Un cuplu ar trebui \u00eentotdeauna s\u0103 aib\u0103 o discu\u021bie privat\u0103 despre dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i doresc sau nu copii. C\u00e2nd al\u021bi membri ai familiei intervin, lucrurile pot deveni complicate. Lua\u021bi acest exemplu. O mam\u0103 nu poate accepta ideea de a nu avea nepo\u021bi, a\u0219a c\u0103 refuz\u0103 s\u0103 lase fiicei sale orice fel de mo\u0219tenire.<\/p>\n
I-am spus clar c\u0103 nu va primi nimic din mo\u0219tenirea mea.
Mama spune: \u201eFiica mea s-a c\u0103s\u0103torit anul trecut \u0219i am sperat \u00een t\u0103cere la un nepot de atunci. \u00centr-o zi, mi-a spus: \u00abMam\u0103, sunt infertil\u0103\u00bb. Am r\u0103mas \u0219ocat\u0103. \u00abNu vei primi nimic din mo\u0219tenirea mea\u00bb, am avertizat-o.\u201d<\/p>\n
Recent, au adoptat o feti\u021b\u0103. Fiica mea m-a \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 asta se pune, iar eu i-am r\u0103spuns: \u201eNu, nu este copilul t\u0103u biologic.\u201d Spre groaza mea, o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 mai t\u00e2rziu, au ap\u0103rut la mine acas\u0103 cu actele de adop\u021bie \u0219i cu un avocat.<\/p>\n
Lucrurile au devenit foarte complicate.
Ea continu\u0103: \u201eOchii fiicei mele erau ro\u0219ii de la pl\u00e2ns, dar vocea \u00eei era ferm\u0103 c\u00e2nd a spus: \u00abAi l\u0103sat clar de \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 pentru tine doar s\u00e2ngele conteaz\u0103. A\u0219a c\u0103 am luat o decizie.\u00bb Apoi so\u021bul ei a f\u0103cut un pas \u00eenainte, str\u00e2ng\u00e2ndu-\u0219i la piept fiica adoptiv\u0103, \u0219i mi-a \u00eentins un document.<\/p>\n
Era o cerere prin care se renun\u021ba oficial la drepturile mele de bunic\u0103. Fiica mea a spus: \u00abDac\u0103 ea nu e familia ta, atunci nici noi nu suntem.\u00bb A tr\u00e2ntit u\u0219a. Nu-mi venea s\u0103 cred. Mi-am pierdut fiica. Nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 fac.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Un cuplu ar trebui \u00eentotdeauna s\u0103 aib\u0103 o discu\u021bie privat\u0103 despre dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i doresc sau nu copii. C\u00e2nd al\u021bi membri ai familiei intervin, lucrurile pot deveni complicate. Lua\u021bi acest exemplu. O mam\u0103 nu poate accepta ideea de a nu avea nepo\u021bi, a\u0219a c\u0103 refuz\u0103 s\u0103 lase fiicei sale orice fel de mo\u0219tenire. I-am spus clar […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5400,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5399","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5399","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5399"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5399\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5401,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5399\/revisions\/5401"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5400"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5399"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5399"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5399"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}