{"id":28180,"date":"2026-08-19T03:38:46","date_gmt":"2026-08-19T03:38:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=28180"},"modified":"2026-08-19T03:38:46","modified_gmt":"2026-08-19T03:38:46","slug":"soacra-mea-a-postat-pe-facebook-o-fotografie-cu-mine-bolnava-in-pat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=28180","title":{"rendered":"Soacra mea a postat pe Facebook o fotografie cu mine bolnav\u0103 \u00een pat"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"PDq2pG_selectionAnchorContainer\" data-start=\"3087\" data-end=\"3107\">Nathan deschise u\u0219a.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3109\" data-end=\"3124\">Aprinse lumina.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3126\" data-end=\"3149\">\u2014 Bun\u0103 diminea\u021ba, mam\u0103!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3151\" data-end=\"3209\">Patricia tres\u0103ri at\u00e2t de tare, \u00eenc\u00e2t aproape c\u0103zu din pat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3211\" data-end=\"3233\">\u2014 Dumnezeule! Nathan?!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3235\" data-end=\"3267\">\u00ce\u0219i trase p\u0103tura p\u00e2n\u0103 la b\u0103rbie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3269\" data-end=\"3298\">\u2014 Ce cau\u021bi aici la ora asta?!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3300\" data-end=\"3328\">Nathan \u00ee\u0219i scoase telefonul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3330\" data-end=\"3343\">\u2014 Stai pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3345\" data-end=\"3355\">\u2014 Ce faci?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3357\" data-end=\"3398\">Ridic\u0103 telefonul \u0219i \u00eei f\u0103cu o fotografie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3400\" data-end=\"3419\">Patricia \u00eencremeni.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3421\" data-end=\"3430\">\u2014 Nathan!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3432\" data-end=\"3437\">\u2014 Ce?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3439\" data-end=\"3467\">\u2014 \u0218terge fotografia imediat!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3469\" data-end=\"3489\">El se uit\u0103 la ecran.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3491\" data-end=\"3548\">\u2014 Dar e aproape cinci diminea\u021ba, mam\u0103, iar tu \u00eenc\u0103 dormi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3550\" data-end=\"3607\">Patricia \u00eel privi de parc\u0103 nu-i venea s\u0103 cread\u0103 ce auzea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3609\" data-end=\"3629\">\u2014 E CINCI DIMINEA\u021aA!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3631\" data-end=\"3638\">\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3640\" data-end=\"3674\">\u2014 Atunci de ce naiba a\u0219 fi treaz\u0103?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3676\" data-end=\"3700\">Nathan ridic\u0103 din umeri.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3702\" data-end=\"3816\">\u2014 Nu \u0219tiu. Credeam c\u0103 oamenii responsabili se ridic\u0103, merg la munc\u0103 \u0219i au grij\u0103 de familie, \u00een loc s\u0103 stea \u00een pat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3818\" data-end=\"3865\">Am fost nevoit\u0103 s\u0103-mi acop\u0103r gura ca s\u0103 nu r\u00e2d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3867\" data-end=\"3901\">Atunci Patricia m\u0103 observ\u0103 \u00een u\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3903\" data-end=\"3933\">Fa\u021ba i se schimb\u0103 instantaneu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3935\" data-end=\"3957\">\u2014 Ai adus-o \u0219i pe ea?!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3959\" data-end=\"3967\">\u2014 Sigur.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3969\" data-end=\"4001\">Nathan ridic\u0103 din nou telefonul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4003\" data-end=\"4040\">\u2014 M\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam s\u0103 pun poza pe Facebook.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4042\" data-end=\"4062\">\u2014 S\u0103 nu \u00eendr\u0103zne\u0219ti!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4064\" data-end=\"4072\">\u2014 De ce?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4074\" data-end=\"4131\">\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 sunt \u00een pijama! Nici m\u0103car nu m-am piept\u0103nat!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4133\" data-end=\"4159\">Nathan d\u0103du \u00eencet din cap.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4161\" data-end=\"4291\">\u2014 Deci nu \u021bi-ar pl\u0103cea ca o fotografie f\u0103cut\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 permisiunea ta, \u00eentr-un moment \u00een care e\u0219ti vulnerabil\u0103, s\u0103 ajung\u0103 pe internet?