{"id":29994,"date":"2026-10-20T07:41:31","date_gmt":"2026-10-20T07:41:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=29994"},"modified":"2026-10-20T07:41:31","modified_gmt":"2026-10-20T07:41:31","slug":"mama-mi-a-trimis-aproape-zece-kilograme-de-slanina-afumata-de-la-tara","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=29994","title":{"rendered":"Mama mi-a trimis aproape zece kilograme de sl\u0103nin\u0103 afumat\u0103 de la \u021bar\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>PARTEA 2<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSoacra mea, doamna Elena, a r\u0103mas cu m\u00e2na \u00eentins\u0103 spre frigider, de parc\u0103 cineva \u00eei furase ceva ce \u00eei apar\u021binea. Ochii i s-au plimbat de la oala cu fasole la punga cu legume, apoi la rafturile aproape goale. A \u00eenchis frigiderul \u0219i l-a deschis din nou, convins\u0103 probabil c\u0103, la a doua \u00eencercare, cele zece kilograme de sl\u0103nin\u0103 aveau s\u0103 apar\u0103 prin minune.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Radu, unde este? a \u00eentrebat ea printre din\u021bi.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSo\u021bul meu st\u0103tea l\u00e2ng\u0103 u\u0219\u0103, cu fa\u021ba alb\u0103 ca varul.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mam\u0103, era aici acum o or\u0103. Am v\u0103zut-o cu ochii mei.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Atunci caut-o! a izbucnit ea. Doar n-a intrat singur\u0103 \u00een p\u0103m\u00e2nt!<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSara a pus cele trei saco\u0219e mari pe mas\u0103 \u0219i s-a uitat la mine cu o expresie care nu mai avea nimic din z\u00e2mbetul de mai devreme.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mariana, unde ai pus pachetele?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nM-am sprijinit lini\u0219tit\u0103 de blatul buc\u0103t\u0103riei.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Bun\u0103 ziua \u0219i vou\u0103. Ce pachete c\u0103uta\u021bi?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSoacra mea s-a \u00eentors brusc spre mine.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu \u00eencepe cu prostiile! \u0218tii foarte bine despre ce vorbim.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm ridicat din spr\u00e2ncene.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Interesant. Eu nu v-am spus c\u0103 am primit ceva de la mama. De unde \u0219ti\u021bi?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nPentru c\u00e2teva secunde, nimeni n-a scos un cuv\u00e2nt. Radu \u0219i-a frecat ceafa, Sara s-a uitat spre fratele ei, iar soacra mea a str\u00e2ns buzele at\u00e2t de tare, \u00eenc\u00e2t aproape c\u0103 nu i se mai vedeau.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 P\u0103i&#8230; ne-a spus Radu, a r\u0103spuns ea \u00een cele din urm\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 A\u0219a este? Mie nu mi-a spus c\u0103 v-a invitat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mariana, nu face din \u021b\u00e2n\u021bar arm\u0103sar, a intervenit Radu. Mama voia doar s\u0103 guste.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nM-am uitat la saco\u0219ele uria\u0219e de pe mas\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 S\u0103 guste? Cu trei saco\u0219e?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSara s-a \u00eenro\u0219it.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Am adus \u0219i pentru m\u0103tu\u0219a Nela.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 \u0218i pentru na\u0219a, am completat eu. Am auzit c\u00e2nd ai spus cum vre\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bi\u021bi totul.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu a \u00eenchis ochii. \u00cen clipa aceea, \u0219i-a dat seama c\u0103 planul lor nu mai era chiar at\u00e2t de secret.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSoacra mea \u00eens\u0103 nu avea de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 se lase \u00eencurcat\u0103 de asemenea detalii.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Bine, \u0219i ce dac\u0103? a spus ea. Suntem o familie. Dac\u0103 mama ta \u021bi-a trimis at\u00e2ta carne, puteai s\u0103 \u00eempar\u021bi \u0219i cu noi.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Puteam, am r\u0103spuns. Dac\u0103 m-a\u021bi fi \u00eentrebat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDoamna Elena a f\u0103cut un gest dispre\u021buitor din m\u00e2n\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Vai, ce mare lucru! Parc\u0103 \u021bi-a trimis aur, nu ni\u0219te sl\u0103nin\u0103!<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nM-am uitat drept \u00een ochii ei.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Pentru dumneavoastr\u0103 poate c\u0103 sunt doar ni\u0219te buc\u0103\u021bi de carne. Pentru mine sunt munca mamei mele. Are \u0219aizeci \u0219i unu de ani, o doare spatele \u0219i a preg\u0103tit totul singur\u0103, ca s\u0103-mi fac\u0103 o bucurie.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 \u0218i ce vrei, s\u0103-i ridic\u0103m statuie?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nVorbele ei m-au lovit mai tare dec\u00e2t m\u0103 a\u0219teptam. Nu pentru c\u0103 n-a\u0219 fi auzit p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci asemenea r\u0103ut\u0103\u021bi, ci pentru c\u0103 de data aceasta vorbea despre mama mea, femeia care nu-mi ceruse niciodat\u0103 nimic \u0219i care \u00eemi trimitea c\u00e2te ceva chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd ei \u00eei era greu.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm inspirat ad\u00e2nc.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu. Vreau doar s\u0103 nu-i mai trata\u021bi munca de parc\u0103 ar fi ceva ce vi se cuvine.