{"id":27316,"date":"2026-07-29T07:08:41","date_gmt":"2026-07-29T07:08:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=27316"},"modified":"2026-07-29T07:08:41","modified_gmt":"2026-07-29T07:08:41","slug":"dupa-al-noualea-divort-eram-convinsa-ca-al-zecelea-barbat-va-fi-in-sfarsit-ultimul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=27316","title":{"rendered":"Dup\u0103 al nou\u0103lea divor\u021b, eram convins\u0103 c\u0103 al zecelea b\u0103rbat va fi, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, ultimul"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"PDq2pG_selectionAnchorContainer\" data-start=\"1785\" data-end=\"1808\">Ne-am a\u0219ezat \u00een t\u0103cere.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1810\" data-end=\"1844\">Niciunul nu \u0219tia cu ce s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1846\" data-end=\"1879\">\u00cen cele din urm\u0103, Slava a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1881\" data-end=\"1924\">\u2014 Te-am recunoscut din prima zi \u00een fabric\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1926\" data-end=\"1942\">Am r\u0103mas uimit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1944\" data-end=\"1969\">\u2014 \u0218i de ce nu mi-ai spus?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1971\" data-end=\"2043\">\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 voiam s\u0103 v\u0103d dac\u0103 m\u0103 vei cunoa\u0219te f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi spun cine sunt.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2045\" data-end=\"2073\">Am l\u0103sat privirea \u00een p\u0103m\u00e2nt.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2075\" data-end=\"2094\">Nu \u00eel recunoscusem.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2096\" data-end=\"2119\">Timpul \u00eei albise p\u0103rul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2121\" data-end=\"2152\">Ridurile \u00eei schimbaser\u0103 chipul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2154\" data-end=\"2177\">Dar ochii erau aceia\u0219i.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2179\" data-end=\"2234\">\u2014 Te-am c\u0103utat ani \u00eentregi dup\u0103 divor\u021b, a continuat el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2236\" data-end=\"2253\">Apoi am renun\u021bat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2255\" data-end=\"2276\">Mi-am v\u0103zut de via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2278\" data-end=\"2311\">L-am \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 se c\u0103s\u0103torise.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2313\" data-end=\"2327\">A dat din cap.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2329\" data-end=\"2334\">\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2336\" data-end=\"2348\">\u2014 Niciodat\u0103?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2350\" data-end=\"2388\">\u2014 Dup\u0103 tine&#8230; n-am mai sim\u021bit nevoia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2390\" data-end=\"2443\">Cuvintele lui m-au lovit mai tare dec\u00e2t orice repro\u0219.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2445\" data-end=\"2494\">M-am a\u0219teptat s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 c\u00e2t de mult l-am r\u0103nit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2496\" data-end=\"2520\">\u00cen schimb, m-a surprins.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2522\" data-end=\"2555\">\u2014 \u0218tii ce m-a durut cel mai tare?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2557\" data-end=\"2567\">Am \u0219optit:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2569\" data-end=\"2574\">\u2014 Ce?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2576\" data-end=\"2601\">\u2014 Nu faptul c\u0103 ai plecat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2603\" data-end=\"2696\">Ci faptul c\u0103 ai crezut c\u0103 valoarea unui om se m\u0103soar\u0103 dup\u0103 func\u021bia lui \u0219i dup\u0103 c\u00e2\u021bi bani are.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2698\" data-end=\"2718\">Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2720\" data-end=\"2798\">Pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 zeci de ani, \u00eemi vedeam via\u021ba dintr-o alt\u0103 perspectiv\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2800\" data-end=\"2900\">\u00cemi amintisem de to\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bii pe care \u00eei alesesem pentru bani, pentru statut sau pentru promisiuni.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2902\" data-end=\"2972\">\u0218i de singurul pe care \u00eel p\u0103r\u0103sisem tocmai pentru c\u0103 era un om simplu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2974\" data-end=\"3004\">Slava \u0219i-a deschis portofelul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3006\" data-end=\"3054\">Dintr-un compartiment a scos o fotografie veche.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3056\" data-end=\"3094\">Era poza noastr\u0103 de la cununia civil\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3096\" data-end=\"3115\">Marginea era uzat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3117\" data-end=\"3136\">H\u00e2rtia \u00eeng\u0103lbenit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3138\" data-end=\"3178\">Dar o p\u0103strase aproape patruzeci de ani.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3180\" data-end=\"3188\">\u2014 De ce?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3190\" data-end=\"3218\">am \u00eentrebat printre lacrimi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3220\" data-end=\"3229\">A z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3231\" data-end=\"3308\">\u2014 Ca s\u0103-mi aduc aminte c\u0103 iubirea nu trebuie s\u0103 depind\u0103 niciodat\u0103 de ambi\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3310\" data-end=\"3356\">\u00cen urm\u0103toarele luni ne-am rev\u0103zut tot mai des.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3358\" data-end=\"3379\">Nu ca doi fo\u0219ti so\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3381\" data-end=\"3442\">Ci ca doi oameni care, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, \u00eenv\u0103\u021baser\u0103 s\u0103 se cunoasc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3444\" data-end=\"3502\">\u00centr-o sear\u0103, vecinele m-au v\u0103zut cobor\u00e2nd din ma\u0219ina lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3504\" data-end=\"3516\">Tania a r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3518\" data-end=\"3549\">\u2014 Ei? L-ai g\u0103sit pe al zecelea?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3551\" data-end=\"3561\">Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3563\" data-end=\"3568\">\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3570\" data-end=\"3593\">L-am reg\u0103sit pe primul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3595\" data-end=\"3782\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">\u0218i abia acum am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103, dintre to\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bii care au trecut prin via\u021ba mea, singurul pe care \u00eel pierdusem cu adev\u0103rat fusese chiar omul pe care \u00eel considerasem, c\u00e2ndva, \u201ef\u0103r\u0103 viitor\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ne-am a\u0219ezat \u00een t\u0103cere. Niciunul nu \u0219tia cu ce s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103. \u00cen cele din urm\u0103, Slava a z\u00e2mbit. \u2014 Te-am recunoscut din prima zi \u00een fabric\u0103. Am r\u0103mas uimit\u0103. \u2014 \u0218i de ce nu mi-ai spus? \u2014 Pentru c\u0103 voiam s\u0103 v\u0103d dac\u0103 m\u0103 vei cunoa\u0219te f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi spun cine sunt. Am l\u0103sat privirea \u00een [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":26578,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27316","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diverse"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27316","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=27316"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27316\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27317,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27316\/revisions\/27317"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/26578"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=27316"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=27316"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=27316"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}