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4293\" data-end=\"4307\">Patricia t\u0103cu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4309\" data-end=\"4325\">Nathan continu\u0103:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4327\" data-end=\"4403\">\u2014 \u0218i probabil nici n-ai vrea ca oamenii s\u0103 te judece f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tie contextul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4405\" data-end=\"4426\">\u2014 Nu e acela\u0219i lucru.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4428\" data-end=\"4442\">\u2014 Ai dreptate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4444\" data-end=\"4476\">Vocea lui deveni brusc serioas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4478\" data-end=\"4508\">\u2014 Este mai r\u0103u ce ai f\u0103cut tu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4510\" data-end=\"4531\">Z\u00e2mbetul \u00eemi disp\u0103ru.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4533\" data-end=\"4556\">\u0218i al Patriciei la fel.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4558\" data-end=\"4842\">\u2014 So\u021bia mea avea febr\u0103 mare, mam\u0103. Fusese consultat\u0103 de medic. Era bolnav\u0103 \u0219i dormea pentru c\u0103 avea nevoie s\u0103 se refac\u0103. Tu ai intrat \u00een casa noastr\u0103 cu o cheie pe care \u021bi-am dat-o pentru urgen\u021be, ai intrat \u00een dormitorul nostru, ai fotografiat-o f\u0103r\u0103 acordul ei \u0219i ai umilit-o public.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4844\" data-end=\"4880\">Patricia se ridic\u0103 \u00een capul oaselor.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4882\" data-end=\"4906\">\u2014 Eu doar \u00eencercam s\u0103&#8230;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4908\" data-end=\"4913\">\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4915\" data-end=\"4929\">Nathan o opri.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4931\" data-end=\"5063\">\u2014 Nu \u00eencercai s-o aju\u021bi. Dac\u0103 voiai s-o aju\u021bi, \u00eei aduceai sup\u0103. \u00cei f\u0103ceai un ceai. M\u0103 sunai \u0219i m\u0103 \u00eentrebai dac\u0103 avem nevoie de ceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5065\" data-end=\"5086\">Se uit\u0103 direct la ea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5088\" data-end=\"5120\">\u2014 Tu ai vrut s-o faci de ru\u0219ine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5122\" data-end=\"5147\">Patricia cobor\u00ee privirea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5149\" data-end=\"5168\">\u2014 Era doar o glum\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5170\" data-end=\"5198\">\u2014 Atunci de ce nu r\u00e2zi acum?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5200\" data-end=\"5208\">Lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5210\" data-end=\"5236\">Nathan se uit\u0103 la telefon.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5238\" data-end=\"5256\">Apoi mi-l \u00eentinse.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5258\" data-end=\"5289\">Fotografia Patriciei era acolo.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5291\" data-end=\"5313\">\u2014 \u0218terge-o, i-am spus.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5315\" data-end=\"5360\">Patricia ridic\u0103 surprins\u0103 privirea spre mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5362\" data-end=\"5390\">Am ap\u0103sat eu \u00eens\u0103mi butonul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5392\" data-end=\"5411\">Fotografia disp\u0103ru.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5413\" data-end=\"5460\">\u2014 N-o s\u0103 postez a\u0219a ceva despre tine, Patricia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5462\" data-end=\"5515\">Pentru o clip\u0103, pe chipul ei ap\u0103ru o urm\u0103 de u\u0219urare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5517\" data-end=\"5529\">\u2014 Mul\u021bumesc.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5531\" data-end=\"5581\">\u2014 Dar asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 totul r\u0103m\u00e2ne ca \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5583\" data-end=\"5614\">Nathan scoase ceva din buzunar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5616\" data-end=\"5624\">O cheie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5626\" data-end=\"5645\">O puse pe noptier\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5647\" data-end=\"5668\">\u2014 Asta este cheia ta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5670\" data-end=\"5698\">Patricia se uit\u0103 nedumerit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5700\" data-end=\"5705\">\u2014 Ce?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5707\" data-end=\"5748\">\u2014 Ieri am schimbat \u00eencuietoarea de acas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5750\" data-end=\"5759\">\u2014 Nathan!