{"id":28533,"date":"2026-09-02T08:16:00","date_gmt":"2026-09-02T08:16:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=28533"},"modified":"2026-09-02T08:16:00","modified_gmt":"2026-09-02T08:16:00","slug":"fiica-mea-a-umplut-trei-carucioare-de-cumparaturi-iar-cand-casiera-a-anuntat-totalul-de-4-500-de-lei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=28533","title":{"rendered":"Fiica mea a umplut trei c\u0103rucioare de cump\u0103r\u0103turi, iar c\u00e2nd casiera a anun\u021bat totalul de 4.500 de lei"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"PDq2pG_selectionAnchorContainer\" data-start=\"3732\" data-end=\"3748\">N-am mers acas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3750\" data-end=\"3842\">M-am a\u0219ezat pe o banc\u0103 din fa\u021ba supermarketului \u0219i am stat acolo aproape dou\u0103zeci de minute.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3844\" data-end=\"3872\">Telefonul vibra f\u0103r\u0103 oprire.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3874\" data-end=\"3887\"><strong data-start=\"3874\" data-end=\"3887\">\u0218tefania.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3889\" data-end=\"3902\">De \u0219apte ori.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3904\" data-end=\"3917\">Apoi C\u0103t\u0103lin.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3919\" data-end=\"3941\">Apoi din nou \u0218tefania.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3943\" data-end=\"3957\">Nu am r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3959\" data-end=\"4050\">\u00cen schimb, am c\u0103utat \u00een contacte un num\u0103r pe care nu-l mai apelaser\u0103m de aproape patru ani.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4052\" data-end=\"4078\"><strong data-start=\"4052\" data-end=\"4078\">Avocat Radu Marinescu.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4080\" data-end=\"4142\">El se ocupase de v\u00e2nzarea casei mele dup\u0103 moartea lui Dumitru.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4144\" data-end=\"4213\">\u2014 Doamn\u0103 Margareta? spuse surprins c\u00e2nd r\u0103spunse. S-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat ceva?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4215\" data-end=\"4315\">\u2014 Domnule Marinescu, mai ave\u021bi documentele legate de banii pe care i-am dat fiicei mele pentru cas\u0103?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4317\" data-end=\"4337\">T\u0103cu c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4339\" data-end=\"4344\">\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4346\" data-end=\"4381\">\u2014 Vreau s\u0103 \u0219tiu exact ce am semnat.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"4383\" data-end=\"4386\" \/>\n<p data-start=\"4388\" data-end=\"4424\">O or\u0103 mai t\u00e2rziu eram \u00een biroul lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4426\" data-end=\"4506\">C\u00e2nd i-am povestit ce se \u00eent\u00e2mplase \u00een ultimii patru ani, expresia i se schimb\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4508\" data-end=\"4578\">\u2014 Doamn\u0103 Margareta, dumneavoastr\u0103 crede\u021bi c\u0103 le-a\u021bi d\u0103ruit to\u021bi banii?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4580\" data-end=\"4606\">\u2014 Asta mi-a spus \u0218tefania.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4608\" data-end=\"4631\">Radu deschise un dosar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4633\" data-end=\"4644\">\u2014 Nu chiar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4646\" data-end=\"4675\">\u00cempinse c\u00e2teva foi spre mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4677\" data-end=\"4698\">Atunci mi-am amintit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4700\" data-end=\"4738\">Dumitru fusese cel precaut dintre noi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4740\" data-end=\"4790\">Cu pu\u021bin timp \u00eenainte s\u0103 moar\u0103, \u00eemi spusese mereu:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4792\" data-end=\"4833\">\u2014 S\u0103 nu r\u0103m\u00e2i niciodat\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 ceva al t\u0103u.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4835\" data-end=\"4932\">C\u00e2nd v\u00e2ndusem casa, avocatul m\u0103 convinsese s\u0103 nu transfer \u00eentreaga sum\u0103 pur \u0219i simplu ca dona\u021bie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4934\" data-end=\"5057\">O parte fusese consemnat\u0103 \u00eentr-un contract de \u00eemprumut pentru renovarea \u0219i extinderea locuin\u021bei \u0218tefaniei \u0219i a lui C\u0103t\u0103lin.