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu a intervenit imediat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mariana, gata. Nu o mai jigni pe mama.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm \u00eentors capul spre el.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Eu o jignesc? Tocmai a r\u00e2s de mama mea, iar tu \u00eemi spui mie s\u0103 tac?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSara, care p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci \u00ee\u0219i \u021binuse gura, a deschis saco\u0219a de cump\u0103r\u0103turi pe care o l\u0103sasem pe blat. A scos unul dintre pachetele cu piept de porc crud \u0219i l-a ridicat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Uite, mam\u0103! Aici este carnea!<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDoamna Elena s-a repezit spre ea. A desf\u0103cut ambalajul \u0219i a privit bucata de carne, \u00eentorc\u00e2nd-o pe toate p\u0103r\u021bile.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Asta nu este afumat\u0103!<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu, am spus eu. Este piept de porc proasp\u0103t. L-am cump\u0103rat de la magazin.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Dar unde este cea bun\u0103? a strigat Sara.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm luat pachetul din m\u00e2na ei \u0219i l-am pus \u00eenapoi pe blat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 \u00centr-un loc sigur.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSoacra mea a \u00eencremenit.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Adic\u0103 ai ascuns-o?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Am pus-o deoparte.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Ca s\u0103 nu ne dai \u0219i nou\u0103?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Ca s\u0103 nu mi-o lua\u021bi f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreba\u021bi.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu a lovit masa cu palma.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu-mi vine s\u0103 cred c\u0103 faci at\u00e2ta scandal pentru ni\u0219te buc\u0103\u021bi de sl\u0103nin\u0103!<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nM-am uitat la el \u0219i am sim\u021bit ceva ciudat. Pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 mul\u021bi ani, nu-mi mai era team\u0103 c\u0103 se sup\u0103r\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nici mie nu-mi vine s\u0103 cred c\u0103 \u021bi-ai chemat mama \u0219i sora s\u0103-mi goleasc\u0103 frigiderul \u00een timp ce eu eram la serviciu.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDoamna Elena \u0219i-a pus m\u00e2inile \u00een \u0219olduri.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Radu, tu e\u0219ti b\u0103rbatul \u00een casa asta! Chiar o la\u0219i s\u0103 te fac\u0103 de r\u00e2s \u00een fa\u021ba familiei?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm a\u0219teptat s\u0103 v\u0103d ce spune so\u021bul meu.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nO parte din mine \u00eenc\u0103 spera c\u0103 avea s\u0103 recunoasc\u0103 m\u0103car c\u0103 gre\u0219ise. C\u0103 avea s\u0103-i spun\u0103 mamei lui c\u0103 lucrurile mele nu pot fi \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bite f\u0103r\u0103 acordul meu. C\u0103 avea s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, de ce m\u0103 durea at\u00e2t de tare.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDar Radu s-a \u00eentors spre mine.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mariana, spune-le unde ai pus carnea \u0219i termin\u0103m odat\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm cl\u0103tinat \u00eencet din cap.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Sunt so\u021bul t\u0103u!<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 \u0218tiu. Tocmai de aceea m\u0103 doare c\u0103 ai vrut s\u0103 m\u0103 furi pe ascuns.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nA tres\u0103rit.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 S\u0103 te fur? Cum po\u021bi s\u0103 spui a\u0219a ceva?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nMi-am scos telefonul din buzunar \u0219i am deschis \u00eenregistrarea audio pe care o f\u0103cusem din hol, dup\u0103 ce \u00eel auzisem vorbind cu mama lui. Se auzea limpede vocea lui Radu.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u201eNici m\u0103car n-o s\u0103-\u0219i dea seama&#8230; Gr\u0103be\u0219te-te, c\u0103 dup\u0103-amiaz\u0103 pleac\u0103 la serviciu.\u201d<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm oprit \u00eenregistrarea.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 A\u0219a pot.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nLini\u0219tea care a urmat a fost mai gr\u0103itoare dec\u00e2t orice ceart\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSara a l\u0103sat saco\u0219a jos. Radu a privit telefonul meu de parc\u0103 nu-i venea s\u0103 cread\u0103 c\u0103 propriile cuvinte se \u00eentorseser\u0103 \u00eempotriva lui. Soacra mea a fost prima care \u0219i-a revenit.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Deci acum \u00ee\u021bi \u00eenregistrezi so\u021bul? a \u00eentrebat ea. Asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu ai pic de respect pentru c\u0103snicia voastr\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm sim\u021bit cum \u00eemi vine s\u0103 r\u00e2d, dar m-am ab\u021binut.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Respectul pentru c\u0103snicie \u00eencepe \u00eenainte s\u0103-\u021bi chemi rudele s\u0103 ia lucrurile celuilalt.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu ai de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 ne dai nimic? a \u00eentrebat Sara.