{"id":5393,"date":"2025-08-30T06:18:00","date_gmt":"2025-08-30T06:18:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=5393"},"modified":"2025-08-30T06:18:00","modified_gmt":"2025-08-30T06:18:00","slug":"fiica-mea-se-incuia-in-baie-si-manca-acolo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=5393","title":{"rendered":"Fiica mea se \u00eencuia \u00een baie \u0219i m\u00e2nca acolo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"1555\" data-end=\"1745\">Am urm\u0103rit cu inima str\u00e2ns\u0103 fiecare mi\u0219care. Feti\u021ba mesteca \u00eencet, lini\u0219tit, iar \u00een jur totul p\u0103rea normal. Apoi, brusc, a ridicat privirea spre col\u021bul \u00eenc\u0103perii \u0219i a \u00eenceput s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1747\" data-end=\"1870\">Nu era un monolog obi\u0219nuit, nu era o joac\u0103 de copil. Din glasul ei se sim\u021bea team\u0103 \u0219i supunere, de parc\u0103 r\u0103spundea cuiva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1872\" data-end=\"1931\">\u2014 \u201eDa\u2026 am m\u00e2ncat tot. Nu, nu voi l\u0103sa nimic \u00een farfurie\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1933\" data-end=\"2063\">Am sim\u021bit cum \u00eemi fuge p\u0103m\u00e2ntul de sub picioare. \u00cen baie nu era nimeni, dar copilul meu se purta ca \u0219i cum ar sta \u00een fa\u021ba cuiva.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2065\" data-end=\"2253\">Am dat fuga spre u\u0219\u0103, am \u00eencercat s\u0103 intru, dar cheia era r\u0103sucit\u0103 pe din\u0103untru. Am b\u0103tut cu putere \u0219i am strigat-o, \u00eens\u0103 ea nu m-a auzit. Continua s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103 la acea prezen\u021b\u0103 nev\u0103zut\u0103.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2255\" data-end=\"2416\">C\u00e2nd, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, am reu\u0219it s\u0103 deschid, fiica mea s-a speriat, a s\u0103rit de pe scaun \u0219i a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103. Am luat-o \u00een bra\u021be \u0219i am \u00eentrebat-o printre lacrimi:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2418\" data-end=\"2454\">\u2014 \u201eCu cine vorbeai acolo, puiule?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2456\" data-end=\"2501\">A ridicat ochii mari spre mine \u0219i a \u0219optit:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2503\" data-end=\"2596\">\u2014 \u201eCu b\u0103ie\u021belul care st\u0103 \u00een col\u021b. El \u00eemi spune c\u0103, dac\u0103 nu m\u0103n\u00e2nc aici, se sup\u0103r\u0103 pe tine\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2598\" data-end=\"2773\">Am sim\u021bit cum m\u0103 trec fiorii. \u00cen casa noastr\u0103, col\u021bul acela fusese mereu rece, de parc\u0103 ar fi venit un curent de aer din pere\u021bi. Nu i-am dat importan\u021b\u0103 niciodat\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 acum.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2775\" data-end=\"3067\">Din acea zi, via\u021ba noastr\u0103 s-a schimbat. Am adus un preot s\u0103 sfin\u021beasc\u0103 locuin\u021ba, dup\u0103 obiceiul str\u0103mo\u0219esc. Cu ap\u0103 sfin\u021bit\u0103, cruci \u0219i rug\u0103ciuni, am \u00eencercat s\u0103 alung\u0103m tot ce era r\u0103u. \u00cen cultura noastr\u0103, c\u00e2nd un copil vede sau simte ceva straniu, p\u0103rin\u021bii nu ignor\u0103 \u2013 iau \u00een serios semnele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3069\" data-end=\"3216\">Dup\u0103 sfin\u021bire, fiica mea a refuzat s\u0103 mai intre singur\u0103 \u00een baie. La mas\u0103, \u00eens\u0103, a \u00eenceput din nou s\u0103 stea al\u0103turi de noi, cum f\u0103cuse \u00eentotdeauna.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3218\" data-end=\"3435\">Zilele au trecut \u0219i, \u00eencet-\u00eencet, am sim\u021bit c\u0103 lini\u0219tea se \u00eentoarce \u00een cas\u0103. Dar privirea ei, atunci c\u00e2nd trece pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 col\u021bul rece al b\u0103ii, \u00eemi aminte\u0219te c\u0103 experien\u021ba aceea a fost c\u00e2t se poate de real\u0103 pentru ea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3437\" data-end=\"3680\">Eu, ca p\u0103rinte, am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat ceva esen\u021bial: s\u0103 ascult semnele, s\u0103 nu desconsider niciodat\u0103 temerile copilului \u0219i s\u0103 nu uit tradi\u021biile noastre. \u00cen satul bunicilor mei se spunea mereu c\u0103 \u201eunde e fric\u0103 de copil, e ceva ce ochiul marelui nu vede\u201d.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3682\" data-end=\"3898\">Ast\u0103zi, la cin\u0103, fiica mea r\u00e2de, poveste\u0219te, gust\u0103 cu poft\u0103 din sarmale \u0219i din cozonacul cald pe care i-l fac. \u0218i, \u00een timp ce o privesc, m\u0103 rog ca niciun \u201eb\u0103ie\u021bel din col\u021b\u201d s\u0103 nu-i mai umbreasc\u0103 vreodat\u0103 copil\u0103ria.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3900\" data-end=\"4175\">Pentru c\u0103 uneori, ceea ce noi, adul\u021bii, credem c\u0103 e doar imagina\u021bie, poate fi un strig\u0103t mut dup\u0103 ajutor. Iar \u00een acele momente, singurul scut adev\u0103rat este iubirea, credin\u021ba \u0219i puterea de a ne \u00eentoarce la obiceiurile \u0219i credin\u021bele care ne-au \u021binut uni\u021bi ca neam de veacuri.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am urm\u0103rit cu inima str\u00e2ns\u0103 fiecare mi\u0219care. Feti\u021ba mesteca \u00eencet, lini\u0219tit, iar \u00een jur totul p\u0103rea normal. Apoi, brusc, a ridicat privirea spre col\u021bul \u00eenc\u0103perii \u0219i a \u00eenceput s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103. Nu era un monolog obi\u0219nuit, nu era o joac\u0103 de copil. Din glasul ei se sim\u021bea team\u0103 \u0219i supunere, de parc\u0103 r\u0103spundea cuiva. \u2014 \u201eDa\u2026 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5394,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5393","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5393","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5393"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5393\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5395,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5393\/revisions\/5395"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5394"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5393"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5393"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5393"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}