{"id":29859,"date":"2026-10-17T16:40:55","date_gmt":"2026-10-17T16:40:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=29859"},"modified":"2026-10-17T16:40:55","modified_gmt":"2026-10-17T16:40:55","slug":"la-inmormantarea-fiicei-mele-sotul-ei-a-anuntat-ca-avea-de-gand-sa-le-trimita-pe-cele-trei-fetite-ale-lor-in-plasament","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=29859","title":{"rendered":"La \u00eenmorm\u00e2ntarea fiicei mele, so\u021bul ei a anun\u021bat c\u0103 avea de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 le trimit\u0103 pe cele trei feti\u021be ale lor \u00een plasament"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cen\u0103untru se aflau un stick USB, o cheie mic\u0103 \u0219i un plic \u00eemp\u0103turit de dou\u0103 ori.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm recunoscut imediat scrisul Andreei.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nPe plic scria: \u201eTat\u0103, dac\u0103 cite\u0219ti asta, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 temerile mele s-au adeverit. Te rog s\u0103 nu-l confrun\u021bi pe Iulian \u00eenainte s\u0103 vezi totul.\u201d<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nM-am a\u0219ezat la birou \u0219i am desf\u0103cut scrisoarea cu m\u00e2inile tremur\u00e2nde.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAndreea \u00eemi povestea c\u0103, \u00een ultimele luni, descoperise c\u0103 so\u021bul ei avea o rela\u021bie cu o alt\u0103 femeie. Dar nu infidelitatea o speriase cel mai tare.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nIulian \u00eencepuse s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 despre fete ca despre o povar\u0103. \u00cei spusese c\u0103, dac\u0103 ea nu se \u00eens\u0103n\u0103to\u0219ea, el nu avea de g\u00e2nd s\u0103-\u0219i sacrifice restul vie\u021bii cresc\u00e2nd singur trei copii.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAndreea \u00eencercase s\u0103-l conving\u0103 s\u0103 mearg\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103 la consiliere familial\u0103. El refuzase.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nLa finalul scrisorii, fiica mea scrisese:<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u201eTat\u0103, \u0219tiu c\u0103 ai crezut \u00eentotdeauna c\u0103 Iulian este un om bun. \u0218i eu am crezut. Dar acum trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103 asigur c\u0103 fetele vor avea pe cineva care s\u0103 le aleag\u0103, chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd via\u021ba devine grea.\u201d<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm introdus stickul \u00een laptop.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nCon\u021binea mai multe documente, fotografii \u0219i \u00eenregistr\u0103ri audio.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nPrima \u00eenregistrare era o conversa\u021bie dintre Andreea \u0219i Iulian.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu po\u021bi vorbi serios, spunea ea, cu vocea sl\u0103bit\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Ba da. Nu sunt preg\u0103tit s\u0103-mi petrec urm\u0103torii cincisprezece ani cresc\u00e2nd singur trei copii.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Sunt fiicele tale, Iulian.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 \u0218tiu foarte bine ale cui sunt.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nA urmat o t\u0103cere lung\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 \u0218i dac\u0103 eu mor?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Atunci o s\u0103 g\u0103sesc o solu\u021bie.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm oprit \u00eenregistrarea.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nNu mai puteam asculta.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u00centr-un alt folder am g\u0103sit extrase bancare \u0219i documente privind o asigurare de via\u021b\u0103 pe care Andreea o \u00eencheiase cu c\u00e2\u021biva ani \u00eenainte. Beneficiare erau cele trei fete, \u00een cote egale, iar eu eram desemnat s\u0103 administrez sumele cuvenite minorilor, \u00een condi\u021biile contractului.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nMai exista \u0219i o declara\u021bie notarial\u0103 prin care Andreea \u00ee\u0219i exprima dorin\u021ba ca eu s\u0103 m\u0103 ocup de copii dac\u0103 ea nu mai putea, precum \u0219i o scrisoare adresat\u0103 avocatului ei.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nCheia din s\u0103cule\u021b deschidea o caset\u0103 de valori de la banc\u0103, unde p\u0103strase documentele originale.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDiminea\u021ba urm\u0103toare, am sunat la num\u0103rul avocatului men\u021bionat \u00een scrisoare.