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu ast\u0103zi.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Dar mama le-a promis deja m\u0103tu\u0219ii Nela \u0219i na\u0219ei!<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm privit-o uimit\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Le-a promis din m\u00e2ncarea trimis\u0103 mie de mama mea?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSara a t\u0103cut.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Atunci va trebui s\u0103 le explice de ce a promis ceva ce nu-i apar\u021bine.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDoamna Elena a f\u0103cut un pas spre mine.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 S\u0103 \u0219tii c\u0103 nu mai calc \u00een casa asta!<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm deschis u\u0219a de la intrare.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Este alegerea dumneavoastr\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nN-am mai v\u0103zut-o niciodat\u0103 at\u00e2t de furioas\u0103. A \u00een\u0219f\u0103cat una dintre saco\u0219e, a \u00eendesat-o sub bra\u021b \u0219i a pornit spre u\u0219\u0103, bomb\u0103nind c\u0103 nu mai exist\u0103 respect pentru cei \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSara a urmat-o, dar \u00eenainte s\u0103 ias\u0103 s-a \u00eentors spre fratele ei.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Radu, tu chiar nu spui nimic?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSo\u021bul meu st\u0103tea nemi\u0219cat \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Pleca\u021bi acum, a spus el \u00eencet.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSoacra mea s-a oprit \u00een prag.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Poftim?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mam\u0103, pleca\u021bi. Vorbesc eu cu Mariana.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nU\u0219a s-a \u00eenchis \u00een urma lor, iar apartamentul a r\u0103mas t\u0103cut.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu s-a a\u0219ezat la mas\u0103. Nu p\u0103rea ru\u0219inat, ci mai degrab\u0103 iritat c\u0103 planul \u00eei fusese stricat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Ai f\u0103cut-o pe mama de r\u00e2s, mi-a spus.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nM-am a\u0219ezat \u00een fa\u021ba lui.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Radu, te rog s\u0103-mi r\u0103spunzi la o \u00eentrebare. Dac\u0103 mama ta \u021bi-ar trimite un lucru la care \u021bine foarte mult, iar eu mi-a\u0219 chema rudele s\u0103-l ia f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te \u00eentreb, cum te-ai sim\u021bi?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu este acela\u0219i lucru.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 De ce?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nA deschis gura, apoi a \u00eenchis-o.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 este mama mea, a spus \u00een cele din urm\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAtunci am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 problema noastr\u0103 era mult mai mare dec\u00e2t cele zece kilograme de sl\u0103nin\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u00cen seara aceea, dup\u0103 ce Radu s-a retras \u00een birou, am r\u0103mas singur\u0103 \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie. M-am uitat la masa pe care soacra mea \u00ee\u0219i a\u0219ezase saco\u0219ele \u0219i mi-am amintit c\u00e2te alte lucruri disp\u0103ruser\u0103 de-a lungul anilor.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nPrima dat\u0103 fusese un set de pahare primit de la mama. Doamna Elena spusese c\u0103 \u00eei plac, iar Radu i le d\u0103duse f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrebe. C\u00e2nd am protestat, mi-a spus c\u0103 sunt doar ni\u0219te pahare \u0219i c\u0103 putem cump\u0103ra altele.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nApoi disp\u0103ruser\u0103 dou\u0103 fe\u021be de mas\u0103 brodate de bunica mea. Soacra le luase \u201e\u00eemprumut\u201d pentru o petrecere \u0219i nu le mai adusese \u00eenapoi. C\u00e2nd am \u00eentrebat de ele, mi-a spus c\u0103 probabil le r\u0103t\u0103cise \u0219i c\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103 ag\u0103\u021b de lucruri vechi.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDar amintirea care m\u0103 durea cel mai tare era cea despre care vorbise Laura.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u00cen urm\u0103 cu trei ani, pierdusem o sarcin\u0103 \u00een luna a cincea.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nFusesem internat\u0103, apoi trimis\u0103 acas\u0103 cu recomandarea s\u0103 m\u0103 odihnesc. Eram at\u00e2t de sl\u0103bit\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t abia m\u0103 ridicam din pat. Mama voise s\u0103 vin\u0103 s\u0103 stea cu mine, dar Radu insistase c\u0103 ne vom descurca singuri.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDoamna Elena ap\u0103ruse atunci cu dou\u0103 cofraje de ou\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u00cemi spusese c\u0103 venise s\u0103 m\u0103 ajute.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDar, \u00eenainte s\u0103 plece, luase de pe raft un borcan cu vitaminele recomandate de medic, spun\u00e2nd c\u0103 \u0219i ea avea nevoie de ceva pentru s\u0103n\u0103tate. Radu o l\u0103sase.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nEu nu avusesem puterea s\u0103 m\u0103 cert.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng \u00een t\u0103cere.