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5059\" data-end=\"5086\">Aproape <strong data-start=\"5067\" data-end=\"5085\">430.000 de lei<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5088\" data-end=\"5167\">\u2014 Banii ace\u0219tia trebuiau restitui\u021bi conform contractului, \u00eemi explic\u0103 avocatul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5169\" data-end=\"5204\">\u2014 Dar nu mi-au dat niciodat\u0103 nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5206\" data-end=\"5213\">\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5215\" data-end=\"5271\">\u2014 \u0218tefania mi-a spus c\u0103 banii erau cadoul meu pentru ei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5273\" data-end=\"5287\">Radu m\u0103 privi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5289\" data-end=\"5332\">\u2014 O parte a fost dona\u021bie. Aceast\u0103 parte nu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5334\" data-end=\"5363\">Am sim\u021bit cum \u00eemi bate inima.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5365\" data-end=\"5393\">\u2014 Pot s\u0103-mi recuperez banii?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5395\" data-end=\"5514\">\u2014 Putem \u00eencepe procedurile. Dar \u00eenainte de orice, trebuie analizate toate documentele \u0219i situa\u021bia actual\u0103 a imobilului.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5516\" data-end=\"5531\">Am dat din cap.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5533\" data-end=\"5544\">\u2014 \u00cencepe\u021bi.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"5546\" data-end=\"5549\" \/>\n<p data-start=\"5551\" data-end=\"5581\">Apoi am f\u0103cut al doilea lucru.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5583\" data-end=\"5611\">Am deschis aplica\u021bia b\u0103ncii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5613\" data-end=\"5638\">Factura de electricitate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5640\" data-end=\"5651\">Internetul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5653\" data-end=\"5680\">Abonamentul de televiziune.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5682\" data-end=\"5703\">Asigurarea locuin\u021bei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5705\" data-end=\"5747\">Toate erau pl\u0103tite automat din contul meu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5749\" data-end=\"5765\">\u00cen fiecare lun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5767\" data-end=\"5787\">De aproape trei ani.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5789\" data-end=\"5816\">Am anulat pl\u0103\u021bile automate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5818\" data-end=\"5831\">Una c\u00e2te una.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5833\" data-end=\"5850\">Dar mai era ceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5852\" data-end=\"5871\">Ceva mult mai mare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5873\" data-end=\"5966\">Cu doi ani \u00eenainte, C\u0103t\u0103lin avusese probleme la serviciu \u0219i nu reu\u0219ise s\u0103 achite c\u00e2teva rate.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5968\" data-end=\"6001\">\u0218tefania venise la mine pl\u00e2ng\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6003\" data-end=\"6033\">\u2014 Mam\u0103, numai p\u00e2n\u0103 ne revenim.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6035\" data-end=\"6105\">De atunci pl\u0103team lunar <strong data-start=\"6059\" data-end=\"6075\">3.200 de lei<\/strong> pentru creditul lor ipotecar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6107\" data-end=\"6171\">Ei \u00eemi spuneau c\u0103 era contribu\u021bia mea \u201epentru c\u0103 locuiam acolo\u201d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6173\" data-end=\"6215\">M-am uitat la urm\u0103toarea plat\u0103 programat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6217\" data-end=\"6246\">Scaden\u021ba era peste dou\u0103 zile.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6248\" data-end=\"6258\">Am ap\u0103sat:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6260\" data-end=\"6289\"><strong data-start=\"6260\" data-end=\"6289\">ANULEAZ\u0102 PLATA RECURENT\u0102.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6291\" data-end=\"6330\">Asta era ceea ce \u0218tefania \u00eenc\u0103 nu \u0219tia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6332\" data-end=\"6395\">Nu cei 4.500 de lei de la supermarket aveau s\u0103-i schimbe via\u021ba.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6397\" data-end=\"6474\">Ci cei 3.200 de lei pe care mama ei nu avea s\u0103-i mai trimit\u0103 \u00een fiecare lun\u0103.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"6476\" data-end=\"6479\" \/>\n<p data-start=\"6481\" data-end=\"6533\">\u00cen noaptea aceea am dormit la prietena mea, Mariana.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6535\" data-end=\"6563\">La 22:14 am primit un mesaj.