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Domnule Popescu, m\u0103 a\u0219teptam s\u0103 m\u0103 contacta\u021bi, mi-a spus acesta. Fiica dumneavoastr\u0103 a preg\u0103tit documentele cu aproximativ dou\u0103 luni \u00eenainte s\u0103 moar\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nL-am \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 declara\u021bia ei \u00eemi oferea automat dreptul s\u0103 iau fetele \u00een grij\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu. Tat\u0103l lor are \u00een continuare drepturi \u0219i obliga\u021bii p\u0103rinte\u0219ti. Dar declara\u021bia Andreei, \u00eempreun\u0103 cu ceea ce a spus el la \u00eenmorm\u00e2ntare, sunt importante. Trebuie s\u0103 proced\u0103m legal.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u00cen dup\u0103-amiaza aceea, Iulian a venit la mine.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nNici m\u0103car nu a \u00eentrebat cum dormiser\u0103 fetele.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Trebuie s\u0103 discut\u0103m despre cas\u0103 \u0219i despre actele Andreei.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Dar despre Olivia, Emilia \u0219i Ilinca?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nA oftat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Alexandru, am explicat deja. Nu pot s\u0103 le cresc.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Atunci vreau s\u0103-mi spui asta \u0219i \u00een fa\u021ba avocatului.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nM-a privit surprins.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Ce avocat?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nI-am ar\u0103tat scrisoarea Andreei.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nPentru prima dat\u0103, l-am v\u0103zut cu adev\u0103rat speriat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 De unde ai asta?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 De la fiica mea.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nS-a uitat spre sc\u0103ri, apoi \u0219i-a cobor\u00e2t vocea.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu \u0219tii prin ce am trecut eu.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 \u0218tiu c\u0103 Andreea a fost bolnav\u0103. \u0218tiu c\u0103 \u021bi-a fost greu. Dar \u0219tiu \u0219i c\u0103 fetele tale au r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 mam\u0103, iar tu le-ai spus c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 le trimi\u021bi \u00een plasament.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nNu a r\u0103spuns.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nC\u00e2teva zile mai t\u00e2rziu, ne-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit cu avocatul. Iulian venise \u00eenso\u021bit de un alt avocat \u0219i p\u0103rea mult mai preocupat de asigurarea de via\u021b\u0103 dec\u00e2t de viitorul copiilor.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nC\u00e2nd a aflat c\u0103 banii erau destina\u021bi exclusiv fetelor \u0219i nu puteau fi folosi\u021bi pentru planurile lui personale, a devenit agitat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Eu sunt tat\u0103l lor. Ar trebui s\u0103 am acces la banii aceia.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAvocatul i-a explicat condi\u021biile contractului.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Sumele apar\u021bin beneficiarilor. Nu sunt o mo\u0219tenire pe care o pute\u021bi \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bi dup\u0103 bunul plac.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nIulian a r\u0103mas t\u0103cut.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAtunci am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 noul \u00eenceput despre care vorbise la cimitir nu \u00eensemna doar libertatea de a pleca. Se a\u0219teptase s\u0103 plece \u0219i cu banii.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAu urmat s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni de discu\u021bii, evalu\u0103ri \u0219i proceduri legale. Iulian a declarat \u00een scris c\u0103 nu dorea s\u0103 se ocupe de cre\u0219terea fetelor \u0219i c\u0103 era de acord ca ele s\u0103 locuiasc\u0103 permanent cu mine.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nInstan\u021ba a analizat situa\u021bia copiilor, dorin\u021ba exprimat\u0103 de Andreea \u0219i condi\u021biile \u00een care le puteam \u00eengriji. \u00cen cele din urm\u0103, a stabilit locuin\u021ba fetelor la mine, cu p\u0103strarea obliga\u021biilor legale ale tat\u0103lui lor.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nIulian a p\u0103r\u0103sit casa \u00een care crescuser\u0103 copiii. Femeia din SUV era, \u00eentr-adev\u0103r, noua lui partener\u0103. Rela\u021bia lor \u00eencepuse cu mult \u00eenainte ca Andreea s\u0103 moar\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nNu am \u00eencercat s\u0103 le ascund fetelor adev\u0103rul, dar nici nu le-am \u00eenc\u0103rcat cu detalii pe care nu le puteau \u00een\u021belege.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u00centr-o sear\u0103, Olivia m-a g\u0103sit \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie, privind o fotografie cu mama ei.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Bunicule, mama \u0219tia c\u0103 tata o s\u0103 plece?