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nNu pentru sl\u0103nin\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nNu pentru pahare sau fe\u021bele de mas\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nCi pentru toate momentele \u00een care \u00eemi \u00eenghi\u021bisem durerea \u0219i m\u0103 convinsesem c\u0103 lini\u0219tea \u00een familie valoreaz\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t respectul fa\u021b\u0103 de mine.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nTelefonul a vibrat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nEra mama.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u201eAi rezolvat, fata mea?\u201d<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm sunat-o imediat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Da, mam\u0103. Sl\u0103nina este la Laura, \u00een congelator.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nMama a oftat u\u0219urat\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Bine ai f\u0103cut. M\u0103car acolo nu vine nimeni s-o \u00eempart\u0103 \u00eenainte s\u0103 apuci tu s\u0103 gu\u0219ti.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm r\u00e2s slab.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mam\u0103, cum de \u021bi-a venit ideea asta at\u00e2t de repede?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 te cunosc, Mariana. \u0218tiam c\u0103 o s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti s\u0103 te cer\u021bi cu ei, dar \u0219i c\u0103 o s\u0103-\u021bi fie mil\u0103 \u0219i o s\u0103 le dai p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 tot.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm t\u0103cut.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Fata mea, a continuat ea, eu nu \u021bi-am trimis carnea ca s\u0103 m\u0103 laud. Am trimis-o pentru c\u0103 mi-era dor de tine \u0219i voiam s\u0103 ai ceva bun \u00een frigider. Dac\u0103 voiai s\u0103 \u00eempar\u021bi cu cineva, era alegerea ta. Dar nimeni nu are dreptul s\u0103 hot\u0103rasc\u0103 \u00een locul t\u0103u.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nMi-am \u0219ters obrajii.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 \u0218tiu, mam\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Atunci s\u0103 nu mai ui\u021bi.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nA doua zi diminea\u021b\u0103, Radu s-a purtat de parc\u0103 nu se \u00eent\u00e2mplase nimic. A venit \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie, \u0219i-a turnat cafea \u0219i m-a \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 avem p\u00e2ine.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nL-am privit c\u00e2teva secunde.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Radu, trebuie s\u0103 vorbim.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nA oftat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Iar \u00eencepi?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu am terminat niciodat\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nS-a a\u0219ezat la mas\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Bine. Spune.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 De ast\u0103zi \u00eenainte, nimeni nu mai ia nimic din casa noastr\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 acordul meu. Nici mama ta, nici sora ta, nici altcineva.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Exagerezi.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu. \u0218i mai vreau ceva. Vreau s\u0103 recuno\u0219ti c\u0103 ai gre\u0219it c\u00e2nd le-ai chemat s\u0103 ia pachetele pe ascuns.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu a r\u00e2s dispre\u021buitor.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Pentru ni\u0219te sl\u0103nin\u0103 trebuie s\u0103-mi cer iertare?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nM-am uitat drept \u00een ochii lui.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 ai \u00eencercat s\u0103 m\u0103 p\u0103c\u0103le\u0219ti. Pentru c\u0103 ai vorbit ur\u00e2t despre mama mea. \u0218i pentru c\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd ai fost prins, ai \u00eencercat s\u0103 m\u0103 faci pe mine vinovat\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu a l\u0103sat cea\u0219ca jos.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Dac\u0103 nu-\u021bi convine familia mea, poate ar trebui s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti ce cau\u021bi \u00een c\u0103snicia asta.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nCuvintele lui au r\u0103mas suspendate \u00eentre noi.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm sim\u021bit cum mi se str\u00e2nge pieptul, dar nu mi-am cobor\u00e2t privirea.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Exact asta fac, Radu.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u00cen urm\u0103toarele zile, nu am mai \u00eencercat s\u0103 repar eu atmosfera din cas\u0103. Nu m-am mai gr\u0103bit s\u0103 preg\u0103tesc m\u00e2nc\u0103rurile preferate ale lui Radu ca s\u0103-l \u00eembunez \u0219i nici nu i-am mai cerut scuze pentru lucruri pe care nu le f\u0103cusem.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm mers la serviciu, m-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit cu Laura \u0219i am \u00eenceput s\u0103-mi pun ordine \u00een acte. Am verificat conturile, cheltuielile comune \u0219i economiile personale. Nu voiam s\u0103 iau o hot\u0103r\u00e2re la furie, dar nici s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n nepreg\u0103tit\u0103 dac\u0103 lucrurile se \u00eenr\u0103ut\u0103\u021beau.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u00centr-o sear\u0103, Laura m-a \u00eentrebat:<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mariana, tu mai e\u0219ti fericit\u0103 cu Radu?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm vrut s\u0103 r\u0103spund imediat c\u0103 da.