{"id":28405,"date":"2026-08-26T06:45:53","date_gmt":"2026-08-26T06:45:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=28405"},"modified":"2026-08-26T06:45:53","modified_gmt":"2026-08-26T06:45:53","slug":"la-doar-cateva-saptamani-dupa-ce-am-nascut-soacra-mea-mi-a-spus-sa-ies-din-fotografia-de-familie-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=28405","title":{"rendered":"La doar c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni dup\u0103 ce am n\u0103scut, soacra mea mi-a spus s\u0103 ies din fotografia de familie"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"PDq2pG_selectionAnchorContainer\" data-start=\"2300\" data-end=\"2341\">Am privit-o f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 ridic din fotoliu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2343\" data-end=\"2354\">\u2014 Ce anume?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2356\" data-end=\"2388\">Lavinia \u021binea telefonul \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2390\" data-end=\"2430\">\u2014 Fotograful spune c\u0103 ai anulat albumul!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2432\" data-end=\"2460\">\u00cen camer\u0103 s-a f\u0103cut lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2462\" data-end=\"2498\">Andrei s-a \u00eentors imediat spre mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2500\" data-end=\"2511\">\u2014 Ce album?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2513\" data-end=\"2573\">Lavinia \u00eel privi de parc\u0103 tocmai spusese ceva ce nu trebuia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2575\" data-end=\"2593\">Atunci am \u00een\u021beles.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2595\" data-end=\"2621\">Andrei nici m\u0103car nu \u0219tia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2623\" data-end=\"2802\">Cu dou\u0103 luni \u00eenainte, Lavinia m\u0103 rugase s\u0103 m\u0103 ocup de cadoul ei aniversar. Voia un fotograf profesionist, un album mare de familie \u0219i c\u00e2te o copie pentru fiecare dintre copiii ei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2804\" data-end=\"2852\">\u201eTu te pricepi la lucrurile astea\u201d, \u00eemi spusese.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2854\" data-end=\"2876\">Eu g\u0103sisem fotograful.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2878\" data-end=\"2914\">Eu pl\u0103tisem avansul de 1.800 de lei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2916\" data-end=\"2938\">Eu comandasem albumul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2940\" data-end=\"3035\">\u0218i, pentru c\u0103 fotograful era un fost coleg de facultate, contractul fusese f\u0103cut pe numele meu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3037\" data-end=\"3070\">\u2014 Da, am anulat albumul, am spus.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3072\" data-end=\"3087\">\u2014 Cum ai putut?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3089\" data-end=\"3128\">Amalia s-a mi\u0219cat u\u0219or \u00een bra\u021bele mele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3130\" data-end=\"3150\">Mi-am cobor\u00e2t vocea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3152\" data-end=\"3178\">\u2014 Nu \u021bipa. Doarme copilul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3180\" data-end=\"3207\">Lavinia aproape c\u0103 tremura.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3209\" data-end=\"3230\">\u2014 Dar era cadoul meu!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3232\" data-end=\"3301\">\u2014 Fotografia este a familiei tale. Albumul trebuia s\u0103 fie cadoul meu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3303\" data-end=\"3320\">Am f\u0103cut o pauz\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3322\" data-end=\"3425\">\u2014 Din moment ce tocmai mi-ai explicat c\u0103 nu fac parte din familie, nu v\u0103d de ce ar trebui s\u0103-l pl\u0103tesc.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3427\" data-end=\"3497\">Cumnata mea, Ioana, \u0219i-a dus paharul la gur\u0103 ca s\u0103-\u0219i ascund\u0103 reac\u021bia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3499\" data-end=\"3530\">Lavinia s-a \u00eentors spre Andrei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3532\" data-end=\"3547\">\u2014 Spune-i ceva!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3549\" data-end=\"3566\">Andrei m\u0103 privea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3568\" data-end=\"3594\">\u2014 Tu ai pl\u0103tit fotograful?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3596\" data-end=\"3601\">\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3603\" data-end=\"3609\">\u2014 C\u00e2t?