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6565\" data-end=\"6639\"><strong data-start=\"6565\" data-end=\"6639\">\u0218tefania: \u201eSper c\u0103 e\u0219ti mul\u021bumit\u0103. M-ai f\u0103cut de r\u00e2s \u00een fa\u021ba tuturor.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6641\" data-end=\"6655\">Nu am r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6657\" data-end=\"6666\">La 22:31:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6668\" data-end=\"6737\"><strong data-start=\"6668\" data-end=\"6737\">\u201eC\u0103t\u0103lin a trebuit s\u0103 \u00eemprumute bani de la un coleg pentru cin\u0103.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6739\" data-end=\"6748\">La 23:07:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6750\" data-end=\"6784\"><strong data-start=\"6750\" data-end=\"6784\">\u201eM\u00e2ine vii acas\u0103 \u0219i discut\u0103m.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6786\" data-end=\"6815\">Am citit mesajul de trei ori.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6817\" data-end=\"6836\">Nu \u201ete rog s\u0103 vii\u201d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6838\" data-end=\"6854\">Nu \u201eunde e\u0219ti?\u201d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6856\" data-end=\"6872\">Nu \u201ee\u0219ti bine?\u201d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6874\" data-end=\"6894\"><strong data-start=\"6874\" data-end=\"6894\">M\u00e2ine vii acas\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6896\" data-end=\"6979\">Pentru prima dat\u0103 am observat c\u00e2t de obi\u0219nuit\u0103 devenise fiica mea s\u0103-mi dea ordine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6981\" data-end=\"7001\">Am \u00eenchis telefonul.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"7003\" data-end=\"7006\" \/>\n<p data-start=\"7008\" data-end=\"7056\">Diminea\u021ba urm\u0103toare, la 8:12, C\u0103t\u0103lin m-a sunat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7058\" data-end=\"7083\">\u2014 Margareta, ce-ai f\u0103cut?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7085\" data-end=\"7109\">\u2014 Bun\u0103 diminea\u021ba \u0219i \u021bie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7111\" data-end=\"7139\">\u2014 Ai anulat plata la credit?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7141\" data-end=\"7183\">\u0218tefania probabil \u00eei verificase conturile.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7185\" data-end=\"7190\">\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7192\" data-end=\"7200\">\u2014 De ce?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7202\" data-end=\"7235\">\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 este creditul vostru.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7237\" data-end=\"7258\">\u2014 Dar locuie\u0219ti aici!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7260\" data-end=\"7278\">\u2014 Nu mai locuiesc.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7280\" data-end=\"7287\">T\u0103cere.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7289\" data-end=\"7329\">Apoi am auzit vocea \u0218tefaniei \u00een fundal.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7331\" data-end=\"7349\">\u2014 D\u0103-mi telefonul!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7351\" data-end=\"7387\">\u2014 Mam\u0103, ce prostie mai este \u0219i asta?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7389\" data-end=\"7413\">\u2014 Nu este nicio prostie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7415\" data-end=\"7448\">\u2014 Atunci \u00eentoarce-te \u0219i discut\u0103m.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7450\" data-end=\"7480\">\u2014 Avocatul meu v\u0103 va contacta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7482\" data-end=\"7496\">T\u0103cere total\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7498\" data-end=\"7510\">\u2014 Ce avocat?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7512\" data-end=\"7522\">Am \u00eenchis.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"7524\" data-end=\"7527\" \/>\n<p data-start=\"7529\" data-end=\"7582\">La pr\u00e2nz s-au prezentat am\u00e2ndoi la biroul avocatului.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7584\" data-end=\"7606\">\u0218tefania era furioas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7608\" data-end=\"7626\">C\u0103t\u0103lin era palid.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7628\" data-end=\"7657\">Radu puse contractul pe mas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7659\" data-end=\"7751\">\u2014 Doamna Margareta solicit\u0103 clarificarea \u0219i recuperarea sumei acordate cu titlu de \u00eemprumut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7753\" data-end=\"7778\">\u0218tefania se uit\u0103 la mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7780\" data-end=\"7816\">\u2014 \u00ce\u021bi dai \u00een judecat\u0103 propria fiic\u0103?