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nA\u0219a f\u0103ceam \u00eentotdeauna c\u00e2nd cineva m\u0103 \u00eentreba despre c\u0103snicia mea.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDar de data aceasta am r\u0103mas t\u0103cut\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu \u0219tiu, am recunoscut \u00een cele din urm\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nLaura a dat din cap.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Atunci poate c\u0103 este timpul s\u0103 afli.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nTrei zile mai t\u00e2rziu, soacra mea a ap\u0103rut din nou la u\u0219\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDe data aceasta venise singur\u0103 \u0219i avea \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103 o caserol\u0103 cu sarmale.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Am venit s\u0103 facem pace, a spus ea.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm poftit-o \u00een\u0103untru, dar nu m-am gr\u0103bit s\u0103 o \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219ez.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nS-a a\u0219ezat \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie \u0219i a pus caserola pe mas\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mariana, eu sunt femeie b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103. Poate am mai zis c\u00e2te ceva la nervi. Dar nu merita s\u0103 faci at\u00e2ta scandal.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nM-am a\u0219ezat \u00een fa\u021ba ei.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Dac\u0103 a\u021bi venit s\u0103 facem pace, putem vorbi. Dar nu vreau s\u0103 ne prefacem c\u0103 nu s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat nimic.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nA oftat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Bine. \u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 am ridicat tonul.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 \u0218i pentru faptul c\u0103 voia\u021bi s\u0103 lua\u021bi sl\u0103nina f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreba\u021bi?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nM-a privit cu ne\u00eencredere.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Tot la asta ai r\u0103mas?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Da. Pentru c\u0103 asta este problema.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSoacra mea a \u00eempins caserola spre mine.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 \u021ai-am adus sarmale. Nu putem s\u0103 uit\u0103m totul?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm privit-o lini\u0219tit\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu vreau sarmale \u00een locul unei discu\u021bii sincere.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nPentru prima dat\u0103 de c\u00e2nd o cuno\u0219team, doamna Elena a r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 replic\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDup\u0103 c\u00e2teva secunde, \u0219i-a \u00eendreptat spatele.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 \u00cen familia noastr\u0103, \u00eentotdeauna am \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit totul.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 A \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bi \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 oferi de bun\u0103voie, i-am r\u0103spuns. Nu s\u0103 iei c\u00e2nd proprietarul nu este acas\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nA privit spre fereastr\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Eu am crescut doi copii cu foarte pu\u021bini bani. C\u00e2nd aveam ceva bun, \u00eel \u00eemp\u0103r\u021beam \u00eentre to\u021bi.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 \u00cen\u021beleg. Dar dumneavoastr\u0103 hot\u0103ra\u021bi ce \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bi\u021bi din lucrurile dumneavoastr\u0103. Nu hot\u0103ra\u021bi ce trebuie s\u0103 dau eu din ce primesc de la mama.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nA t\u0103cut din nou.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu m-am g\u00e2ndit a\u0219a.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Poate ar fi trebuit.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm vorbit aproape o or\u0103. Nu a fost o discu\u021bie u\u0219oar\u0103 \u0219i nici nu s-a transformat brusc \u00eentr-o femeie bl\u00e2nd\u0103. Dar, \u00eenainte s\u0103 plece, a recunoscut c\u0103 nu trebuia s\u0103 vin\u0103 cu saco\u0219ele preg\u0103tite.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nEra prima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd o auzeam spun\u00e2nd a\u0219a ceva.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu a aflat despre vizita mamei lui \u00een aceea\u0219i sear\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Deci a venit s\u0103-\u0219i cear\u0103 scuze, iar tu tot nu e\u0219ti mul\u021bumit\u0103?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm pus farfuria \u00een chiuvet\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Am discutat civilizat. Mai mult dec\u00e2t am reu\u0219it noi doi.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Ce mai vrei de la mine, Mariana?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nM-am \u00eentors spre el.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 S\u0103 fii de partea mea c\u00e2nd cineva m\u0103 nedrept\u0103\u021be\u0219te. Chiar dac\u0103 acel cineva este mama ta.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu a r\u0103mas t\u0103cut.