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3611\" data-end=\"3691\">\u2014 Avansul a fost 1.800 de lei. Restul urma s\u0103-l pl\u0103tesc dup\u0103 ce primeam albumul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3693\" data-end=\"3718\">El s-a uitat la mama lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3720\" data-end=\"3756\">\u2014 Mi-ai spus c\u0103 tu ai organizat tot.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3758\" data-end=\"3792\">\u2014 Ce importan\u021b\u0103 are cine a pl\u0103tit?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3794\" data-end=\"3807\">Am r\u00e2s scurt.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3809\" data-end=\"3881\">\u2014 Acum zece minute avea suficient\u0103 importan\u021b\u0103 cine \u00eencape \u00een fotografie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3883\" data-end=\"3902\">Nimeni n-a mai r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3904\" data-end=\"3936\">Lavinia \u0219i-a \u00eencruci\u0219at bra\u021bele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3938\" data-end=\"3955\">\u2014 A fost o glum\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3957\" data-end=\"3962\">\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3964\" data-end=\"3983\">Am privit-o direct.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3985\" data-end=\"4070\">\u2014 O glum\u0103 e c\u00e2nd r\u00e2de \u0219i persoana despre care este f\u0103cut\u0103. Tu ai vrut s\u0103 m\u0103 umile\u0219ti.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4072\" data-end=\"4117\">\u2014 E\u0219ti mult prea sensibil\u0103 de c\u00e2nd ai n\u0103scut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4119\" data-end=\"4149\">\u0218i atunci Andrei a intervenit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4151\" data-end=\"4166\">\u2014 Mam\u0103, ajunge.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4168\" data-end=\"4206\">Lavinia s-a \u00eentors spre el, surprins\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4208\" data-end=\"4217\">\u2014 Poftim?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4219\" data-end=\"4230\">\u2014 Ai auzit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4232\" data-end=\"4288\">Pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00een seara aceea, z\u00e2mbetul \u00eei disp\u0103ruse.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4290\" data-end=\"4391\">\u2014 Ai dat-o pe so\u021bia mea afar\u0103 dintr-o fotografie de familie \u00een timp ce \u021binea copilul nostru \u00een bra\u021be.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4393\" data-end=\"4422\">\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 nu \u00eenc\u0103peam to\u021bi!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4424\" data-end=\"4452\">Ioana a ridicat spr\u00e2ncenele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4454\" data-end=\"4549\">\u2014 Mam\u0103, eram doisprezece oameni \u00eentr-o sufragerie de \u0219apte metri. Mai f\u0103ceam doi pa\u0219i \u00een spate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4551\" data-end=\"4589\">Cineva a tu\u0219it ca s\u0103-\u0219i ascund\u0103 r\u00e2sul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4591\" data-end=\"4611\">Lavinia s-a \u00eenro\u0219it.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4613\" data-end=\"4666\">\u2014 Nu trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103 judeca\u021bi to\u021bi \u00een propria mea cas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4668\" data-end=\"4773\">\u2014 Nimeni nu te judec\u0103, am spus. Eu doar am \u00eencetat s\u0103 pl\u0103tesc pentru ceva din care mi-ai cerut s\u0103 dispar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4775\" data-end=\"4800\">Am luat geanta copilului.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4802\" data-end=\"4826\">\u2014 Andrei, eu plec acas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4828\" data-end=\"4852\">El s-a apropiat imediat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4854\" data-end=\"4871\">\u2014 Venim \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4873\" data-end=\"4911\">Lavinia a r\u0103mas cu gura \u00eentredeschis\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4913\" data-end=\"4940\">\u2014 Pleci de ziua mamei tale?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4942\" data-end=\"4971\">Andrei a luat scoica Amaliei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4973\" data-end=\"4995\">\u2014 Plec cu familia mea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4997\" data-end=\"5044\">Cuvintele acelea au schimbat complet atmosfera.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5046\" data-end=\"5097\">\u0218i cred c\u0103 abia atunci a \u00een\u021beles Lavinia ce f\u0103cuse.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5099\" data-end=\"5129\">Nu pentru c\u0103 pierduse albumul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5131\" data-end=\"5266\">Ci pentru c\u0103, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 stabileasc\u0103 cine apar\u021binea familiei, \u00eel obligase pe fiul ei s\u0103 spun\u0103 cu voce tare unde era familia lui acum.