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7818\" data-end=\"7823\">\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7825\" data-end=\"7849\">Am ar\u0103tat spre document.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7851\" data-end=\"7874\">\u2014 \u00cemi cer \u00eenapoi banii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7876\" data-end=\"7911\">\u2014 Dup\u0103 tot ce am f\u0103cut pentru tine?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7913\" data-end=\"7950\">Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 aproape \u00eemi vine s\u0103 r\u00e2d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7952\" data-end=\"7988\">\u2014 Ce ai f\u0103cut pentru mine, \u0218tefania?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7990\" data-end=\"8018\">\u2014 Ai locuit \u00een casa noastr\u0103!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8020\" data-end=\"8078\">\u2014 \u00cen camera cu igrasie \u00een care \u021bine\u021bi cutiile lui C\u0103t\u0103lin.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8080\" data-end=\"8108\">\u2014 Ai m\u00e2ncat la masa noastr\u0103!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8110\" data-end=\"8159\">\u2014 M\u00e2ncare pe care am cump\u0103rat-o \u0219i am g\u0103tit-o eu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8161\" data-end=\"8179\">\u2014 Ai avut familie!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8181\" data-end=\"8214\">Atunci am privit-o drept \u00een ochi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8216\" data-end=\"8292\">\u2014 O familie nu \u00eei prezint\u0103 mamei nota de plat\u0103 pentru faptul c\u0103 este iubit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8294\" data-end=\"8302\">A t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"8304\" data-end=\"8307\" \/>\n<p data-start=\"8309\" data-end=\"8345\">Urm\u0103toarele s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni au fost ur\u00e2te.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8347\" data-end=\"8367\">Au existat acuza\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8369\" data-end=\"8377\">Lacrimi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8379\" data-end=\"8386\">Mesaje.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8388\" data-end=\"8442\">\u0218tefania le-a spus rudelor c\u0103 \u201e\u00eemi pierdusem min\u021bile\u201d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8444\" data-end=\"8475\">Dar documentele erau documente.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8477\" data-end=\"8541\">Iar situa\u021bia lor financiar\u0103 era mult mai fragil\u0103 dec\u00e2t crezusem.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8543\" data-end=\"8659\">F\u0103r\u0103 pensia mea, f\u0103r\u0103 facturile pl\u0103tite de mine \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 contribu\u021bia la credit, stilul lor de via\u021b\u0103 nu mai func\u021biona.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8661\" data-end=\"8699\">Au renun\u021bat la dou\u0103 abonamente scumpe.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8701\" data-end=\"8735\">C\u0103t\u0103lin \u0219i-a v\u00e2ndut a doua ma\u0219in\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8737\" data-end=\"8841\">\u0218tefania, care \u00ee\u0219i redusese programul de lucru cu ani \u00eenainte, s-a \u00eentors la serviciu cu norm\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8843\" data-end=\"8907\">Iar mesele cu br\u00e2nzeturi de import \u0219i vinuri scumpe au disp\u0103rut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8909\" data-end=\"8925\">Nu m-am bucurat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8927\" data-end=\"8951\">Dar nici nu i-am salvat.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"8953\" data-end=\"8956\" \/>\n<p data-start=\"8958\" data-end=\"8997\">Cel mai greu moment a venit prin Matei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8999\" data-end=\"9034\">Nepotul meu m-a sunat \u00eentr-o sear\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9036\" data-end=\"9063\">\u2014 Bunico, nu mai vii acas\u0103?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9065\" data-end=\"9079\">Avea zece ani.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9081\" data-end=\"9135\">\u2014 Nu, dragul meu. Bunica o s\u0103 locuiasc\u0103 \u00een alt\u0103 parte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9137\" data-end=\"9155\">\u2014 Din cauza mamei?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9157\" data-end=\"9166\">Am t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9168\" data-end=\"9211\">\u2014 Problemele dintre adul\u021bi nu sunt vina ta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9213\" data-end=\"9227\">\u2014 Mama pl\u00e2nge.