{"id":27710,"date":"2026-08-08T01:40:09","date_gmt":"2026-08-08T01:40:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=27710"},"modified":"2026-08-08T01:40:09","modified_gmt":"2026-08-08T01:40:09","slug":"fotoliul-puf-al-fiului-meu-s-a-rupt-in-timp-ce-se-juca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=27710","title":{"rendered":"Fotoliul-puf al fiului meu s-a rupt \u00een timp ce se juca"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"PDq2pG_selectionAnchorContainer\" data-start=\"2656\" data-end=\"2683\">\u2014 Banii \u0103ia nu sunt ai mei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2685\" data-end=\"2704\">Am r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2706\" data-end=\"2824\">Dintre toate explica\u021biile pe care mi le imaginasem \u00een cele dou\u0103 ore c\u00e2t \u00eel a\u0219teptasem, aceea nu fusese una dintre ele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2826\" data-end=\"2853\">\u2014 Cum adic\u0103 nu sunt ai t\u0103i?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2855\" data-end=\"2883\">Marius s-a uitat spre sc\u0103ri.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2885\" data-end=\"2899\">\u2014 Unde e Radu?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2901\" data-end=\"2944\">\u2014 \u00cen camera de zi. I-am pus desene animate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2946\" data-end=\"2967\">\u2014 Nu trebuie s\u0103 aud\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2969\" data-end=\"2993\">\u2014 Atunci vorbe\u0219te \u00eencet.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2995\" data-end=\"3035\">S-a a\u0219ezat la mas\u0103, dar n-a atins banii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3037\" data-end=\"3063\">\u2014 \u00cei \u021bineam pentru cineva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3065\" data-end=\"3079\">\u2014 Pentru cine?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3081\" data-end=\"3088\">T\u0103cere.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3090\" data-end=\"3155\">Am \u00eempins spre el unul dintre teancurile cu data scris\u0103 pe band\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3157\" data-end=\"3282\">\u2014 Marius, sunt aproape dou\u0103 sute de mii de lei ascun\u0219i \u00een camera copilului nostru. Nu pleci de aici p\u00e2n\u0103 nu-mi spui adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3284\" data-end=\"3306\">\u0218i atunci mi l-a spus.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3308\" data-end=\"3325\">Nu avea o amant\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3327\" data-end=\"3379\">Aproape c\u0103 mi-a\u0219 fi dorit s\u0103 fi fost at\u00e2t de simplu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3381\" data-end=\"3612\">De c\u00e2\u021biva ani, Marius \u00eei ajuta pe doi colegi din domeniul asigur\u0103rilor s\u0103 ascund\u0103 bani proveni\u021bi din comisioane pe care nu voiau s\u0103 le declare \u00een acte. El sus\u021binea c\u0103 nu participa la ob\u021binerea banilor \u0219i c\u0103 doar \u00eei p\u0103stra temporar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3614\" data-end=\"3672\">\u2014 Temporar? am \u00eentrebat. Unele date sunt de acum trei ani.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3674\" data-end=\"3694\">\u0218i-a frecat fruntea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3696\" data-end=\"3723\">\u2014 Lucrurile s-au complicat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3725\" data-end=\"3754\">\u2014 \u0218i ai ales camera lui Radu?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3756\" data-end=\"3799\">\u2014 Nimeni nu caut\u0103 \u00eentr-un fotoliu de copil.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3801\" data-end=\"3838\">Am sim\u021bit cum mi se str\u00e2nge stomacul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3840\" data-end=\"3868\">Nu pentru c\u0103 ridicase vocea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3870\" data-end=\"3897\">Nu pentru c\u0103 m\u0103 amenin\u021base.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3899\" data-end=\"3947\">Ci pentru c\u0103 spusese fraza aceea at\u00e2t de firesc.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3949\" data-end=\"4022\">Pentru el, camera fiului nostru fusese pur \u0219i simplu o ascunz\u0103toare bun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4024\" data-end=\"4038\">\u2014 C\u00e2t primeai?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4040\" data-end=\"4045\">\u2014 Ce?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4047\" data-end=\"4091\">\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 nu cred c\u0103 ai f\u0103cut asta gratis.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4093\" data-end=\"4122\">Marius \u0219i-a cobor\u00e2t privirea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4124\" data-end=\"4139\">\u2014 Zece la sut\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4141\" data-end=\"4175\">Am f\u0103cut repede calculul \u00een minte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4177\" data-end=\"4215\">Apoi m-am g\u00e2ndit la cursurile de \u00eenot.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4217\" data-end=\"4231\">La ma\u0219ina mea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4233\" data-end=\"4286\">La m\u0103seaua pentru care luam calmante de luni \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4288\" data-end=\"4313\">\u2014 \u0218i partea ta unde este?