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5761\" data-end=\"5862\">\u2014 Cheia pe care \u021bi-am dat-o era pentru urgen\u021be. Faptul c\u0103 so\u021bia mea doarme bolnav\u0103 nu este o urgen\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5864\" data-end=\"5893\">Patricia p\u0103rea sincer \u0219ocat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5895\" data-end=\"5910\">\u2014 Sunt mama ta!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5912\" data-end=\"5935\">\u2014 \u0218i ea este so\u021bia mea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5937\" data-end=\"5967\">Vocea lui Nathan r\u0103mase calm\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5969\" data-end=\"6128\">\u2014 Nu trebuie s\u0103 aleg \u00eentre voi c\u00e2t timp exist\u0103 respect. Dar c\u00e2nd cineva intr\u0103 \u00een casa noastr\u0103 \u0219i o umile\u0219te pe so\u021bia mea, atunci trebuie s\u0103 stabilesc o limit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6130\" data-end=\"6158\">Patricia \u00ee\u0219i str\u00e2nse buzele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6160\" data-end=\"6199\">\u2014 Deci acum eu sunt personajul negativ.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6201\" data-end=\"6233\">Am intervenit pentru prima dat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6235\" data-end=\"6474\">\u2014 Nu, Patricia. Nu e vorba despre personaje bune \u0219i rele. Este vorba despre un lucru foarte simplu: nu intri \u00een dormitorul altui adult, nu-l fotografiezi bolnav \u0219i nu-l expui pe internet ca s\u0103 prime\u0219ti aprobarea unor oameni de pe Facebook.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6476\" data-end=\"6492\">Nu mi-a r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6494\" data-end=\"6520\">Nathan \u00eei ar\u0103t\u0103 telefonul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6522\" data-end=\"6538\">\u2014 Mai este ceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6540\" data-end=\"6561\">Deschise postarea ei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6563\" data-end=\"6624\">\u00cen noaptea precedent\u0103, ad\u0103ugase un comentariu sub fotografie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6626\" data-end=\"6639\">Nu-l v\u0103zusem.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6641\" data-end=\"6714\">\u201eUnele femei din ziua de azi nu \u0219tiu ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 fie so\u021bii adev\u0103rate.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6716\" data-end=\"6745\">Nathan ap\u0103s\u0103 pe profilul lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6747\" data-end=\"6824\">Acolo era o postare scris\u0103 de el cu c\u00e2teva minute \u00eenainte s\u0103 plec\u0103m de acas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6826\" data-end=\"6853\">Nu pusese nicio fotografie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6855\" data-end=\"6869\">Doar un mesaj:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6871\" data-end=\"7118\">\u201eSo\u021bia mea a fost bolnav\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na aceasta. Medicul i-a recomandat odihn\u0103. Sunt recunosc\u0103tor c\u0103 m-a ascultat \u0219i c\u0103 nu \u0219i-a pus s\u0103n\u0103tatea \u00een pericol pentru ni\u0219te vase sau rufe. \u00cen casa noastr\u0103, odihna c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti bolnav nu este lene. Este bun-sim\u021b.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7120\" data-end=\"7125\">At\u00e2t.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7127\" data-end=\"7151\">Nu o numise pe Patricia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7153\" data-end=\"7168\">Nu o insultase.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7170\" data-end=\"7204\">Dar mesajul era suficient de clar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7206\" data-end=\"7239\">Sub el ap\u0103ruser\u0103 deja comentarii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7241\" data-end=\"7321\">Inclusiv de la c\u00e2teva dintre persoanele care r\u00e2seser\u0103 ini\u021bial la fotografia mea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7323\" data-end=\"7351\">\u201eSper c\u0103 se simte mai bine.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7353\" data-end=\"7367\">\u201eAi dreptate.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7369\" data-end=\"7425\">\u201eNimeni n-ar trebui fotografiat bolnav f\u0103r\u0103 permisiune.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7427\" data-end=\"7466\">Patricia se uit\u0103 la ecran \u0219i se \u00eenro\u0219i.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7468\" data-end=\"7505\">\u2014 Ai f\u0103cut asta ca s\u0103 m\u0103 faci de r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7507\" data-end=\"7530\">Nathan cl\u0103tin\u0103 din cap.