{"id":27484,"date":"2026-08-03T05:57:12","date_gmt":"2026-08-03T05:57:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=27484"},"modified":"2026-08-03T05:57:12","modified_gmt":"2026-08-03T05:57:12","slug":"iubitul-meu-din-liceu-a-refuzat-sa-se-casatoreasca-cu-mine-timp-de-11-ani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=27484","title":{"rendered":"Iubitul meu din liceu a refuzat s\u0103 se c\u0103s\u0103toreasc\u0103 cu mine timp de 11 ani"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"PDq2pG_selectionAnchorContainer\" data-start=\"2395\" data-end=\"2441\">L-am privit c\u00e2teva secunde f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 spun nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2443\" data-end=\"2470\">Gabriel z\u00e2mbea sigur pe el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2472\" data-end=\"2546\">Era convins c\u0103 urma s\u0103-i cer o nunt\u0103 pe plaj\u0103 sau o lun\u0103 de miere exotic\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2548\" data-end=\"2572\">\u00cen schimb, am spus calm:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2574\" data-end=\"2615\">\u2014 Vreau s\u0103 semn\u0103m un contract prenup\u021bial.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2617\" data-end=\"2639\">Z\u00e2mbetul i-a \u00eenghe\u021bat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2641\" data-end=\"2653\">\u2014 Cum adic\u0103?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2655\" data-end=\"2878\">\u2014 Este simplu. Tot ce am mo\u0219tenit \u00eenainte de c\u0103s\u0103torie r\u0103m\u00e2ne exclusiv al meu. La fel \u0219i orice bun pe care \u00eel dob\u00e2ndim separat. Dac\u0103 vreodat\u0103 divor\u021b\u0103m, niciunul dintre noi nu poate avea preten\u021bii asupra bunurilor celuilalt.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2880\" data-end=\"2901\">Gabriel a r\u00e2s for\u021bat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2903\" data-end=\"2929\">\u2014 Nu ai \u00eencredere \u00een mine?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2931\" data-end=\"3000\">\u2014 Ba da. Dar dac\u0103 ne iubim cu adev\u0103rat, un contract nu schimb\u0103 nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3002\" data-end=\"3036\">Chelnerul tocmai adusese \u0219ampania.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3038\" data-end=\"3079\">Gabriel nici m\u0103car nu s-a atins de pahar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3081\" data-end=\"3135\">\u2014 Mi se pare c\u0103 porne\u0219ti c\u0103snicia cu g\u00e2ndul la divor\u021b.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3137\" data-end=\"3158\">Am ridicat din umeri.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3160\" data-end=\"3197\">\u2014 Nu. O pornesc cu g\u00e2ndul la respect.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3199\" data-end=\"3228\">A schimbat imediat subiectul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3230\" data-end=\"3257\">\u2014 Putem discuta mai t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3259\" data-end=\"3284\">\u2014 Nu. Vreau s\u0103 \u0219tiu acum.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3286\" data-end=\"3319\">S-a uitat \u00een jur, vizibil iritat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3321\" data-end=\"3358\">\u2014 Bine&#8230; dac\u0103 asta te face fericit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3360\" data-end=\"3370\">Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3372\" data-end=\"3412\">\u2014 Perfect. Atunci m\u00e2ine mergem la notar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3414\" data-end=\"3471\">A doua zi diminea\u021b\u0103 l-am sunat pe avocatul bunicului meu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3473\" data-end=\"3502\">\u00cei povestisem tot ce auzisem.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3504\" data-end=\"3544\">M-a ascultat \u00een lini\u0219te, apoi mi-a spus:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3546\" data-end=\"3620\">\u2014 Nu \u00eei spune nimic. Las\u0103-l s\u0103 cread\u0103 c\u0103 totul merge conform planului lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3622\" data-end=\"3689\">La \u00eent\u00e2lnirea cu notarul, Gabriel a \u00eenceput s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 documentul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3691\" data-end=\"3748\">Dup\u0103 primele dou\u0103 pagini, \u0219i-a schimbat culoarea la fa\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3750\" data-end=\"3869\">\u2014 Aici scrie c\u0103 nici casa de la lac \u0219i nici eventualele venituri ob\u021binute din ea nu vor face parte din bunurile comune.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3871\" data-end=\"3879\">\u2014 Exact.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3881\" data-end=\"3913\">\u2014 Dar&#8230; dup\u0103 ce ne c\u0103s\u0103torim&#8230;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3915\" data-end=\"3941\">\u2014 Tot ale mele vor r\u0103m\u00e2ne.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3943\" data-end=\"3960\">A \u00eenchis dosarul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3962\" data-end=\"4002\">\u2014 Nu cred c\u0103 este nevoie de toate astea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4004\" data-end=\"4024\">Am z\u00e2mbit lini\u0219tit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4026\" data-end=\"4059\">\u2014 Credeam c\u0103 m\u0103 iube\u0219ti, nu casa.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4061\" data-end=\"4073\">N-a r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4075\" data-end=\"4120\">Notarul l-a \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 dore\u0219te s\u0103 semneze.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4122\" data-end=\"4154\">Gabriel a cerut timp de g\u00e2ndire.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4156\" data-end=\"4196\">\u2014 Sigur, i-am spus. Nunta poate a\u0219tepta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4198\" data-end=\"4254\">\u00cen urm\u0103toarele zile a devenit din nou atent \u0219i afectuos.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4256\" data-end=\"4273\">\u00cemi aducea flori.