{"id":28995,"date":"2026-09-22T04:55:39","date_gmt":"2026-09-22T04:55:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=28995"},"modified":"2026-09-22T04:55:39","modified_gmt":"2026-09-22T04:55:39","slug":"ani-la-rand-oamenii-si-au-batut-joc-de-nasul-meu-iar-dupa-operatie-sotul-meu-a-scos-toate-oglinzile-din-casa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=28995","title":{"rendered":"Ani la r\u00e2nd, oamenii \u0219i-au b\u0103tut joc de nasul meu, iar dup\u0103 opera\u021bie so\u021bul meu a scos toate oglinzile din cas\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"

Am deschis \u0219i am r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103. \u00cen fa\u021ba mea era un b\u0103rbat de aproape \u0219aizeci de ani, cu p\u0103rul c\u0103runt \u0219i o cicatrice sub ochiul st\u00e2ng. L-am recunoscut imediat, de\u0219i nu-l mai v\u0103zusem de aproape dou\u0103zeci de ani. Sorin Dobre<\/strong>, fostul nostru profesor de sport din gimnaziu. Omul care r\u00e2dea uneori \u00eempreun\u0103 cu elevii atunci c\u00e2nd m\u0103 strigau \u201eCiocul\u201d \u0219i care, \u00eentr-o zi, \u00eemi spusese \u00een fa\u021ba \u00eentregii clase: \u201eEmilia, dac\u0103 alergi mai repede, poate ajunge nasul dup\u0103 tine.\u201d \u00cemi amintisem replica aceea toat\u0103 via\u021ba. \u2014 Ce c\u0103uta\u021bi aici? am \u00eentrebat. Sorin \u00ee\u0219i cobor\u00ee privirea. \u2014 Trebuie s\u0103-\u021bi spun ceva. Ceva ce trebuia s\u0103-\u021bi spun acum dou\u0103zeci de ani.<\/p>\n

Mihai veni \u00een spatele meu. \u2014 Nu acum. Emilia tocmai a fost operat\u0103. \u2014 Tocmai de aceea trebuie acum, r\u0103spunse Sorin. Atunci am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 cei doi vorbiser\u0103 deja. L-am \u00eentrebat pe Mihai ce descoperise medicul. So\u021bul meu oft\u0103 \u0219i \u00eemi explic\u0103 faptul c\u0103, \u00een timpul interven\u021biei, chirurgul observase urmele unei fracturi nazale vechi, vindecate defectuos. Nu era ceva periculos \u0219i nici o descoperire misterioas\u0103; doar dovada c\u0103 forma nasului meu nu fusese determinat\u0103 exclusiv de genetic\u0103, a\u0219a cum crezusem \u00eentotdeauna. Osul fusese traumatizat serios c\u00e2nd eram copil.<\/p>\n

La \u00eenceput nu \u00een\u021belegeam. Apoi mi-am amintit o zi din clasa a cincea. Ora de sport. O minge medicinal\u0103. O lovitur\u0103 puternic\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103. S\u00e2nge pe tricou. Sorin \u00eemi spusese c\u0103 probabil era doar o contuzie \u0219i c\u0103 nu trebuia \u201es\u0103 facem tragedie din orice\u201d. Mama fusese anun\u021bat\u0103 abia seara. M\u0103 dusese la dispensar, dar p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci umfl\u0103tura fusese pus\u0103 pe seama unei lovituri obi\u0219nuite. Nu f\u0103cusem investiga\u021bii suplimentare, iar dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni nimeni nu mai vorbise despre incident.<\/p>\n

Sorin \u00ee\u0219i fr\u0103m\u00e2nta m\u00e2inile. \u2014 N-a fost exact cum \u021bi s-a spus atunci. Mingea nu te-a lovit accidental. Doi b\u0103ie\u021bi f\u0103ceau glume despre tine \u0219i unul dintre ei a aruncat-o inten\u021bionat. Eu am v\u0103zut. \u2014 \u0218i n-ai spus nimic? \u2014 Nu. Mi-a fost team\u0103 de scandal. Tat\u0103l b\u0103iatului era unul dintre oamenii influen\u021bi din comun\u0103 \u0219i f\u0103cea presiuni asupra \u0219colii. Am scris \u00een raport c\u0103 fusese un accident. Mai r\u0103u, \u00een loc s\u0103 te ap\u0103r dup\u0103 aceea, am f\u0103cut \u0219i eu glume. Am crezut c\u0103 astfel copiii vor uita incidentul. \u00cen realitate, le-am ar\u0103tat c\u0103 era \u00een regul\u0103 s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103 de tine.<\/p>\n

Am sim\u021bit cum furia \u00eemi urc\u0103 \u00een piept. \u2014 \u0218tii c\u00e2\u021bi ani am ur\u00e2t partea asta din mine? l-am \u00eentrebat. \u2014 \u0218tii de c\u00e2te ori am refuzat s\u0103 apar \u00eentr-o fotografie? C\u00e2te seri am stat \u00een fa\u021ba oglinzii \u00eentreb\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 de ce ar\u0103t a\u0219a? Sorin avea lacrimi \u00een ochi, dar nu \u00eencerc\u0103 s\u0103 se scuze. Mi-a spus c\u0103 aflase de opera\u021bie prin Mihai, pe care \u00eel \u00eent\u00e2lnise \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor cu c\u00e2teva zile \u00eenainte. C\u00e2nd Mihai \u00eei spusese dup\u0103 interven\u021bie ce observase chirurgul, Sorin recunoscuse imediat leg\u0103tura cu accidentul \u0219i \u00eei m\u0103rturisise adev\u0103rul. Mihai \u00eei spusese c\u0103, dac\u0103 avea ceva de recunoscut, trebuia s\u0103 mi-o spun\u0103 mie, nu lui.<\/p>\n