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9229\" data-end=\"9249\">Mi s-a str\u00e2ns inima.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9251\" data-end=\"9353\">Dar pentru prima dat\u0103 am \u00een\u021beles diferen\u021ba dintre a iubi pe cineva \u0219i a-l salva de fiecare consecin\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9355\" data-end=\"9379\">\u2014 \u0218i eu am pl\u00e2ns, Matei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9381\" data-end=\"9414\">\u2014 Te \u00eentorci dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i cere scuze?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9416\" data-end=\"9491\">M-am uitat prin fereastra micului apartament pe care tocmai \u00eel \u00eenchiriasem.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9493\" data-end=\"9559\">\u2014 Pot s-o iert pe mama ta f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentorc s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc ca \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"9561\" data-end=\"9564\" \/>\n<p data-start=\"9566\" data-end=\"9637\">Au trecut aproape \u0219ase luni p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u0218tefania a venit singur\u0103 la mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9639\" data-end=\"9652\">F\u0103r\u0103 C\u0103t\u0103lin.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9654\" data-end=\"9669\">F\u0103r\u0103 repro\u0219uri.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9671\" data-end=\"9693\">F\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-mi cear\u0103 bani.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9695\" data-end=\"9717\">\u021ainea \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103 o cutie.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9719\" data-end=\"9762\">\u2014 Am g\u0103sit asta c\u00e2nd am eliberat camera ta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9764\" data-end=\"9815\">\u00cen\u0103untru erau c\u00e2teva fotografii cu mine \u0219i Dumitru.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9817\" data-end=\"9888\">\u0218i o fotografie cu \u0218tefania la \u0219ase ani, coco\u021bat\u0103 pe umerii tat\u0103lui ei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9890\" data-end=\"9920\">Fiica mea se a\u0219ez\u0103 pe canapea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9922\" data-end=\"9953\">\u2014 Am fost \u00eengrozitoare cu tine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9955\" data-end=\"9971\">N-am spus nimic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9973\" data-end=\"10084\">\u2014 La \u00eenceput chiar voiam s\u0103 te ajut, continu\u0103 ea. Dup\u0103 ce a murit tata, m\u0103 speria g\u00e2ndul c\u0103 vei r\u0103m\u00e2ne singur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10086\" data-end=\"10103\">\u00cencepu s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10105\" data-end=\"10238\">\u2014 Apoi ai \u00eenceput s\u0103 faci lucruri pentru noi. \u0218i m-am obi\u0219nuit. Dup\u0103 un timp nici nu mai vedeam c\u0103 ne aju\u021bi. Credeam c\u0103 ni se cuvine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10240\" data-end=\"10252\">Am privit-o.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10254\" data-end=\"10284\">\u2014 Asta m-a durut cel mai tare.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10286\" data-end=\"10293\">\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10295\" data-end=\"10317\">\u2014 Nu cei 4.500 de lei.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10319\" data-end=\"10332\">D\u0103du din cap.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10334\" data-end=\"10341\">\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10343\" data-end=\"10354\">Apoi spuse:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10356\" data-end=\"10407\">\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u pentru ce \u021bi-am spus \u00een supermarket.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10409\" data-end=\"10436\">Am sim\u021bit lacrimile venind.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10438\" data-end=\"10471\">Dar n-am r\u0103spuns cu \u201enu-i nimic\u201d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10473\" data-end=\"10495\">Pentru c\u0103 fusese ceva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10497\" data-end=\"10518\">\u2014 \u00ce\u021bi accept scuzele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10520\" data-end=\"10545\">\u0218tefania ridic\u0103 privirea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10547\" data-end=\"10560\">\u2014 Te \u00eentorci?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10562\" data-end=\"10567\">\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10569\" data-end=\"10597\">A \u00eenceput din nou s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10599\" data-end=\"10634\">M-am apropiat \u0219i am luat-o de m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10636\" data-end=\"10719\">\u2014 Faptul c\u0103 te iert nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentorc \u00een situa\u021bia care m-a r\u0103nit.