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"5268\" data-end=\"5271\" \/>\n<p data-start=\"5273\" data-end=\"5319\">\u00cen ma\u0219in\u0103, Andrei nu a pornit imediat motorul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5321\" data-end=\"5349\">A r\u0103mas cu m\u00e2inile pe volan.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5351\" data-end=\"5366\">\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5368\" data-end=\"5387\">M-am uitat pe geam.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5389\" data-end=\"5401\">\u2014 Pentru ce?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5403\" data-end=\"5431\">\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 n-am spus nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5433\" data-end=\"5442\">Am t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5444\" data-end=\"5578\">\u2014 C\u00e2nd mama a f\u0103cut comentariul, am \u0219tiut c\u0103 a fost r\u0103ut\u0103cios. Dar am f\u0103cut ce fac \u00eentotdeauna. Am z\u00e2mbit ca s\u0103 nu \u00eenceap\u0103 un scandal.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5580\" data-end=\"5600\">M-am \u00eentors spre el.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5602\" data-end=\"5652\">\u2014 \u0218tii cine suport\u0103 scandalul pe care tu \u00eel evi\u021bi?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5654\" data-end=\"5665\">M-a privit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5667\" data-end=\"5672\">\u2014 Eu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5674\" data-end=\"5690\">A cobor\u00e2t ochii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5692\" data-end=\"5699\">\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5701\" data-end=\"5752\">\u2014 Nu, Andrei. Cred c\u0103 abia acum \u00eencepi s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5754\" data-end=\"5806\">Amalia a scos un sunet mic de pe bancheta din spate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5808\" data-end=\"5848\">Am\u00e2ndoi ne-am \u00eentors instinctiv spre ea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5850\" data-end=\"5863\">Apoi am spus:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5865\" data-end=\"5986\">\u2014 Nu vreau ca fiica noastr\u0103 s\u0103 creasc\u0103 v\u0103z\u00e2nd c\u0103 bunica ei \u00ee\u0219i umile\u0219te mama, iar tat\u0103l ei z\u00e2mbe\u0219te ca s\u0103 p\u0103streze pacea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5988\" data-end=\"6003\">Asta l-a lovit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6005\" data-end=\"6033\">\u2014 Nu se va \u00eent\u00e2mpla din nou.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6035\" data-end=\"6061\">\u2014 Nu-mi promite. Arat\u0103-mi.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"6063\" data-end=\"6066\" \/>\n<p data-start=\"6068\" data-end=\"6113\">Dou\u0103 zile mai t\u00e2rziu, Lavinia a venit la noi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6115\" data-end=\"6146\">Nu am l\u0103sat-o s\u0103 intre imediat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6148\" data-end=\"6164\">Am stat \u00een prag.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6166\" data-end=\"6231\">Pentru prima dat\u0103 de c\u00e2nd o cuno\u0219team, nu avea nimic de criticat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6233\" data-end=\"6260\">\u2014 Am venit s\u0103-mi cer scuze.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6262\" data-end=\"6277\">\u2014 Pentru album?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6279\" data-end=\"6299\">\u2014 Pentru fotografie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6301\" data-end=\"6313\">Am a\u0219teptat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6315\" data-end=\"6384\">\u2014 \u0218i pentru comentariile despre greutatea ta. \u0218i haine. \u0218i&#8230; restul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6386\" data-end=\"6402\">Nu suna perfect.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6404\" data-end=\"6420\">Dar suna sincer.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6422\" data-end=\"6528\">\u2014 Nu trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103 placi, i-am spus. Dar trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103 respec\u021bi dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 faci parte din via\u021ba Amaliei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6530\" data-end=\"6558\">Lavinia a dat \u00eencet din cap.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6560\" data-end=\"6582\">Apoi a scos telefonul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6584\" data-end=\"6625\">Pe ecran era fotografia de la aniversare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6627\" data-end=\"6651\">Cea din care m\u0103 scosese.