{"id":9753,"date":"2025-10-23T14:43:22","date_gmt":"2025-10-23T14:43:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=9753"},"modified":"2025-10-23T14:43:22","modified_gmt":"2025-10-23T14:43:22","slug":"n-aveam-destule-griji-asa-ca-m-am-dus-la-munca-in-strainatate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/?p=9753","title":{"rendered":"N-aveam destule griji, a\u0219a c\u0103 m-am dus la munc\u0103 \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate."},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"1511\" data-end=\"1824\">&#8230;pentru c\u0103 nu-mi puteam imagina cum a\u0219 putea cre\u0219te un copil \u00eentr-o \u021bar\u0103 str\u0103in\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 sprijin, f\u0103r\u0103 familie, f\u0103r\u0103 un viitor sigur. Noaptea nu dormeam. Pl\u00e2ngeam \u00een t\u0103cere, str\u00e2ng\u00e2nd \u00een palm\u0103 cruciuli\u021ba pe care mi-o d\u0103duse so\u021bul meu \u00eenainte s\u0103 plece. \u00cel sim\u021beam parc\u0103 al\u0103turi de mine \u0219i m\u0103 mustra f\u0103r\u0103 cuvinte.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1826\" data-end=\"2080\">\u00centr-o diminea\u021b\u0103, \u00een timp ce \u00eei preg\u0103team lui Marius micul dejun, el m-a privit atent \u0219i mi-a spus: \u201eAi ceva pe suflet, se vede. Vrei s\u0103-mi spui ce e?\u201d<br data-start=\"1977\" data-end=\"1980\" \/>M-am \u00eenro\u0219it, am dat din cap c\u0103 nu, dar lacrimile m-au tr\u0103dat. Atunci am cedat \u0219i i-am spus totul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2082\" data-end=\"2332\">S-a f\u0103cut lini\u0219te. El n-a zis nimic minute \u00een \u0219ir, doar s-a ridicat, a venit l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine \u0219i mi-a pus m\u00e2na pe um\u0103r. \u201eCopilul \u0103sta e o binecuv\u00e2ntare, Maria. Eu credeam c\u0103 nu o s\u0103 mai pot avea o familie. Poate Dumnezeu a vrut s\u0103 ne dea o a doua \u0219ans\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2334\" data-end=\"2420\">Cuvintele lui mi-au r\u0103mas \u00eentip\u0103rite \u00een minte. A doua \u0219ans\u0103&#8230; poate chiar asta era.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2422\" data-end=\"2733\">Zilele au trecut, iar \u00een sufletul meu s-a f\u0103cut lumin\u0103. Am decis s\u0103 p\u0103strez copilul. Mi-era fric\u0103, dar sim\u021beam c\u0103 fac ceea ce trebuie. Marius a fost al\u0103turi de mine la fiecare pas \u2013 la controale, la cump\u0103r\u0103turi, la plimb\u0103ri prin parc. De multe ori \u00eemi spunea c\u0103 n-a mai fost at\u00e2t de fericit de c\u00e2nd era t\u00e2n\u0103r.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2735\" data-end=\"2914\">C\u00e2nd s-a n\u0103scut b\u0103ie\u021belul, l-a \u021binut \u00een bra\u021be \u0219i a pl\u00e2ns. \u201eS\u0103-i punem numele Andrei\u201d, a zis. \u201eA\u0219a \u00eel chema pe fratele meu, care n-a avut parte de via\u021b\u0103 lung\u0103.\u201d Am fost de acord.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2916\" data-end=\"3173\">Anii au trecut, iar eu nu m-am mai \u00eentors \u00een Rom\u00e2nia. Mi-era dor de cas\u0103, de fiica mea, dar \u0219tiam c\u0103 aici am g\u0103sit lini\u0219tea pe care o pierdusem. \u00cei scriam mereu fiicei mele, \u00eei povesteam despre Andrei, despre cum merge, cum r\u00e2de, cum seam\u0103n\u0103 cu tat\u0103l lui.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3175\" data-end=\"3496\">Dup\u0103 trei ani, m-am hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103 merg acas\u0103, m\u0103car \u00een vizit\u0103. C\u00e2nd am intrat \u00een apartamentul fiicei mele, ea s-a uitat la mine, apoi la copilul din bra\u021bele mele \u0219i a \u00eentrebat, uimit\u0103:<br data-start=\"3356\" data-end=\"3359\" \/>\u2013 Mam\u0103, al cui e b\u0103ie\u021belul?<br data-start=\"3386\" data-end=\"3389\" \/>\u2013 Al meu, draga mea, al meu \u0219i al unui om bun, care m-a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u0103 via\u021ba nu se termin\u0103 c\u00e2nd pierzi totul.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3498\" data-end=\"3623\">Ea a izbucnit \u00een pl\u00e2ns \u0219i m-a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at str\u00e2ns. \u201eE\u0219ti cea mai curajoas\u0103 femeie pe care o \u0219tiu\u201d, mi-a spus printre lacrimi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3625\" data-end=\"3763\">Atunci am \u00een\u021beles ceva simplu, dar profund: via\u021ba \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103 lovituri, dar tot ea \u00ee\u021bi ofer\u0103 \u0219i drumuri noi, dac\u0103 ai curajul s\u0103 mergi pe ele.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3765\" data-end=\"4041\">Ast\u0103zi, Andrei are cinci ani. Alearg\u0103 prin gr\u0103din\u0103 \u0219i strig\u0103 \u201emami, uite fluturele!\u201d iar Marius \u00eel urm\u0103re\u0219te cu z\u00e2mbetul acela cald, pe care \u00eel \u0219tiu at\u00e2t de bine. Eu privesc la ei \u0219i simt c\u0103, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, dup\u0103 at\u00e2\u021bia ani de pierdere \u0219i durere, am g\u0103sit din nou sensul vie\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4043\" data-end=\"4217\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Uneori nu trebuie s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem de ce ni se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 anumite lucruri. Trebuie doar s\u0103 credem c\u0103, undeva, cineva are un plan mai mare pentru noi. Eu am crezut \u2014 \u0219i n-am gre\u0219it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;pentru c\u0103 nu-mi puteam imagina cum a\u0219 putea cre\u0219te un copil \u00eentr-o \u021bar\u0103 str\u0103in\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 sprijin, f\u0103r\u0103 familie, f\u0103r\u0103 un viitor sigur. Noaptea nu dormeam. Pl\u00e2ngeam \u00een t\u0103cere, str\u00e2ng\u00e2nd \u00een palm\u0103 cruciuli\u021ba pe care mi-o d\u0103duse so\u021bul meu \u00eenainte s\u0103 plece. \u00cel sim\u021beam parc\u0103 al\u0103turi de mine \u0219i m\u0103 mustra f\u0103r\u0103 cuvinte. \u00centr-o diminea\u021b\u0103, \u00een [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9754,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9753","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-povesti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9753","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9753"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9753\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9755,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9753\/revisions\/9755"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/9754"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9753"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9753"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bumzi.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9753"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}