{"id":825,"date":"2025-07-15T07:23:24","date_gmt":"2025-07-15T07:23:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=825"},"modified":"2025-07-15T07:23:24","modified_gmt":"2025-07-15T07:23:24","slug":"ea-e-deja-batrana-curand-apartamentul-asta-o-sa-fie-al-nostru","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=825","title":{"rendered":"\u201eEa e deja b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103. Cur\u00e2nd, apartamentul \u0103sta o s\u0103 fie al nostru.\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pentru c\u0103 fiul meu \u0219i so\u021bia lui credeau c\u0103 dorm, vorbeau liber, iar eu n-am putut s\u0103 nu le aud discu\u021bia. Ceea ce spuneau m-a durut profund \u0219i m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 m\u0103 simt o povar\u0103 pentru familia mea. Am decis s\u0103 nu le spun nimic pe moment, \u0219tiind c\u0103 oricum nu le voi schimba atitudinea fa\u021b\u0103 de mine.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen cur\u00e2nd voi \u00eemplini \u0219aptezeci \u0219i cinci de ani, iar so\u021bul meu a murit \u00een urm\u0103 cu doisprezece ani. C\u00e2nd fiul meu s-a c\u0103s\u0103torit \u0219i s-au mutat am\u00e2ndoi la noi \u00een cas\u0103, \u00eenc\u0103 sim\u021beam c\u0103 locuin\u021ba \u00eemi apar\u021bine. \u00cens\u0103, pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce anii au trecut, g\u00e2ndurile \u0219i nevoile mele au fost tot mai des ignorate \u0219i am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 simt ca o chiria\u0219\u0103 \u00een propria mea cas\u0103. Dup\u0103 ce le-am auzit vorbele jignitoare, am sim\u021bit c\u0103, \u00eentr-un fel, e mai bine c\u0103 so\u021bul meu nu mai e \u00een via\u021b\u0103 ca s\u0103 le aud\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Am decis s\u0103-i \u00eenv\u0103\u021b s\u0103 m\u0103 respecte, indiferent de v\u00e2rsta mea. Poate c\u0103 pentru ei aceasta este acum \u201eacas\u0103\u201d, dar r\u0103m\u00e2ne totu\u0219i proprietatea mea \u0219i nu voi permite s\u0103 fiu tratat\u0103 cu lips\u0103 de respect. C\u00e2nd au plecat la serviciu, am str\u00e2ns toate lucrurile lor \u0219i le-am pus pe casa sc\u0103rii. Cu ajutorul unui vecin, am schimbat \u00eencuietoarea \u0219i le-am transmis c\u0103 nu vor mai putea intra \u00een cas\u0103 dac\u0103 nu vor da dovad\u0103 de respectul pe care \u00eel merit.<\/p>\n<p>Reac\u021bia lor nu a fost deloc pl\u0103cut\u0103. Au \u021bipat \u0219i m-au amenin\u021bat c\u0103 m\u0103 vor interna \u00eentr-un spital de psihiatrie sau c\u0103 vor chema poli\u021bia. Dar eu am r\u0103mas ferm\u0103 \u0219i nu am cedat. Le-am spus c\u0103 sunt gata chiar s\u0103 v\u00e2nd apartamentul sau s\u0103-l las altei persoane prin testament. \u00cen ciuda \u021bipetelor \u0219i amenin\u021b\u0103rilor lor, am r\u0103mas calm\u0103, uit\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 la televizor, con\u0219tient\u0103 c\u0103 nu \u00een\u021beleg c\u00e2t de mult m-au r\u0103nit cuvintele lor.<\/p>\n<p>A trecut cam o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd am reu\u0219it s\u0103 st\u0103m de vorb\u0103. Fiul meu m-a sunat \u0219i \u0219i-a cerut iertare, iar eu i-am acceptat scuzele. Am hot\u0103r\u00e2t \u00eempreun\u0103 c\u0103 vor locui separat, fiindc\u0103 eu sunt \u00een continuare proprietara locuin\u021bei \u0219i nu vreau s\u0103 fiu deranjat\u0103. Poate \u00eentr-o zi vor mo\u0219teni aceast\u0103 cas\u0103, dar p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci, merit s\u0103 fiu respectat\u0103 \u0219i tratat\u0103 cu demnitate.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pentru c\u0103 fiul meu \u0219i so\u021bia lui credeau c\u0103 dorm, vorbeau liber, iar eu n-am putut s\u0103 nu le aud discu\u021bia. Ceea ce spuneau m-a durut profund \u0219i m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 m\u0103 simt o povar\u0103 pentru familia mea. Am decis s\u0103 nu le spun nimic pe moment, \u0219tiind c\u0103 oricum nu le voi schimba atitudinea [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":826,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-825","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/825","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=825"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/825\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":827,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/825\/revisions\/827"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/826"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=825"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=825"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=825"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}