Pijamaua lui era p\u0103tat\u0103 de s\u00e2nge.<\/p>\n
Pentru o clip\u0103 am sim\u021bit c\u0103 mi se opre\u0219te inima.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Unde te doare? am \u00eentrebat aproape f\u0103r\u0103 glas.<\/p>\n
B\u0103ie\u021belul \u0219i-a dus m\u00e2na la nas.<\/p>\n
Abia atunci am observat c\u0103 \u00eei curgea s\u00e2nge dintr-o nar\u0103, iar fa\u021ba \u00eei era murdar\u0103 pentru c\u0103 \u00eencercase s\u0103 se \u0219tearg\u0103 singur.<\/p>\n
Perna \u0219i cear\u0219aful erau \u0219i ele p\u0103tate.<\/p>\n
Am luat imediat un prosop curat \u0219i l-am ridicat \u00een bra\u021be.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Stai lini\u0219tit, tati este aici.<\/p>\n
So\u021bia mea a intrat speriat\u0103 \u00een camer\u0103.<\/p>\n
C\u00e2nd a v\u0103zut s\u00e2ngele, a p\u0103lit.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Dumnezeule… nu mi-am dat seama!<\/p>\n
\u2014 Cum s\u0103 nu-\u021bi dai seama? Tocmai mi-ai spus c\u0103 ai venit de trei ori la el.<\/p>\n
A \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n
\u2014 A tot spus c\u0103 \u00eei este fric\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 te vrea pe tine. De fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd intram p\u0103rea c\u0103 se lini\u0219te\u0219te pu\u021bin, apoi \u00eencepea iar. Credeam c\u0103 pl\u00e2nge doar fiindc\u0103 era obosit.<\/p>\n
Am verificat rapid copilul.<\/p>\n
S\u00e2ngerarea p\u0103rea deja s\u0103 se opreasc\u0103.<\/p>\n
L-am dus totu\u0219i la camera de gard\u0103, unde medicul l-a consultat cu aten\u021bie.<\/p>\n
Dup\u0103 investiga\u021bii ne-a lini\u0219tit.<\/p>\n
\u2014 Este o s\u00e2ngerare nazal\u0103 destul de puternic\u0103, probabil provocat\u0103 de aerul foarte uscat \u0219i de faptul c\u0103 s-a sc\u0103rpinat \u00een nas \u00een somn. Nu este nimic grav.<\/p>\n
Am r\u0103suflat u\u0219urat.<\/p>\n
\u00cen drum spre cas\u0103, \u00eens\u0103, \u00een ma\u0219in\u0103 domnea t\u0103cerea.<\/p>\n
So\u021bia mea privea pe geam.<\/p>\n
\u2014 \u00cemi pare at\u00e2t de r\u0103u, spuse ea \u00eentr-un t\u00e2rziu. \u00cen ultimele luni sunt epuizat\u0103. Uneori simt c\u0103 func\u021bionez pe pilot automat.<\/p>\n
Am privit-o pentru prima dat\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat \u00een ultimele s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni.<\/p>\n
Avea cearc\u0103ne ad\u00e2nci.<\/p>\n
Abia dac\u0103 dormea c\u00e2teva ore pe noapte.<\/p>\n
\u021ainea casa \u00een ordine, mergea la serviciu \u0219i avea grij\u0103 de copii, iar eu presupusesem c\u0103 este bine doar pentru c\u0103 nu se pl\u00e2ngea niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n
\u00cen seara aceea, dup\u0103 ce l-am culcat din nou pe cel mic, am stat de vorb\u0103 ore \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n
Mi-a m\u0103rturisit c\u0103 se sim\u021bea cople\u0219it\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103, de multe ori, se temea c\u0103 nu este o mam\u0103 suficient de bun\u0103.<\/p>\n
I-am spus \u0219i eu c\u0103 reac\u021bionasem din panic\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103, \u00een loc s\u0103 o judec, trebuia s\u0103 \u00eencerc s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg prin ce trecea.<\/p>\n
Din ziua urm\u0103toare am \u00eenceput s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bim altfel responsabilit\u0103\u021bile.<\/p>\n
Am stabilit seri \u00een care unul dintre noi se putea odihni f\u0103r\u0103 griji, iar cel\u0103lalt prelua complet \u00eengrijirea copiilor.<\/p>\n
Am cerut \u0219i ajutorul bunicilor din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd, lucru pe care \u00eenainte \u00eel evitam din m\u00e2ndrie.<\/p>\n
Incidentul cu s\u00e2ngerarea nazal\u0103 ne-a speriat pe am\u00e2ndoi.<\/p>\n
Dar ne-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem un lucru important: uneori, \u00een spatele unei reac\u021bii care pare nep\u0103s\u0103toare se poate ascunde o oboseal\u0103 profund\u0103, iar cea mai bun\u0103 solu\u021bie nu este s\u0103 ne acuz\u0103m unul pe cel\u0103lalt, ci s\u0103 ne ascult\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 ne sprijinim ca familie.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Pijamaua lui era p\u0103tat\u0103 de s\u00e2nge. Pentru o clip\u0103 am sim\u021bit c\u0103 mi se opre\u0219te inima. \u2014 Unde te doare? am \u00eentrebat aproape f\u0103r\u0103 glas. B\u0103ie\u021belul \u0219i-a dus m\u00e2na la nas. Abia atunci am observat c\u0103 \u00eei curgea s\u00e2nge dintr-o nar\u0103, iar fa\u021ba \u00eei era murdar\u0103 pentru c\u0103 \u00eencercase s\u0103 se \u0219tearg\u0103 singur. Perna \u0219i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":26577,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27608","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diverse"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27608","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=27608"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27608\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27609,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27608\/revisions\/27609"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/26577"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=27608"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=27608"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=27608"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}