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Se temea c\u0103 s-ar putea \u00eent\u00e2mpla asta.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 De aceea mi-a dat s\u0103cule\u021bul?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Da.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nOlivia \u0219i-a \u0219ters ochii cu m\u00e2neca bluzei.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mi-a spus c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fiu curajoas\u0103 pentru surorile mele.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm tras-o l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mama ta te-a iubit enorm. Dar nu trebuie s\u0103 fii tu adultul acestei familii. De asta sunt eu aici.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nA \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103, pentru prima dat\u0103 de la \u00eenmorm\u00e2ntare, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 se opreasc\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u00cen lunile urm\u0103toare, am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat din nou cum este s\u0103 ai copii \u00een cas\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm cump\u0103rat ghiozdane, am mers la \u0219edin\u021be cu p\u0103rin\u021bii, am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 \u00eempletesc p\u0103rul Ilinc\u0103i \u0219i am descoperit c\u0103 Emilia avea nevoie s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 despre mama ei \u00eenainte s\u0103 adoarm\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nNu a fost u\u0219or.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAu existat nop\u021bi \u00een care pl\u00e2ngeam singur, dup\u0103 ce fetele adormeau.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDar, \u00eentr-o duminic\u0103 diminea\u021b\u0103, le-am g\u0103sit pe toate trei \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie, preg\u0103tind cl\u0103tite dup\u0103 re\u021beta Andreei.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nOlivia \u021binea tigaia, Emilia amesteca aluatul, iar Ilinca avea f\u0103in\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i pe nas.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Bunicule, vino s\u0103 ne aju\u021bi! a strigat cea mic\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nM-am oprit \u00een prag.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nPentru o clip\u0103, am auzit parc\u0103 r\u00e2sul fiicei mele.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nPe frigider era prins\u0103 o fotografie cu Andreea, \u00eenconjurat\u0103 de cele trei fete.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nL\u00e2ng\u0103 ea, Olivia lipise un bile\u021bel pe care scrisese: \u201eAcas\u0103 suntem \u00eempreun\u0103.\u201d<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm p\u0103strat s\u0103cule\u021bul mov \u00eentr-un sertar, al\u0103turi de scrisoarea fiicei mele.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nIulian \u00ee\u0219i dorise un nou \u00eenceput f\u0103r\u0103 responsabilit\u0103\u021bi. Andreea, \u00een schimb, \u00ee\u0219i folosise ultimele puteri pentru a le preg\u0103ti copiilor un viitor sigur.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u0218i, de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd le auzeam pe fete r\u00e2z\u00e2nd \u00een casa mea, \u00een\u021belegeam c\u0103 ultimul lucru pe care fiica mea \u00eel l\u0103sase \u00een urm\u0103 nu fusese un plan de r\u0103zbunare.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nFusese grija ei de mam\u0103, care continuase s\u0103 le protejeze chiar \u0219i dup\u0103 ce ea nu mai era.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cen\u0103untru se aflau un stick USB, o cheie mic\u0103 \u0219i un plic \u00eemp\u0103turit de dou\u0103 ori. \u2800 Am recunoscut imediat scrisul Andreei. \u2800 Pe plic scria: \u201eTat\u0103, dac\u0103 cite\u0219ti asta, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 temerile mele s-au adeverit. Te rog s\u0103 nu-l confrun\u021bi pe Iulian \u00eenainte s\u0103 vezi totul.\u201d \u2800 M-am a\u0219ezat la birou \u0219i am desf\u0103cut [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":29249,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29859","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diverse"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29859","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=29859"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29859\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29860,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29859\/revisions\/29860"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/29249"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=29859"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=29859"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=29859"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}