nu poate fi \u201efurat\u201d dac\u0103 nu a existat niciodat\u0103 o rela\u021bie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3610\" data-end=\"3743\">Dac\u0103 el ar fi fost fostul ei iubit, logodnicul ei sau m\u0103car un b\u0103rbat cu care ie\u0219ise la \u00eent\u00e2lniri, povestea ar fi fost cu totul alta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3745\" data-end=\"3798\">Dar el nu \u0219tia nici m\u0103car c\u00e2t de \u00eendr\u0103gostit\u0103 era ea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3800\" data-end=\"3830\">Nu \u00eei f\u0103cuse nicio promisiune.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3832\" data-end=\"3860\">Nu \u00eei d\u0103duse nicio speran\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3862\" data-end=\"3935\">Iar sentimentele mele \u0219i ale lui au ap\u0103rut firesc, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 pl\u0103nuim nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3937\" data-end=\"4025\">Uneori m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 a\u0219 fi putut s\u0103 vorbesc cu ea \u00eenainte s\u0103 accepte el s\u0103 fim \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4027\" data-end=\"4057\">Poate ar fi durut-o mai pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4059\" data-end=\"4071\">Poate c\u0103 nu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4073\" data-end=\"4202\">\u00cens\u0103 nici ast\u0103zi nu cred c\u0103 era corect s\u0103 renun\u021b la o rela\u021bie sincer\u0103 doar pentru o iubire care exista doar \u00eentr-o singur\u0103 inim\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4204\" data-end=\"4260\">\u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 am pierdut o prieten\u0103 at\u00e2t de apropiat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4262\" data-end=\"4342\">Dar nu \u00eemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 mi-am construit o rela\u021bie cu un om care m-a ales pe mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4344\" data-end=\"4418\">Uneori, via\u021ba te pune \u00een situa\u021bii \u00een care orice alegere r\u0103ne\u0219te pe cineva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4420\" data-end=\"4502\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Iar faptul c\u0103 o decizie este dureroas\u0103 nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 \u00eentotdeauna c\u0103 este \u0219i gre\u0219it\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>.\u0219i, pentru prima dat\u0103, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 nu cumva am judecat-o prea aspru. O fost\u0103 coleg\u0103 m-a sunat \u0219i, \u00een timpul unei discu\u021bii, mi-a spus: \u2014 \u0218tii c\u0103 ea chiar credea c\u0103 b\u0103iatul acela urma s\u0103-i cear\u0103 num\u0103rul de telefon? Am r\u0103mas surprins\u0103. Mi-a povestit c\u0103 prietena mea le spusese mai multor [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":26577,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26986","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26986","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=26986"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26986\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26987,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26986\/revisions\/26987"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/26577"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=26986"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=26986"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=26986"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}