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6653\" data-end=\"6666\">\u2014 Am \u0219ters-o.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6668\" data-end=\"6681\">\u2014 Nu trebuia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6683\" data-end=\"6691\">\u2014 Ba da.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6693\" data-end=\"6715\">Apoi mi-a ar\u0103tat alta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6717\" data-end=\"6803\">Fotograful surprinsese \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor un cadru cu c\u00e2teva minute \u00eenainte de poza oficial\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6805\" data-end=\"6902\">Eu st\u0103team cu Amalia \u00een bra\u021be. Andrei era l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine, aplecat spre feti\u021b\u0103. Nu ne uitam la camer\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6904\" data-end=\"6913\">Nu pozam.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6915\" data-end=\"6934\">Eram doar noi trei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6936\" data-end=\"6988\">\u2014 Asta e fotografia pe care o vreau, a spus Lavinia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6990\" data-end=\"7012\">Am privit-o surprins\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7014\" data-end=\"7022\">\u2014 De ce?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7024\" data-end=\"7039\">A z\u00e2mbit trist.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7041\" data-end=\"7208\">\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 mi-am petrecut at\u00e2t de mult timp \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 decid cine trebuie s\u0103 stea \u00een centrul familiei, \u00eenc\u00e2t am uitat c\u0103 nu eu mai sunt centrul familiei fiului meu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7210\" data-end=\"7228\">N-am \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at-o.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7230\" data-end=\"7265\">N-am pretins c\u0103 totul fusese uitat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7267\" data-end=\"7291\">Dar am l\u0103sat-o s\u0103 intre.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7293\" data-end=\"7326\">Albumul nu l-am comandat din nou.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7328\" data-end=\"7413\">\u00cen schimb, c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni mai t\u00e2rziu, am \u00eenr\u0103mat fotografia aceea \u0219i i-am oferit-o.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7415\" data-end=\"7445\">Lavinia a pus-o \u00een sufragerie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7447\" data-end=\"7558\">Iar de atunci, c\u00e2nd cineva ne cheam\u0103 pentru o fotografie de familie, nu mai a\u0219tept s\u0103 mi se spun\u0103 unde s\u0103 stau.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7560\" data-end=\"7610\">M\u0103 a\u0219ez l\u00e2ng\u0103 so\u021bul meu \u0219i \u00eemi \u021bin fiica \u00een bra\u021be.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7612\" data-end=\"7652\">Pentru c\u0103 am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat ceva \u00een ziua aceea:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7654\" data-end=\"7728\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\"><strong data-start=\"7654\" data-end=\"7728\" data-is-last-node=\"\">nu trebuie s\u0103 cer voie nim\u0103nui ca s\u0103 ocup locul care este deja al meu.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am privit-o f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 ridic din fotoliu. \u2014 Ce anume? Lavinia \u021binea telefonul \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103. \u2014 Fotograful spune c\u0103 ai anulat albumul! \u00cen camer\u0103 s-a f\u0103cut lini\u0219te. Andrei s-a \u00eentors imediat spre mine. \u2014 Ce album? Lavinia \u00eel privi de parc\u0103 tocmai spusese ceva ce nu trebuia. Atunci am \u00een\u021beles. Andrei nici m\u0103car nu [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":26579,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28405","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diverse"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28405","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=28405"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28405\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28406,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28405\/revisions\/28406"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/26579"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=28405"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=28405"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=28405"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}