{"id":8784,"date":"2025-10-13T06:53:28","date_gmt":"2025-10-13T06:53:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=8784"},"modified":"2025-10-13T06:53:28","modified_gmt":"2025-10-13T06:53:28","slug":"am-plecat-de-acasa-la-18-ani-hotarata-sa-mi-construiesc-viata-am-mers-la-facultate-in-alt-judet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=8784","title":{"rendered":"Am plecat de acas\u0103 la 18 ani, hot\u0103r\u00e2t\u0103 s\u0103-mi construiesc via\u021ba. Am mers la facultate \u00een alt jude\u021b."},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"100\">Am plecat de acas\u0103 la 18 ani, hot\u0103r\u00e2t\u0103 s\u0103-mi construiesc via\u021ba. Am mers la facultate \u00een alt jude\u021b.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"102\" data-end=\"370\">C\u00e2nd aveam 23 de ani, mama s-a \u00eemboln\u0103vit. N-am vizitat-o deloc, eram prins\u0103 cu cei doi copii mici \u0219i cu propriile mele greut\u0103\u021bi. Au trecut 5 ani de atunci, iar acum mama \u0219i-a f\u0103cut testamentul \u2014 nu voi primi nimic. Nici casa, nici economiile, nici m\u0103car o amintire.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"372\" data-end=\"499\">Mama mi-a spus: \u201eNu te-ai purtat ca o fiic\u0103! Nu m-ai considerat niciodat\u0103 familie. A\u0219a c\u0103 n-ai niciun drept!\u201d Am z\u00e2mbit doar.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"501\" data-end=\"652\">Ceea ce ea nu \u0219tia era c\u0103 m-am \u021binut departe ca s-o protejez. Nu sunt fiica rea pe care crede ea c\u0103 o are. A\u0219a c\u0103, \u00eentr-un final, i-am spus adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"654\" data-end=\"978\">A r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 culoare \u00een obraji c\u00e2nd i-am m\u0103rturisit c\u0103 eram grav bolnav\u0103 chiar \u00een aceea\u0219i perioad\u0103 cu ea. Fusesem diagnosticat\u0103 cu o boal\u0103 serioas\u0103 la 23 de ani, la doar 8 zile dup\u0103 ce s-a \u00eemboln\u0103vit \u0219i ea. Cu doi copii sub 3 ani \u0219i o s\u0103n\u0103tate \u0219ubred\u0103, abia reu\u0219eam s\u0103 fac fa\u021b\u0103 vie\u021bii, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tiu dac\u0103 o s\u0103 scap cu bine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"980\" data-end=\"1164\">Urma un tratament \u0219i nu aveam puterea nici m\u0103car s\u0103 c\u0103l\u0103toresc. Mi-era team\u0103 c\u0103, dac\u0103 ar fi aflat c\u0103 \u0219i eu sunt bolnav\u0103, s-ar fi nec\u0103jit \u0219i boala ei s-ar fi agravat. A\u0219a c\u0103 am t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1166\" data-end=\"1337\">Acum, dup\u0103 5 ani, s\u0103n\u0103tatea mea s-a stabilizat, iar mama \u00eencepe \u0219i ea s\u0103-\u0219i revin\u0103. Am mers, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, s-o vizitez \u2014 doar ca s\u0103 aud vestea care m-a l\u0103sat f\u0103r\u0103 cuvinte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1339\" data-end=\"1448\">C\u00e2nd a aflat adev\u0103rul, a izbucnit \u00een pl\u00e2ns \u0219i mi-a spus c\u0103 n-ar fi trebuit niciodat\u0103 s\u0103-i ascund boala mea.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1450\" data-end=\"1601\">\u0218i totu\u0219i&#8230; nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 pot s-o iert. Faptul c\u0103 m-a \u0219ters din testament a ar\u0103tat c\u00e2t de repede m-a judecat, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-mi dea m\u0103car o \u0219ans\u0103 s\u0103 explic.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1603\" data-end=\"1691\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Poate c\u0103 sunt prea dur\u0103, dar nu mai \u0219tiu cum o s\u0103 arate rela\u021bia noastr\u0103 de acum \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am plecat de acas\u0103 la 18 ani, hot\u0103r\u00e2t\u0103 s\u0103-mi construiesc via\u021ba. Am mers la facultate \u00een alt jude\u021b. C\u00e2nd aveam 23 de ani, mama s-a \u00eemboln\u0103vit. N-am vizitat-o deloc, eram prins\u0103 cu cei doi copii mici \u0219i cu propriile mele greut\u0103\u021bi. Au trecut 5 ani de atunci, iar acum mama \u0219i-a f\u0103cut testamentul \u2014 nu [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8785,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8784","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8784","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8784"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8784\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8786,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8784\/revisions\/8786"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/8785"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8784"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8784"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8784"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}