Atunci m-am \u00eentors spre so\u021bul meu. \u2014 \u0218i oglinzile? Mihai \u00ee\u0219i cobor\u00ee capul. Mi-a explicat c\u0103 medicul \u00eei recomandase oricum s\u0103 nu m\u0103 concentrez obsesiv asupra aspectului \u00een primele zile, c\u00e2nd edemul putea distorsiona rezultatul. Dar dup\u0103 conversa\u021bia cu Sorin se panicase. \u0218tia c\u00e2t de mult m\u0103 afectase complexul acela \u0219i se temuse c\u0103, dac\u0103 m\u0103 vedeam imediat dup\u0103 opera\u021bie, umflat\u0103 \u0219i v\u00e2n\u0103t\u0103, iar apoi aflam adev\u0103rul, aveam s\u0103 m\u0103 pr\u0103bu\u0219esc emo\u021bional. \u2014 Am vrut s\u0103-\u021bi spun eu, zise el. Dar nu \u0219tiam cum. \u2014 Atunci trebuia s\u0103 \u00eencepi prin a nu transforma casa \u00eentr-un loc f\u0103r\u0103 oglinzi \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 explica\u021bii, i-am r\u0103spuns. \u2014 Ai dreptate.<\/p>\n

Nu l-am iertat pe Sorin \u00een seara aceea. Nici nu sim\u021beam c\u0103 eram obligat\u0103. Faptul c\u0103 venise s\u0103 recunoasc\u0103 adev\u0103rul nu putea \u0219terge dou\u0103zeci de ani. Dar i-am cerut s\u0103 scrie tot ceea ce \u00ee\u0219i amintea despre incident \u0219i s\u0103-mi trimit\u0103 declara\u021bia. Aveam nevoie s\u0103 v\u0103d povestea \u00een cuvinte, nu doar s\u0103 o aud \u00een pragul casei. C\u00e2teva zile mai t\u00e2rziu am primit-o. Nu am c\u0103utat familia b\u0103iatului care aruncase mingea \u0219i nici nu am \u00eencercat s\u0103-mi reconstruiesc via\u021ba \u00een jurul vinov\u0103\u021biei unor copii de atunci. Pentru mine devenise mai important s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg de ce o singur\u0103 perioad\u0103 din copil\u0103rie ajunsese s\u0103-mi dicteze felul \u00een care m\u0103 priveam ca adult.<\/p>\n

Dup\u0103 dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, medicul mi-a \u00eendep\u0103rtat pansamentele. Nasul era \u00eenc\u0103 umflat \u0219i urma s\u0103 se schimbe pe parcursul lunilor urm\u0103toare. C\u00e2nd m-am privit prima dat\u0103 \u00een oglinda cabinetului, am a\u0219teptat acel moment spectaculos \u00een care urma s\u0103 m\u0103 simt, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, frumoas\u0103. Nu s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat. Eram tot eu. Doar c\u0103 nasul meu ar\u0103ta diferit. Atunci am \u00een\u021beles ceva ce nicio opera\u021bie nu putea repara singur\u0103: chirurgul putea modifica osul \u0219i cartilajul, dar nu putea scoate din mintea mea vocile copiilor care r\u00e2seser\u0103 de mine.<\/p>\n

Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 vorbesc cu un psiholog despre anii aceia. Nu pentru c\u0103 regretam interven\u021bia \u2014 o f\u0103cusem dup\u0103 ce m\u0103 informasem \u0219i r\u0103m\u00e2neam \u00eemp\u0103cat\u0103 cu alegerea mea \u2014 ci pentru c\u0103 nu mai voiam ca valoarea mea s\u0103 depind\u0103 de urm\u0103toarea oglind\u0103. Cu timpul, fotografiile au \u00eencetat s\u0103 mai fie ceva de care fugeam. Iar \u00eentr-o sear\u0103, c\u00e2nd Mihai m-a \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 voiam s\u0103 pun\u0103 \u00eenapoi oglinda mare din dormitor, am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Da. \u0218i pune-le \u00eenapoi pe toate.<\/p>\n

A r\u0103mas l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine \u00een timp ce m\u0103 priveam \u00een ea. Pentru prima dat\u0103 nu mi-am \u00eentors capul \u00eentr-o parte \u0219i nu am \u00eencercat s\u0103-mi ascund profilul.<\/p>\n

Petrecusem aproape dou\u0103zeci de ani crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 problema fusese nasul meu. Abia atunci am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 adev\u0103rata ran\u0103 fusese provocat\u0103 de oamenii care m\u0103 convinseser\u0103 c\u0103 trebuia s\u0103-mi fie ru\u0219ine de el.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Am deschis \u0219i am r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103. \u00cen fa\u021ba mea era un b\u0103rbat de aproape \u0219aizeci de ani, cu p\u0103rul c\u0103runt \u0219i o cicatrice sub ochiul st\u00e2ng. L-am recunoscut imediat, de\u0219i nu-l mai v\u0103zusem de aproape dou\u0103zeci de ani. Sorin Dobre, fostul nostru profesor de sport din gimnaziu. Omul care r\u00e2dea uneori \u00eempreun\u0103 cu elevii atunci […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":26580,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28995","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diverse"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28995","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=28995"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28995\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28996,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28995\/revisions\/28996"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/26580"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=28995"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=28995"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=28995"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}