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7532\" data-end=\"7599\">\u2014 Nu. Dac\u0103 voiam asta, postam fotografia pe care tocmai am f\u0103cut-o.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7601\" data-end=\"7636\">Apoi \u00ee\u0219i puse telefonul \u00een buzunar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7638\" data-end=\"7675\">\u2014 Am vrut doar s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi diferen\u021ba.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7677\" data-end=\"7712\">Am plecat c\u00e2teva minute mai t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7714\" data-end=\"7739\">\u00cen ma\u0219in\u0103, l-am \u00eentrebat:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7741\" data-end=\"7780\">\u2014 Chiar trebuia s\u0103 m\u0103 treze\u0219ti la 4:45?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7782\" data-end=\"7803\">Nathan porni motorul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7805\" data-end=\"7844\">\u2014 Voiam s\u0103 fie o demonstra\u021bie realist\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7846\" data-end=\"7864\">Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7866\" data-end=\"7881\">\u2014 E\u0219ti ridicol.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7883\" data-end=\"7898\">\u2014 Dar eficient.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7900\" data-end=\"7954\">Dou\u0103 zile mai t\u00e2rziu, Patricia a \u0219ters fotografia mea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7956\" data-end=\"7969\">Nu doar at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7971\" data-end=\"7989\">A postat un mesaj:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7991\" data-end=\"8114\">\u201eAm f\u0103cut recent o glum\u0103 nepotrivit\u0103 pe seama unei persoane bolnave. Nu a fost amuzant \u0219i nu a fost corect. \u00cemi cer scuze.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8116\" data-end=\"8129\">Nu m-a numit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8131\" data-end=\"8156\">Dar m-a sunat dup\u0103 aceea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8158\" data-end=\"8180\">\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u, spuse.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8182\" data-end=\"8270\">A fost prima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd am auzit-o spun\u00e2nd acele cuvinte f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 adauge imediat un \u201edar\u201d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8272\" data-end=\"8292\">Am acceptat scuzele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8294\" data-end=\"8324\">Nu i-am dat \u00eens\u0103 o cheie nou\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8326\" data-end=\"8358\">Au trecut c\u00e2teva luni de atunci.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8360\" data-end=\"8520\">Patricia \u00eenc\u0103 mai are opinii despre c\u00e2t de des g\u0103tesc, cum \u00eemp\u0103turesc prosoapele \u0219i dac\u0103 o so\u021bie \u201eadev\u0103rat\u0103\u201d ar trebui sau nu s\u0103 cumpere m\u00e2ncare gata preparat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8522\" data-end=\"8566\">Diferen\u021ba este c\u0103 acum le spune din casa ei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8568\" data-end=\"8591\">Iar dac\u0103 vine la noi&#8230;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8593\" data-end=\"8615\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">sun\u0103 mai \u00eent\u00e2i la u\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nathan deschise u\u0219a. Aprinse lumina. \u2014 Bun\u0103 diminea\u021ba, mam\u0103! Patricia tres\u0103ri at\u00e2t de tare, \u00eenc\u00e2t aproape c\u0103zu din pat. \u2014 Dumnezeule! Nathan?! \u00ce\u0219i trase p\u0103tura p\u00e2n\u0103 la b\u0103rbie. \u2014 Ce cau\u021bi aici la ora asta?! Nathan \u00ee\u0219i scoase telefonul. \u2014 Stai pu\u021bin. \u2014 Ce faci? Ridic\u0103 telefonul \u0219i \u00eei f\u0103cu o fotografie. Patricia \u00eencremeni. \u2014 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":26578,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28180","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diverse"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28180","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=28180"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28180\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28181,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28180\/revisions\/28181"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/26578"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=28180"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=28180"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=28180"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}