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4275\" data-end=\"4285\">\u00cemi g\u0103tea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4287\" data-end=\"4324\">\u00cemi spunea c\u0103 sunt femeia vie\u021bii lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4326\" data-end=\"4370\">Dar eu \u00eei cuno\u0219team deja adev\u0103ratele motive.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4372\" data-end=\"4400\">Dup\u0103 o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, mi-a spus:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4402\" data-end=\"4531\">\u2014 M-am g\u00e2ndit mai bine. Nu cred c\u0103 avem nevoie nici de contract&#8230; nici de c\u0103s\u0103torie, de fapt. Putem continua exact ca p\u00e2n\u0103 acum.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4533\" data-end=\"4543\">Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4545\" data-end=\"4579\">Era r\u0103spunsul pe care \u00eel a\u0219teptam.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4581\" data-end=\"4640\">\u2014 Atunci cred c\u0103 \u0219i rela\u021bia noastr\u0103 poate r\u0103m\u00e2ne \u00een trecut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4642\" data-end=\"4660\">A clipit surprins.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4662\" data-end=\"4680\">\u2014 Ce vrei s\u0103 spui?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4682\" data-end=\"4722\">Am scos din geant\u0103 cheia apartamentului.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4724\" data-end=\"4783\">\u2014 \u00censeamn\u0103 c\u0103 ai dou\u0103 zile s\u0103-\u021bi iei lucrurile \u0219i s\u0103 pleci.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4785\" data-end=\"4809\">A \u00eenceput s\u0103 protesteze.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4811\" data-end=\"4851\">\u2014 Arunci unsprezece ani pentru o h\u00e2rtie?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4853\" data-end=\"4873\">L-am privit \u00een ochi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4875\" data-end=\"4896\">\u2014 Nu pentru o h\u00e2rtie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4898\" data-end=\"4963\">Pentru conversa\u021bia telefonic\u0103 pe care ai avut-o acum o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4965\" data-end=\"4982\">Fa\u021ba i s-a albit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4984\" data-end=\"5013\">\u0218tia exact despre ce vorbeam.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5015\" data-end=\"5026\">\u2014 Ai auzit?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5028\" data-end=\"5045\">\u2014 Fiecare cuv\u00e2nt.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5047\" data-end=\"5085\">A \u00eencercat s\u0103 spun\u0103 c\u0103 fusese o glum\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5087\" data-end=\"5122\">C\u0103 prietenul lui \u00een\u021belesese gre\u0219it.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5124\" data-end=\"5145\">C\u0103 nu vorbise serios.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5147\" data-end=\"5167\">Dar era prea t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5169\" data-end=\"5199\">Dou\u0103 zile mai t\u00e2rziu a plecat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5201\" data-end=\"5218\">Am r\u0103mas singur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5220\" data-end=\"5235\">Nu a fost u\u0219or.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5237\" data-end=\"5275\">Unsprezece ani nu dispar peste noapte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5277\" data-end=\"5345\">\u00cens\u0103 c\u00e2teva luni mai t\u00e2rziu, m-am mutat \u00een casa bunicului de la lac.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5347\" data-end=\"5388\">Am renovat-o exact a\u0219a cum \u00ee\u0219i dorise el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5390\" data-end=\"5459\">\u00cen fiecare diminea\u021b\u0103 beam cafeaua pe ponton \u0219i priveam apa lini\u0219tit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5461\" data-end=\"5506\">\u00centr-o zi, vecina de peste drum m-a \u00eentrebat:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5508\" data-end=\"5559\">\u2014 Nu regre\u021bi c\u0103 ai pierdut o rela\u021bie at\u00e2t de lung\u0103?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5561\" data-end=\"5571\">Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5573\" data-end=\"5578\">\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5580\" data-end=\"5614\">Am pierdut un om care nu m\u0103 iubea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5616\" data-end=\"5641\">Dar m-am reg\u0103sit pe mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5643\" data-end=\"5724\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Iar asta a fost cea mai valoroas\u0103 mo\u0219tenire pe care a\u0219 fi putut-o primi vreodat\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>L-am privit c\u00e2teva secunde f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 spun nimic. Gabriel z\u00e2mbea sigur pe el. Era convins c\u0103 urma s\u0103-i cer o nunt\u0103 pe plaj\u0103 sau o lun\u0103 de miere exotic\u0103. \u00cen schimb, am spus calm: \u2014 Vreau s\u0103 semn\u0103m un contract prenup\u021bial. Z\u00e2mbetul i-a \u00eenghe\u021bat. \u2014 Cum adic\u0103? \u2014 Este simplu. Tot ce am mo\u0219tenit \u00eenainte [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":26577,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27484","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diverse"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27484","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=27484"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27484\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27485,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27484\/revisions\/27485"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/26577"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=27484"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=27484"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=27484"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}