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4315\" data-end=\"4330\">\u2014 Am folosit-o.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4332\" data-end=\"4344\">\u2014 Pentru ce?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4346\" data-end=\"4358\">N-a r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4360\" data-end=\"4393\">\u00cen seara aceea nu am aflat totul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4395\" data-end=\"4414\">Am aflat suficient.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4416\" data-end=\"4621\">I-am spus s\u0103 plece din cas\u0103 \u0219i am fotografiat fiecare teanc, fiecare dat\u0103 \u0219i interiorul fotoliului. Nu \u0219tiam \u00eenc\u0103 exact ce aveam \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 \u0219i nici nu voiam s\u0103 iau decizii baz\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 doar pe explica\u021biile lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4623\" data-end=\"4656\">A doua zi am vorbit cu un avocat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4658\" data-end=\"4854\">La recomandarea lui, nu am cheltuit, mutat sau ascuns niciun leu. Am p\u0103strat fotografiile \u0219i mesajele pe care Marius mi le trimisese dup\u0103 plecare \u0219i am urmat pa\u0219ii legali care mi-au fost indica\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4856\" data-end=\"4907\">Atunci a \u00eenceput s\u0103 se destrame \u0219i restul pove\u0219tii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4909\" data-end=\"4950\">Marius min\u021bise inclusiv c\u00e2nd recunoscuse.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4952\" data-end=\"4991\">Banii nu apar\u021bineau doar \u201eunor colegi\u201d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4993\" data-end=\"5013\">O parte erau ai lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5015\" data-end=\"5062\">Avusese venituri despre care eu nu \u0219tiam nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5064\" data-end=\"5085\">\u0218i nu de c\u00e2teva luni.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5087\" data-end=\"5094\">De ani.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5096\" data-end=\"5234\">\u00cen timp ce acas\u0103 calcula p\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2t cheltuiam la supermarket, el avea un cont separat \u0219i f\u0103cea pl\u0103\u021bi despre care nu-mi spusese niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5236\" data-end=\"5289\">C\u00e2nd l-am confruntat, a \u00eencercat s\u0103 schimbe discu\u021bia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5291\" data-end=\"5331\">\u2014 Tot ce am f\u0103cut a fost pentru familie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5333\" data-end=\"5393\">\u2014 Cum ne-a ajutat familia faptul c\u0103 Radu a renun\u021bat la \u00eenot?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5395\" data-end=\"5409\">\u2014 Nu \u00een\u021belegi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5411\" data-end=\"5440\">\u2014 Atunci ajut\u0103-m\u0103 s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5442\" data-end=\"5473\">\u2014 \u00cencercam s\u0103 construiesc ceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5475\" data-end=\"5509\">\u2014 Cu bani ascun\u0219i \u00eentr-un fotoliu?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5511\" data-end=\"5519\">A oftat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5521\" data-end=\"5560\">\u2014 Tu \u00eentotdeauna vezi doar ce lipse\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5562\" data-end=\"5612\">Atunci am \u0219tiut c\u0103 nu mai exista nimic de reparat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5614\" data-end=\"5649\">Nu banii \u00eemi distruseser\u0103 c\u0103snicia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5651\" data-end=\"5671\">Nici m\u0103car secretul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5673\" data-end=\"5779\">Ci faptul c\u0103 omul din fa\u021ba mea putea privi ultimii ani din via\u021ba noastr\u0103 \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 se considera nedrept\u0103\u021bit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5781\" data-end=\"5835\">Am depus actele de divor\u021b c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni mai t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5837\" data-end=\"5887\">Marius a \u00eencercat s\u0103 m\u0103 conving\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 r\u0103zg\u00e2ndesc.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5889\" data-end=\"5906\">Apoi s-a enervat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5908\" data-end=\"5938\">Apoi a devenit din nou amabil.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5940\" data-end=\"5977\">Mi-a spus c\u0103 putem \u00eencepe de la zero.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5979\" data-end=\"6004\">\u2014 Nu putem, i-am r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6006\" data-end=\"6014\">\u2014 De ce?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6016\" data-end=\"6060\">\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 eu nu mai \u0219tiu unde a fost zero.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6062\" data-end=\"6091\">A r\u0103mas cu privirea \u00een podea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6093\" data-end=\"6114\">Asta fusese problema.