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 \u0218i dac\u0103 eu gre\u0219esc, vreau s\u0103-mi spui. Dar nu s\u0103 m\u0103 umile\u0219ti \u0219i nu s\u0103-mi vorbe\u0219ti ca \u0219i cum p\u0103rerea mea nu conteaz\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nS-a a\u0219ezat la mas\u0103 \u0219i \u0219i-a trecut m\u00e2inile peste fa\u021b\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mama m-a crescut singur\u0103 c\u00e2\u021biva ani, dup\u0103 ce tata a plecat la munc\u0103 \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate. M-am obi\u0219nuit s\u0103-i dau dreptate, chiar \u0219i c\u00e2nd nu avea.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nL-am privit f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 spun nimic.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 C\u00e2nd se sup\u0103r\u0103 pe mine, m\u0103 simt de parc\u0103 a\u0219 avea iar zece ani, a continuat el. \u0218i \u00eencerc s\u0103 fac orice ca s\u0103 nu o aud pl\u00e2ng\u00e2nd.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Dar ca s\u0103 nu o superi pe ea, m-ai sup\u0103rat pe mine ani \u00eentregi.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nA \u00eencuviin\u021bat \u00eencet.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 \u0218tiu.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nNu l-am iertat \u00een clipa aceea.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nNu pentru c\u0103 voiam s\u0103-l pedepsesc, ci pentru c\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021basem c\u0103 o explica\u021bie nu \u0219terge automat r\u0103ul f\u0103cut.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nI-am spus c\u0103, dac\u0103 vrem s\u0103 continu\u0103m c\u0103snicia, avem nevoie de schimb\u0103ri reale. Nu de dou\u0103 zile de lini\u0219te urmate de acelea\u0219i obiceiuri.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu a acceptat s\u0103 mergem la consiliere de cuplu.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nLa prima \u0219edin\u021b\u0103 a spus c\u0103 ne certaser\u0103m din cauza unor pachete de sl\u0103nin\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nConsiliera l-a \u00eentrebat:<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Dac\u0103 era vorba doar despre sl\u0103nin\u0103, de ce a\u021bi vrut s\u0103 o lua\u021bi f\u0103r\u0103 \u0219tirea so\u021biei?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu a r\u0103mas t\u0103cut.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nApoi l-a \u00eentrebat ce ar fi sim\u021bit dac\u0103 eu a\u0219 fi procedat la fel cu un lucru primit de la tat\u0103l lui.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nPentru prima dat\u0103, l-am v\u0103zut \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2mplarea din locul meu.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nNu a fost suficient ca s\u0103 rezolve totul, dar a fost un \u00eenceput.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u00centre timp, cele zece pachete au r\u0103mas \u00een congelatorul Laurei.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u00centr-o s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103, mama m-a sunat \u0219i mi-a spus c\u0103 urma s\u0103 vin\u0103 la ora\u0219 pentru un control medical. Am rugat-o s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 la mine peste weekend.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nC\u00e2nd a ajuns, am mers \u00eempreun\u0103 la Laura \u0219i am luat dou\u0103 pachete de sl\u0103nin\u0103. Le-am pus \u00een frigider, iar seara am preg\u0103tit o mas\u0103 simpl\u0103, cu cartofi cop\u021bi, ceap\u0103 ro\u0219ie, br\u00e2nz\u0103 \u0219i p\u00e2ine proasp\u0103t\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu a venit acas\u0103 \u00eenainte de cin\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nC\u00e2nd a v\u0103zut-o pe mama, s-a oprit \u00een prag.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Bun\u0103 seara, doamn\u0103 Maria.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nMama i-a z\u00e2mbit politicos.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Bun\u0103 seara, Radu.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nS-a a\u0219ezat la mas\u0103, dar nu a atins m\u00e2ncarea p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd mama nu i-a \u00eentins un platou.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Ia \u0219i tu, dac\u0103 vrei.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu s-a uitat la mine.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Pot?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm sim\u021bit un nod \u00een g\u00e2t.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nEra o \u00eentrebare at\u00e2t de simpl\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t p\u0103rea aproape ridicol c\u0103 fusese nevoie de at\u00e2ta durere pentru ca el s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be s\u0103 o pun\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Sigur c\u0103 po\u021bi.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDup\u0103 cin\u0103, mama s-a ridicat s\u0103 spele vasele, dar Radu a oprit-o.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 L\u0103sa\u021bi, v\u0103 rog. M\u0103 ocup eu.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nMama s-a uitat la el surprins\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nu trebuie, mam\u0103, i-am spus. Las\u0103-l.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu a str\u00e2ns farfuriile \u0219i le-a dus la chiuvet\u0103. Apoi s-a \u00eentors spre mama \u0219i a r\u0103mas c\u00e2teva clipe nemi\u0219cat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Doamn\u0103 Maria, vreau s\u0103 v\u0103 spun ceva.