{"id":27622,"date":"2026-08-06T09:20:17","date_gmt":"2026-08-06T09:20:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=27622"},"modified":"2026-08-06T09:20:17","modified_gmt":"2026-08-06T09:20:17","slug":"fostul-meu-sot-a-ramas-cu-casa-masina-si-toti-banii-nostri-dupa-divort","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=27622","title":{"rendered":"Fostul meu so\u021b a r\u0103mas cu casa, ma\u0219ina \u0219i to\u021bi banii no\u0219tri dup\u0103 divor\u021b"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"PDq2pG_selectionAnchorContainer\" data-start=\"1405\" data-end=\"1512\">\u2014 &#8230;v\u0103d executorii judec\u0103tore\u0219ti \u00een curte! Au venit cu ni\u0219te h\u00e2rtii \u0219i spun c\u0103 pot pune sechestru pe cas\u0103!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1514\" data-end=\"1545\">Mi-am turnat lini\u0219tit\u0103 cafeaua.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1547\" data-end=\"1558\">\u2014 A\u0219a este.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1560\" data-end=\"1597\">\u2014 Cum adic\u0103 \u201ea\u0219a este\u201d? Casa e a mea!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1599\" data-end=\"1675\">\u2014 Casa este pe numele t\u0103u. \u0218i, odat\u0103 cu ea, ai preluat \u0219i toate obliga\u021biile.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1677\" data-end=\"1724\">La cel\u0103lalt cap\u0103t al firului s-a f\u0103cut lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1726\" data-end=\"1747\">\u2014 Despre ce vorbe\u0219ti?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1749\" data-end=\"1817\">\u2014 Ai citit m\u0103car toate documentele pe care ai insistat s\u0103 le semn\u0103m?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1819\" data-end=\"1843\">\u2014 Normal c\u0103 le-am citit!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1845\" data-end=\"1860\">\u0218tiam c\u0103 minte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1862\" data-end=\"1928\">\u00cen timpul divor\u021bului nu-l interesase dec\u00e2t s\u0103 ob\u021bin\u0103 c\u00e2t mai mult.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1930\" data-end=\"1971\">\u2014 \u00ce\u021bi aminte\u0219ti creditul pentru renovare?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1973\" data-end=\"1980\">\u2014 Da&#8230;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1982\" data-end=\"2023\">\u2014 Creditul pentru panourile fotovoltaice?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2025\" data-end=\"2032\">\u2014 Da&#8230;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2034\" data-end=\"2071\">\u2014 \u00cemprumutul pentru extinderea casei?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2073\" data-end=\"2109\">Respira\u021bia lui devenea tot mai grea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2111\" data-end=\"2140\">\u2014 Ce leg\u0103tur\u0103 au toate astea?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2142\" data-end=\"2176\">\u2014 Toate au fost garantate cu casa.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2178\" data-end=\"2280\">\u0218i, prin acordul de partaj, ai preluat integral proprietatea \u0219i toate obliga\u021biile financiare aferente.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2282\" data-end=\"2302\">A \u00eenceput s\u0103 \u00eenjure.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2304\" data-end=\"2318\">\u2014 Nu se poate!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2320\" data-end=\"2328\">\u2014 Ba da.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2330\" data-end=\"2379\">\u2014 Dar \u00een conturi erau peste dou\u0103 milioane de lei!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2381\" data-end=\"2388\">\u2014 Erau.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2390\" data-end=\"2402\">\u2014 Unde sunt?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2404\" data-end=\"2414\">Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2416\" data-end=\"2561\">\u2014 Ai observat c\u0103 aproape to\u021bi banii au fost folosi\u021bi \u00een ultimele luni pentru achitarea anticipat\u0103 a creditelor personale care erau pe numele meu?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2563\" data-end=\"2584\">A urmat o nou\u0103 pauz\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2586\" data-end=\"2591\">\u2014 Ce?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2593\" data-end=\"2642\">\u2014 Eu am r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 economii, dar \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 datorii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2644\" data-end=\"2703\">Tu ai r\u0103mas cu toate bunurile&#8230; \u0219i cu toate costurile lor.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2705\" data-end=\"2724\">A \u00eenchis telefonul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2726\" data-end=\"2761\">O or\u0103 mai t\u00e2rziu m-a sunat din nou.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2763\" data-end=\"2785\">\u2014 Ma\u0219ina are leasing?!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2787\" data-end=\"2792\">\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2794\" data-end=\"2806\">\u2014 \u0218i ratele?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2808\" data-end=\"2843\">\u2014 Tot ale celui care de\u021bine ma\u0219ina.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2845\" data-end=\"2868\">\u2014 Ai f\u0103cut inten\u021bionat!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2870\" data-end=\"2909\">\u2014 Nu, Mihai. Tu ai insistat s\u0103 iei tot.