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6116\" data-end=\"6158\">Nu mai puteam separa adev\u0103rul de minciun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6160\" data-end=\"6230\">Dac\u0103 spunea c\u0103 o factur\u0103 era prea mare, m\u0103 \u00eentrebam dac\u0103 era adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6232\" data-end=\"6296\">Dac\u0103 spunea c\u0103 f\u0103cuse ore suplimentare, m\u0103 \u00eentrebam unde fusese.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6298\" data-end=\"6400\">Dac\u0103 \u00eemi spunea c\u0103 luase o decizie pentru binele nostru, m\u0103 \u00eentrebam al cui bine \u00eel avusese \u00een vedere.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6402\" data-end=\"6476\">C\u00e2teva luni mai t\u00e2rziu, eu \u0219i Radu ne-am mutat \u00eentr-un apartament mai mic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6478\" data-end=\"6516\">Ma\u0219ina mea veche a mai rezistat pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6518\" data-end=\"6568\">Mi-am f\u0103cut, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, tratamentul stomatologic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6570\" data-end=\"6598\">Iar Radu s-a \u00eentors la \u00eenot.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6600\" data-end=\"6746\">\u00cen prima zi, am stat pe banca din apropierea bazinului \u0219i l-am privit cum se \u021binea de margine, ascult\u00e2nd foarte serios indica\u021biile instructorului.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6748\" data-end=\"6785\">Dup\u0103 curs a venit alerg\u00e2nd spre mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6787\" data-end=\"6828\">\u2014 Mami, putem s\u0103-mi lu\u0103m alt fotoliu-puf?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6830\" data-end=\"6854\">Am \u00eencremenit o secund\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6856\" data-end=\"6879\">Apoi am \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6881\" data-end=\"6889\">\u2014 Putem.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6891\" data-end=\"6906\">\u2014 Tot albastru?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6908\" data-end=\"6923\">\u2014 Tot albastru.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6925\" data-end=\"6936\">\u2014 Dar mare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6938\" data-end=\"6952\">\u2014 Foarte mare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6954\" data-end=\"7012\">\u00cen magazin, Radu a ales unul aproape identic cu cel vechi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7014\" data-end=\"7099\">C\u00e2nd v\u00e2nz\u0103torul ne-a \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 vrem s\u0103-l livreze gata umplut, am r\u0103spuns imediat:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7101\" data-end=\"7127\">\u2014 Nu. \u00cel umplem noi acas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7129\" data-end=\"7160\">Omul s-a uitat pu\u021bin nedumerit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7162\" data-end=\"7173\">Radu a r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7175\" data-end=\"7195\">Eu nu i-am explicat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7197\" data-end=\"7302\">\u00cen seara aceea am stat am\u00e2ndoi pe podea, printre mii de bilu\u021be albe care ajunseser\u0103 inevitabil peste tot.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7304\" data-end=\"7319\">Radu se distra.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7321\" data-end=\"7344\">Eu \u00eencercam s\u0103 le adun.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7346\" data-end=\"7396\">La un moment dat, a ridicat o bilu\u021b\u0103 \u0219i mi-a spus:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7398\" data-end=\"7455\">\u2014 Tata avea dreptate. Chestiile astea chiar distrug casa.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7457\" data-end=\"7487\">M-am uitat la el \u0219i am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7489\" data-end=\"7527\">\u2014 Da. Despre asta chiar avea dreptate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7529\" data-end=\"7584\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Restul fusese \u00eens\u0103 o minciun\u0103 mult mai greu de cur\u0103\u021bat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2014 Banii \u0103ia nu sunt ai mei. Am r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103. Dintre toate explica\u021biile pe care mi le imaginasem \u00een cele dou\u0103 ore c\u00e2t \u00eel a\u0219teptasem, aceea nu fusese una dintre ele. \u2014 Cum adic\u0103 nu sunt ai t\u0103i? Marius s-a uitat spre sc\u0103ri. \u2014 Unde e Radu? \u2014 \u00cen camera de zi. I-am pus desene [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":26577,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27710","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diverse"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27710","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=27710"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27710\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27711,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27710\/revisions\/27711"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/26577"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=27710"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=27710"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=27710"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}