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"10721\" data-end=\"10724\" \/>\n<p data-start=\"10726\" data-end=\"10800\">\u00cen cele din urm\u0103 am ajuns la o \u00een\u021belegere privind banii investi\u021bi \u00een cas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10802\" data-end=\"10877\">N-am recuperat totul imediat \u0219i nici nu mi-am dorit s\u0103-i las f\u0103r\u0103 locuin\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10879\" data-end=\"10983\">S-a stabilit legal o modalitate prin care o parte important\u0103 din sum\u0103 urma s\u0103-mi fie restituit\u0103 \u00een timp.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10985\" data-end=\"11014\">Dar n-am mai pl\u0103tit creditul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11016\" data-end=\"11042\">N-am mai pl\u0103tit facturile.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11044\" data-end=\"11076\">N-am mai sp\u0103lat hainele nim\u0103nui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11078\" data-end=\"11115\">N-am mai c\u0103lcat c\u0103m\u0103\u0219ile lui C\u0103t\u0103lin.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11117\" data-end=\"11188\">\u0218i, pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 patru ani, pensia mea a r\u0103mas \u00een contul meu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11190\" data-end=\"11283\">Mi-am cump\u0103rat medicamentele f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 calculez dac\u0103 mai r\u0103m\u00e2n bani pentru internetul altcuiva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11285\" data-end=\"11306\">Mi-am cump\u0103rat flori.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11308\" data-end=\"11361\">Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 ies cu Mariana la cafea \u00een fiecare joi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11363\" data-end=\"11397\">Iar camera mea nu mai are igrasie.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"11399\" data-end=\"11402\" \/>\n<p data-start=\"11404\" data-end=\"11525\">C\u00e2teodat\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc la femeia de \u0219aptezeci \u0219i doi de ani care st\u0103tea \u00een fa\u021ba casei de marcat cu portofelul ro\u0219u \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11527\" data-end=\"11589\">Femeia aceea credea c\u0103 dac\u0103 spune \u201enu\u201d, \u00ee\u0219i va pierde familia.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11591\" data-end=\"11694\">\u00cen realitate, acel \u201enu\u201d a fost primul lucru care ne-a obligat s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem ce devenise familia noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11696\" data-end=\"11725\">\u0218tefania este \u00eenc\u0103 fiica mea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11727\" data-end=\"11736\">O iubesc.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11738\" data-end=\"11797\">Matei este \u00eenc\u0103 nepotul meu \u0219i \u00eel v\u0103d \u00een fiecare s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11799\" data-end=\"11886\">Dar acum, c\u00e2nd mergem \u00eempreun\u0103 la cump\u0103r\u0103turi, fiecare adult \u00ee\u0219i pl\u0103te\u0219te propriul co\u0219.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11888\" data-end=\"11965\">Iar portofelul meu ro\u0219u r\u0103m\u00e2ne \u00een geant\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd <strong data-start=\"11939\" data-end=\"11945\">eu<\/strong> decid s\u0103-l deschid.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11967\" data-end=\"12233\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\"><strong data-start=\"11967\" data-end=\"12233\" data-is-last-node=\"\">Pentru c\u0103 a fi mam\u0103 nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 pl\u0103te\u0219ti la nesf\u00e2r\u0219it pentru privilegiul de a fi tolerat\u0103 de propriii copii. Uneori, cel mai s\u0103n\u0103tos lucru pe care \u00eel po\u021bi oferi familiei tale nu este \u00eenc\u0103 un sacrificiu, ci primul \u201enu\u201d pe care trebuia s\u0103-l spui cu ani \u00een urm\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>N-am mers acas\u0103. M-am a\u0219ezat pe o banc\u0103 din fa\u021ba supermarketului \u0219i am stat acolo aproape dou\u0103zeci de minute. Telefonul vibra f\u0103r\u0103 oprire. \u0218tefania. De \u0219apte ori. Apoi C\u0103t\u0103lin. Apoi din nou \u0218tefania. Nu am r\u0103spuns. \u00cen schimb, am c\u0103utat \u00een contacte un num\u0103r pe care nu-l mai apelaser\u0103m de aproape patru ani. 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