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2911\" data-end=\"2928\">Nu te-am obligat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2930\" data-end=\"2986\">\u00cen urm\u0103toarele s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni au \u00eenceput s\u0103 apar\u0103 problemele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2988\" data-end=\"3002\">Impozite mari.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3004\" data-end=\"3016\">Rate lunare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3018\" data-end=\"3041\">Costuri de \u00eentre\u021binere.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3043\" data-end=\"3053\">Asigur\u0103ri.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3055\" data-end=\"3063\">Facturi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3065\" data-end=\"3128\">Casa pe care o considera simbolul succesului devenise o povar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3130\" data-end=\"3284\">\u00cen schimb, eu m\u0103 mutasem \u00eentr-un apartament mai mic, cump\u0103rat din economiile pe care reu\u0219isem s\u0103 le p\u0103strez legal \u00eenainte de divor\u021b \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 niciun credit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3286\" data-end=\"3332\">Cheltuielile mele erau de c\u00e2teva ori mai mici.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3334\" data-end=\"3375\">Dup\u0103 trei luni, Mihai m-a c\u0103utat din nou.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3377\" data-end=\"3405\">De data aceasta nu mai \u021bipa.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3407\" data-end=\"3433\">\u2014 Vrei s\u0103 r\u0103scumperi casa?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3435\" data-end=\"3440\">\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3442\" data-end=\"3468\">\u2014 Dar ai spus c\u0103 o iubeai.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3470\" data-end=\"3499\">\u2014 O iubeam c\u00e2nd era un c\u0103min.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3501\" data-end=\"3534\">Nu c\u00e2nd a devenit doar un trofeu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3536\" data-end=\"3587\">Dup\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 dou\u0103 luni, casa a fost scoas\u0103 la v\u00e2nzare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3589\" data-end=\"3631\">Ma\u0219ina a fost returnat\u0103 firmei de leasing.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3633\" data-end=\"3678\">Mihai s-a mutat \u00eentr-un apartament \u00eenchiriat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3680\" data-end=\"3732\">\u00centr-o zi ne-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor \u00eentr-o cafenea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3734\" data-end=\"3747\">P\u0103rea obosit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3749\" data-end=\"3795\">\u2014 Cum ai putut s\u0103 fii at\u00e2t de calm\u0103 la divor\u021b?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3797\" data-end=\"3822\">L-am privit c\u00e2teva clipe.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3824\" data-end=\"3864\">\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 am \u00een\u021beles ceva \u00eenaintea ta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3866\" data-end=\"3877\">\u2014 Ce anume?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3879\" data-end=\"3942\">\u2014 C\u0103 adev\u0103rata bog\u0103\u021bie nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 ai cele mai mari lucruri.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3944\" data-end=\"3967\">\u00censeamn\u0103 s\u0103 ai lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3969\" data-end=\"4002\">A plecat f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 mai spun\u0103 nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4004\" data-end=\"4050\">Iar eu am r\u0103mas la masa mea, savur\u00e2nd cafeaua.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4052\" data-end=\"4134\">Pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 mul\u021bi ani, nu mai aveam nevoie s\u0103 demonstrez nimic nim\u0103nui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4136\" data-end=\"4192\">Uneori, cea mai mare victorie nu este s\u0103 p\u0103strezi totul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4194\" data-end=\"4307\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Ci s\u0103 ai \u00een\u021belepciunea de a l\u0103sa pe altcineva s\u0103 se \u00eempov\u0103reze singur cu ceea ce a crezut c\u0103 reprezint\u0103 succesul.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2014 &#8230;v\u0103d executorii judec\u0103tore\u0219ti \u00een curte! Au venit cu ni\u0219te h\u00e2rtii \u0219i spun c\u0103 pot pune sechestru pe cas\u0103! Mi-am turnat lini\u0219tit\u0103 cafeaua. \u2014 A\u0219a este. \u2014 Cum adic\u0103 \u201ea\u0219a este\u201d? Casa e a mea! \u2014 Casa este pe numele t\u0103u. \u0218i, odat\u0103 cu ea, ai preluat \u0219i toate obliga\u021biile. La cel\u0103lalt cap\u0103t al firului [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":26577,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27622","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diverse"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27622","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=27622"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27622\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27623,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27622\/revisions\/27623"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/26577"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=27622"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=27622"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=27622"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}