Nu pretind s\u0103 sim\u021bi\u021bi mil\u0103 pentru mine; dimpotriv\u0103, m\u0103 consider cu adev\u0103rat fericit\u0103 cu via\u021ba pe care am construit-o, chiar dac\u0103 la 70 de ani nu am copii.<\/p>\n
Odat\u0103, \u00een timpul unei vizite la dermatolog, a trebuit s\u0103 a\u0219tept destul de mult pe hol, a\u0219a cum se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 de obicei. Acolo am cunoscut o doamn\u0103 a c\u0103rei poveste mi-a schimbat felul de a privi lumea.<\/p>\n
Mi-a atras aten\u021bia prin aspectul ei impecabil \u0219i elegant. P\u0103rea s\u0103 aib\u0103 \u00een jur de 65 de ani, dar vorbind cu ea, am fost surprins\u0103 s\u0103 descop\u0103r c\u0103 trecuse deja de 70.<\/p>\n
Mi-a \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219it faptul c\u0103 fusese c\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103 de dou\u0103 ori, de\u0219i acum era singur\u0103. Primul mariaj s-a \u00eencheiat prin divor\u021b. \u00cenc\u0103 de la \u00eenceput \u00eei spusese so\u021bului ei c\u0103 nu \u00ee\u0219i dorea copii. El acceptase ini\u021bial, dar c\u00e2nd ea a \u00eemplinit 30 de ani, a reluat subiectul sper\u00e2nd c\u0103, la un moment dat, va dori s\u0103 devin\u0103 mam\u0103.<\/p>\n
Acea dorin\u021b\u0103 nu s-a \u00eemplinit niciodat\u0103, motiv pentru care, dup\u0103 discu\u021bii repetate, au decis s\u0103 se despart\u0103.<\/p>\n
Mai t\u00e2rziu, s-a c\u0103s\u0103torit cu un b\u0103rbat care avea o fiic\u0103 dintr-o rela\u021bie anterioar\u0103. Convie\u021buirea lor a fost armonioas\u0103, pentru c\u0103 subiectul copiilor nu a mai ap\u0103rut niciodat\u0103. El nu era deranjat de faptul c\u0103 ea nu voia s\u0103 aib\u0103 copii, pentru c\u0103 deja avea o fiic\u0103.<\/p>\n
Din p\u0103cate, al doilea so\u021b al ei a murit, iar de atunci tr\u0103ie\u0219te singur\u0103 \u00eentr-o cas\u0103 spa\u021bioas\u0103, asigur\u00e2ndu-se c\u0103 singur\u0103tatea nu este o problem\u0103 pentru ea.<\/p>\n
Mul\u021bi oameni presupun c\u0103 fiii vor fi un sprijin la b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021be \u0219i vor fi mereu aproape. Totu\u0219i, ea are o alt\u0103 p\u0103rere: copiii cresc \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i urmeaz\u0103 propriul drum, construindu-\u0219i vie\u021bi separate de cele ale p\u0103rin\u021bilor.<\/p>\n
Din acest motiv nu \u0219i-a dorit niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 fie mam\u0103. Nu regret\u0103 alegerea nici acum, nici vreodat\u0103. \u00ce\u0219i tr\u0103ie\u0219te via\u021ba pe deplin \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i satisface propriile nevoi. \u201eIar \u00een ceea ce prive\u0219te s\u0103-mi aduc\u0103 cineva un pahar cu ap\u0103, oricine o poate face, at\u00e2t timp c\u00e2t \u00eel pl\u0103tesc pentru asta\u201d, a spus ea z\u00e2mbind.<\/p>\n
Ce p\u0103rere ai despre aceast\u0103 form\u0103 aparte de a interpreta via\u021ba \u0219i fericirea?<\/p>\n
\u00cen definitiv, povestea ei reflect\u0103 o viziune asupra vie\u021bii bazat\u0103 pe independen\u021b\u0103 \u0219i \u00eemplinire personal\u0103, care pune sub semnul \u00eentreb\u0103rii credin\u021bele comune despre maternitate \u0219i b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021bea tr\u0103it\u0103 al\u0103turi de copii. Experien\u021ba ei arat\u0103 c\u0103 satisfac\u021bia vie\u021bii nu depinde de leg\u0103turile familiale tradi\u021bionale, ci de sensul pe care fiecare \u0219i-l d\u0103 propriei existen\u021be.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nu pretind s\u0103 sim\u021bi\u021bi mil\u0103 pentru mine; dimpotriv\u0103, m\u0103 consider cu adev\u0103rat fericit\u0103 cu via\u021ba pe care am construit-o, chiar dac\u0103 la 70 de ani nu am copii. Odat\u0103, \u00een timpul unei vizite la dermatolog, a trebuit s\u0103 a\u0219tept destul de mult pe hol, a\u0219a cum se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 de obicei. Acolo am cunoscut o doamn\u0103 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6517,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6516","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6516","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6516"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6516\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6518,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6516\/revisions\/6518"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6517"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6516"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6516"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6516"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}