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nMama \u0219i-a a\u0219ezat m\u00e2inile \u00een poal\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Te ascult.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u pentru ce am spus despre lucrurile pe care i le trimite\u021bi Marianei. \u0218i pentru c\u0103 am \u00eencercat s\u0103 dau altora carnea f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 o \u00eentreb. \u0218tiu c\u00e2t a\u021bi muncit \u0219i am fost lipsit de respect.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nMama l-a privit lung.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Radu, eu nu m-am sup\u0103rat c\u0103 voiai s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce \u0219i familia ta. Dac\u0103 Mariana \u00eemi spunea c\u0103 a \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit cu voi, m\u0103 bucuram. Dar m-a durut s\u0103 aflu c\u0103 ai vorbit despre munca mea de parc\u0103 n-ar fi valorat nimic.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu a cobor\u00e2t capul.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Ave\u021bi dreptate.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nMama a dat din cap.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Atunci sper s\u0103 nu se mai repete.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDup\u0103 ce mama a plecat, lucrurile nu au devenit perfecte peste noapte. Au mai existat discu\u021bii, ne\u00een\u021belegeri \u0219i momente \u00een care Radu era tentat s\u0103-i dea dreptate mamei lui doar ca s\u0103 evite o ceart\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDar de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd se \u00eent\u00e2mpla asta, \u00eei aminteam de \u00een\u021belegerea noastr\u0103. \u0218i, \u00eencet, a \u00eenceput s\u0103 se opreasc\u0103 \u00eenainte s\u0103 promit\u0103 altora lucruri care nu-i apar\u021bineau.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u00centr-o zi, doamna Elena a sunat \u0219i a cerut s\u0103-i \u00eemprumut\u0103m robotul de buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu a r\u0103spuns:<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mam\u0103, este al Marianei. Trebuie s\u0103 o \u00eentrebi pe ea.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nEu eram \u00een sufragerie \u0219i am auzit.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nN-am spus nimic, dar am z\u00e2mbit.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nNu pentru c\u0103 \u00eemi pl\u0103cea s\u0103 de\u021bin controlul asupra unui robot de buc\u0103t\u0103rie, ci pentru c\u0103, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, so\u021bul meu \u00een\u021belegea c\u0103 respectul nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 alegi \u00eentre mam\u0103 \u0219i so\u021bie. \u00censeamn\u0103 s\u0103 nu nedrept\u0103\u021be\u0219ti pe niciuna.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nC\u00e2teva luni mai t\u00e2rziu, am mers la \u021bar\u0103 s\u0103 o ajut pe mama \u00een gr\u0103din\u0103. Radu a venit cu mine \u0219i a petrecut aproape toat\u0103 ziua repar\u00e2nd poarta \u0219i c\u0103r\u00e2nd lemne.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSeara, mama a scos din c\u0103mar\u0103 un pachet de sl\u0103nin\u0103 afumat\u0103 \u0219i l-a pus pe mas\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Lua\u021bi \u0219i voi acas\u0103, ne-a spus.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu s-a uitat la mine, apoi la mama.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mul\u021bumim, dar s\u0103 p\u0103stra\u021bi \u0219i pentru dumneavoastr\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nMama a r\u00e2s.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Am destul, m\u0103i b\u0103iete. Nu v\u0103 trimit acas\u0103 cu m\u00e2na goal\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nApoi s-a \u00eentors spre mine.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mariana, dac\u0103 vrei, po\u021bi s\u0103-i duci \u0219i Elenei un pachet.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm r\u0103mas surprins\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mam\u0103, dup\u0103 tot ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nMama a ridicat din umeri.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Eu nu am nimic cu femeia aceea. Dar vreau s\u0103 fie alegerea ta, nu obliga\u021bia ta.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nM-am uitat la Radu.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nEl nu a spus nimic. Nu m-a rugat \u0219i nu a \u00eencercat s\u0103 m\u0103 conving\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nA\u0219a c\u0103 am z\u00e2mbit.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Bine, mam\u0103. \u00cei duc un pachet.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u00cen duminica urm\u0103toare, am mers la soacra mea cu pachetul de sl\u0103nin\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nC\u00e2nd l-a v\u0103zut, ochii i s-au luminat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Vai, Mariana, de unde ai f\u0103cut rost?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 De la mama. Am fost la \u021bar\u0103 \u0219i ne-a dat c\u00e2teva pachete.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDoamna Elena a \u00eentins m\u00e2na, apoi s-a oprit.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Este pentru mine?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Da. Am hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103 v\u0103 aduc \u0219i dumneavoastr\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nA luat pachetul cu ambele m\u00e2ini.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Mul\u021bumesc.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nA fost un cuv\u00e2nt simplu, dar rostit f\u0103r\u0103 ironie \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 preten\u021bii.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nApoi a ad\u0103ugat:<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 S\u0103-i transmi\u021bi \u0219i mamei tale mul\u021bumirile mele. Se simte c\u0103 este f\u0103cut\u0103 cu grij\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nM-am uitat la ea \u0219i am sim\u021bit c\u0103 ceva din \u00eencordarea dintre noi se mai risipise.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nNu uitasem trecutul. Dar nici nu mai sim\u021beam nevoia s\u0103 m\u0103 r\u0103zbun.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n***<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAst\u0103zi, c\u00e2nd m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc la ziua aceea, \u00eemi amintesc mai \u00eent\u00e2i mirosul de fum care a umplut buc\u0103t\u0103ria c\u00e2nd am deschis pachetul mamei.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nApoi \u00eemi amintesc saco\u0219ele goale cu care au venit soacra \u0219i cumnata mea, convinse c\u0103 vor pleca \u00eenc\u0103rcate.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nDar cel mai bine \u00eemi amintesc senza\u021bia pe care am avut-o c\u00e2nd am spus pentru prima dat\u0103 \u201enu\u201d \u0219i nu m-am mai r\u0103zg\u00e2ndit doar ca s\u0103 nu sup\u0103r pe cineva.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nNu sl\u0103nina a fost cea care mi-a schimbat via\u021ba.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nCi faptul c\u0103 am \u00eencetat s\u0103 mai confund bun\u0103tatea cu obliga\u021bia de a accepta orice.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nMama crescuse un porc un an \u00eentreg, \u00eel preg\u0103tise cu m\u00e2inile ei \u0219i \u00eemi trimisese o parte din munca ei. Soacra mea v\u0103zuse \u00een pachetele acelea o ocazie s\u0103-\u0219i umple congelatorul. Iar Radu, obi\u0219nuit s\u0103-i fac\u0103 pe plac, uitase c\u0103 \u00eenainte s\u0103 ofere ceva trebuia s\u0103 se g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 \u0219i la mine.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u00cen ziua aceea, fiecare dintre noi a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u00e2te ceva.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nSoacra mea a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u0103 nu tot ce intr\u0103 \u00een casa fiului ei \u00eei apar\u021bine.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nRadu a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u0103 o c\u0103snicie nu poate func\u021biona f\u0103r\u0103 respect \u0219i \u00eencredere.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nIar eu am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u0103 pot s\u0103-mi iubesc familia f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 las c\u0103lcat\u0103 \u00een picioare.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nC\u00e2nd mama m-a sunat \u00een iarna urm\u0103toare \u0219i m-a \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 s\u0103-mi mai trimit\u0103 sl\u0103nin\u0103 afumat\u0103, am izbucnit \u00een r\u00e2s.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Trimite, mam\u0103. Dar de data asta s\u0103 nu te mai chinui cu zece kilograme.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 De ce, fata mea? Nu \u021bi-a pl\u0103cut?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Ba mi-a pl\u0103cut foarte mult.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Atunci ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat?<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nAm z\u00e2mbit \u0219i m-am uitat spre Radu, care preg\u0103tea masa.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 Nimic r\u0103u, mam\u0103. Doar c\u0103 acum \u0219tim cu to\u021bii s\u0103 \u00eentreb\u0103m \u00eenainte s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bim.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nMama a r\u00e2s \u0219i ea.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u2014 A\u0219a s\u0103 fie, fata mea. C\u0103 m\u00e2ncarea este mai bun\u0103 c\u00e2nd se \u00eemparte din drag, nu c\u00e2nd se ia cu for\u021ba.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\n\u0218i avea dreptate.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nPentru c\u0103, \u00een cele din urm\u0103, nu conteaz\u0103 c\u00e2t de plin este frigiderul unei familii.<br \/>\n\u2800<br \/>\nConteaz\u0103 c\u00e2t respect exist\u0103 \u00eentre oamenii care se a\u0219az\u0103 la aceea\u0219i mas\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>PARTEA 2 \u2800 Soacra mea, doamna Elena, a r\u0103mas cu m\u00e2na \u00eentins\u0103 spre frigider, de parc\u0103 cineva \u00eei furase ceva ce \u00eei apar\u021binea. Ochii i s-au plimbat de la oala cu fasole la punga cu legume, apoi la rafturile aproape goale. A \u00eenchis frigiderul \u0219i l-a deschis din nou, convins\u0103 probabil c\u0103, la a doua [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":29252,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29994","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diverse"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29994","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=29994"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29994\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29995,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29994\/revisions\/29995"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/29252"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=29994"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=29994"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=29994"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}